>finally got a gf
>sex isnt on tap
im trying to be polite and let her initiate but its just not working

>>81962411 (OP)
Look up the wiki for difference in sex drives. Men on average have 20 - 100 times more urge to do it

I blame the millenneals for trying to make it seem that women and men have the same sex drives. It used to be common knowledge before

>>81962411 (OP)
>be polite and let her initiate
Big mistake

Women are more shy by nature and like when a man takes lead. Thats not to say you have to be super dominant or whatever but being passive is a one way ticket to not getting any

>>81962428
This is the cutest picture I've ever seen.

>>81962411 (OP)
Foreplay retard. Seduce her. Turn her on. Then pull back. Make her want it.

>>81962476
>Women are more shy by nature

Until it's Chad. Then, all of a sudden, they're able to put their hands on you and flirt with body language and other gray area body contact.

>>81962411 (OP)
>>sex isnt on tap
did you think it would be? did you not know the average couple fucks like twice a week? the only way to have sex on tap is either hookers or multiple booty calls

>>81962411 (OP)
Mine wants us to wait until we move in together
She's 20 and a virgin though and we want to marry so at least that's that

But yeah it fucking sucks man
Might wait a few years until she graduates and i rack in enough cash
Makes me want to die

>>81962411 (OP)
just dont push her, ive been in a relation where he had a major sex drive when i dont really enjoy sex and it was miserable

>>81962411 (OP)
>im trying to be polite and let her initiate
due to psychology and culture, the man has to do this. sorry chud but you gotta man the fuck up and initiate with your girl. idk drink a bit to loosen up before or something

>>81962411 (OP)
shes probably not that attracted to you
ive had sex with my wife almost every single day since we moved in together almost 3 years ago

>>81962679
how do you even find a girl like that? not in the first world?

>>81962935
yeah p much this, women will put out in minutes if they're really attracted to a guy

>>81962411 (OP)
>>sex isnt on tap
She doesn't find you attractive bro

>>81962411 (OP)
>let her initiate
Yeah. They don't usually like that.

>>81962411 (OP)
>let her initiate
Lol, she doesn't think you're attractive and she will never initiate. If you attempt to talk about this with her she might say being the one to initiate 'makes her feel unattractive' or needing to discuss how often you have sex 'stresses her out.' This is all code for: you're ugly and I want you to treat me special without any reciprocity.

>>81962679
>She's 20 and a virgin though and we want to marry so at least that's that
She's going to fuck you just long enough to have kids then never again.

>>81962411 (OP)
Damn she must not be that into you. Im always wanting sex from my bf and am the one to initiate unless im sleeping and wake up to him trying to initiate. Be up front and ask her what you could do to have her initiate more, I know for me atleast I enjoy when he does initiate and she could be wanting you to

>>81962411 (OP)
Fuck another woman. Thatll motivate change in some way.

>>81962611
white sisters...Chad is supposed to belong to us...