Is having a oneitis a sign of autism?

>>81966213 (OP)
No, we just pairbond longer than the average normalfaggot that can get a hookup at least every week.

>>81966213 (OP)
No, it's probably a sign of emotional depth if anything, which autists lack.

>>81966213 (OP)
Yes because it means you're actually able to care about people unlike normalfags.

>>81966213 (OP)
>tfw still pairbonded to my high school sweetheart 8 years later
It's fucking OVER. Truly monogamous people are FUCKED.

>>81966213 (OP)
>Is having an enduring love for someone symptomatic of a mental disorder?
ugh

>>81966213 (OP)
Having a oneitis is a sign of innocence and purity. It shows that you can actually admire someone and eventually love them. Being innocent in this world is a curse though. The world will do everything in its power to rape it out of you. I lost the ability to admire people years ago, or maybe there truly are no people worth admiring.

>>81966213 (OP)
Well i'm a 22yo khhv and i still think about a girl that went to high school with me daily. It's been like 4 years since ive seen her. Ive never approached her or told her anything, and i don't have any experiencenwith relationships, but if this isn't love idk what is. Last friday i saw her at a concert, she has a boyfriend now (whom i completely mog btw), she came up to me to say hello and chat, just in a formal-classmates way, but to me it was the most stressful moment of the past 4 years. I started hyperventillating by the end of the conversation and after she left i had to run to the toilets and vomit, it was too much to handle all at once. I didn't sleep that night. I just laid in bed and imagined what my life would be like if i told her i liked her all those years ago. I'm not bitter or angry that she has a boyfriend, i am happy that she is happy. I am happy just to live in the same country as her. So yes it's probably autism. I'm like an autistic Werther, only even more of a pussy as i never even approached her.
Sorry 4 blog post.

>>81966472
thats not "love" thats just a crush

>>81966472
You have a bad case of oneitis, be glad you didn't get with her because when she leaves you get truly tested

>>81966509
That lasts for 9 years? I thought it was nigga but after introspection she could be an obese 300lbs lard golem and i would still like her. But maybe you are rightyas i said, i am a socially, stunted friendless virgin, what do i know. But if this is indeed just a crush, then wtf would actual love do to me? I would just die on the spot

>>81966524
You can't love someone you dont really know. You're just infatuated with what you imagine her as. Love comes out when you truly get to know the person, all the faults and disgusting stuff included, and you still choose them every single day

>>81966539
So incels can never feel romantic love?

>>81966546
You can't feel romantic love for a person you don't know intimately, just infatuation

>>81966548
Damn thats pretty depressing

>>81966568
yes, but if you get to that point there's like a 90% chance that things won't work out, and if the love was actually real I don't think you can ever really get over it