>>81965239>As a woman, I can say that men are women are equally pickySure doesn't seem like it. For example men can be attracted to fat women but women can't be attracted to fat men. There are also a lot of things that can straight up disqualify a man from ever being attractive to women, like having a small dick or being short where's for women there is nothing that out right disqualifies them from finding love.
>but nowadays a lot of men *are* ugly. They dont know how to dress, dont tend to their bodies either because they're either basement dwellers or try to appeal to the "female gaze" dad bod, The thing is this describes a lot of women as well. Women are now more obese than ever but it hasn't made it harder for them at all. In fact it's easier than ever for women because of dating apps. Social media also proves that men have much more diverse standards. Men have different niches for example some men like flat chested women, some men like straight up obese women and some men like very tall women but we don't see the same leeway fir women. We know thar women aren't attracted to fat men. We know that women aren't attracted to short men. It's simply disingenuous and wrong to say that men and women are just as picky because they aren't.