>have semi-dead groupchat with friends where somebody types something interesting or funny two to three times a week
>long time female friend i've been chatting with the past 6 or so years is also in the groupchat
>we haven't DMed each other in like a year and haven't really hung out ever since she got a boyfriend
>was really flirtatious with me all those years for a reason
>she usually takes an entire day in the groupchat to respond to other people but instantly replies to whatever dumb shit I post in there within 7 minutes tops but I never respond back
>despite this she does not start a conversation in dms or invite me to hang out or anything
whats her gameplan here? am I just overthinking this too much?

>>81961664 (OP)
>with friends

>>81961664 (OP)
Maybe you are just a really interesting guy to her and she is not interest in you romantically whatsoever but thinks you are funny/insightful. Women are dumb. Maybe you found one that really feels this way about you.
>but why doesnt she dm me
She isnt interested in you personally. Only you at a distance in the communicational commons. You are a fellow traveler not really a friend or a lover.
>no! She must like me
Do you want this to be true because it feels like you want this to be true.

Take a shot on her. If it does not work out then maybe she really is just interested in your takes and not you personally.

>>81961664 (OP)
the group chat is semi dead, like you said.

>>81961707
but why instantly reply? thats weirdo behaviour

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iI914iWT1xY

>>81961704
>Take a shot on her.
Did you forget the whole boyfriend thing?