Anonymous
7/26/2025, 2:59:44 AM No.81963442
Should I go to my grandma's grave to lit up a candle at like 3 AM?
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 3:03:14 AM No.81963480
>>81963442 (OP)
If you want to, absolutely do it. Nothing will feel worse than regretting a missed visit when you know exactly where she is.
I visit my grandparents whenever I'm around, because my sister is the only one who does otherwise, and they're people I miss every single day. No matter the time or occasion, they would want to be there for you. So go on, robot.
If you want to, absolutely do it. Nothing will feel worse than regretting a missed visit when you know exactly where she is.
I visit my grandparents whenever I'm around, because my sister is the only one who does otherwise, and they're people I miss every single day. No matter the time or occasion, they would want to be there for you. So go on, robot.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 3:10:56 AM No.81963545
>>81963442 (OP)
Yeah. Don't let any feelings of being seen as weird deter you. All that matters is what it means to you.
Yeah. Don't let any feelings of being seen as weird deter you. All that matters is what it means to you.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 3:16:46 AM No.81963593
>>81963480
>>81963545
Im also really drunk rn and got work at 1pm. Its 3:12AM here. I miss my grandma so much tho. She held the whole family together. I hope if god is real he takes care of her. I dont care if I get ripped apart or rot in hell as long as she is fine. I love her so much. At a certain she was even closer to me than my own mom that I love dearly
>>81963545
Im also really drunk rn and got work at 1pm. Its 3:12AM here. I miss my grandma so much tho. She held the whole family together. I hope if god is real he takes care of her. I dont care if I get ripped apart or rot in hell as long as she is fine. I love her so much. At a certain she was even closer to me than my own mom that I love dearly
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 3:18:40 AM No.81963603
I was crying abit on my way home from work and I thought about going to see my dad at the cemetary and talking to him but I didn't and I still haven't been there
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 3:18:45 AM No.81963605
>>81963442 (OP)
She wouldnt want you to freeze your balls at 3am she's want you to get a proper sleep schedule and to stop drinking so much.
She wouldnt want you to freeze your balls at 3am she's want you to get a proper sleep schedule and to stop drinking so much.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 3:19:04 AM No.81963607
Go for it, anon.
May she rest reposed into the Lord.
May she rest reposed into the Lord.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 3:44:47 AM No.81963816
>>81963593
I think she would understand why you might not go, despite the wanting. In one sense you can always go tomorrow after work. But I feel like if the feeling takes you you should follow it. As >>81963605 says, she would never want your welbeing in question but like I said, she will always be there in times of trouble or not.
Maybe think about what is the best path for you through the nest 24 hours. Many drunken trips end in me sleeping immediately after and missing alarms. If you feel you need to sleep to try and get to work on time do it, and visit the grave tomorrow afterward, maybe when you have your thoughts more sorted out.
I think she would understand why you might not go, despite the wanting. In one sense you can always go tomorrow after work. But I feel like if the feeling takes you you should follow it. As >>81963605 says, she would never want your welbeing in question but like I said, she will always be there in times of trouble or not.
Maybe think about what is the best path for you through the nest 24 hours. Many drunken trips end in me sleeping immediately after and missing alarms. If you feel you need to sleep to try and get to work on time do it, and visit the grave tomorrow afterward, maybe when you have your thoughts more sorted out.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 3:52:47 AM No.81963886
>>81963442 (OP)
Don't do stuff after midnight. Bad idea. Do it in the middle of the day.
Trust me on this, never make important choices at that time.
Don't do stuff after midnight. Bad idea. Do it in the middle of the day.
Trust me on this, never make important choices at that time.