Why are men shamed so much for not approaching women when women don't even like being approached or getting any rl male attention 99% of the time?

>>81967704 (OP)
By "shame" you mean all the click bait and rage bait people make for profit?

>>81967704 (OP)
Because approaching strangers is creepy, but men are still biological men who would presumably be attracted to women. Socializing is a part of any normal human life, so obviously you're going to meet a lot of women if you are a human. Hence the shame for subhuman men that chose escapism and hedonism above reality.

>>81967704 (OP)
They want actual cute guys to approach them to get their number and mid guys to approach them to massage their egos.

>>81967704 (OP)
because normalfags believe you are the master of your own destiny and everyone can achieve what they want
and so if something hasn't worked out it's somehow your and only your fault
You approached and it didn't go well
>Well maybe you should stop being a creep and harassing women
You stick to dating apps
>Well maybe you shouldn't be looking for a relationship on a hookup app duh
You give up
>You're a pathetic loser
You don't give up
>You're a disgusting creep who doesn't take no for an answer, just focus on your hobbies weirdo

>>81967714
>Hence the shame for subhuman men that chose escapism and hedonism above reality.
The reality is women don't even want to be approached or hit on most of the time, so the advice is literally anti-social behavior in the hopes of getting lucky to find the rare girl who single and into you.

And talking to strangers is not inherently creepy, men aren't bothered by it at all, its women.

>>81967776
Nah when boomers approached me at events I thought it was creepy too. I think you don't understand how culture works or how people socialize in general but that's okay! You don't have to deal with any shame if you are an isolated loser anyway.

>>81967806
>I think you don't understand how culture works or how people socialize in general but that's okay!
People where I live do talk to one another every now and then so that sounds like your issue

>>81967806
The fuck so you mean? Most of us are not boomers and he already said it's creepy to approach.

>>81967839
Having casual conversations especially with locals that fit in with the local environment is different from a boomer randomly approaching a young stranger at a music event hope that helps! But yes it is my issue and many other people, you agreed women say that so that's at least 50% of the population

>>81967704 (OP)
>shamed for approaching women
>they stop approaching women
>shamed for not approaching women


They are all just inching closer and closer to the wall and they have fucked it for them selves kek

>>81967851
>you agreed women say that so that's at least 50% of the population
Its almost exclusively a woman thing. Its like at the gym, guys are always talking to me and sharing compliments and advice, whereas girls are obviously walking around with walls up for anyone that's not someone they know. Men and women do not interpret talking to strangers the same way because for women it typically entails being bothered about being fucked at some point.

>>81967875
At the gym you already have a common interest, I talk to women all the time at the gym. The creepy part is when a total stranger approaches you.

>>81967881
>The creepy part is when a total stranger approaches you.
Its only creepy to women when its men because they don't like men talking to them.

>>81967916
I can't imagine being a man who doesn't talk to women. What is wrong with you?

The fruit will be left to rot on the shelf as even chads start gooning or turn gay

>Why are men shamed so much for not approaching women

i think it's the opposite actually. men are shamed for approaching women (only 9/10 chad is allowed to do this)

>>81967949
The fact that regular men relate more to a homeless crack addict than a functioning member of society is wild to me. Why do you idolize public masturbation? What has porn done to you?

>>81967974
why do you equate making small-talk with a woman on public transport to public masturbation? they're completely different things and its ridiculous to lump them together like that

>>81968129
incels do that, most sane people do not. if you have trouble making small-talk with women on public transport or believe you will be shamed for it, that's pure brainrot

>>81967704 (OP)
It's a collective shit test. "You aren't enough of an exceptional man to approach women who don't want to be approached and somehow win them over? lol beta!"

>>81967806
I'm tired of you vengeful normalfags who defend normalfag shit, always always blaming the players and never the game

>>81968336
I refuse to believe that strangers actually make small talk on public transit lmao. They're always just ignoring each other / minding their own business. And why wouldn't you? Anything you say there, everyone else would hear, so no privacy for an actual conversation to develop

>>81967925
I don't talk to women because approaching strangers is frowned upon and women don't ever talk to me.

>>81967704 (OP)
Uh oh, someone didn't pay attention in their freshman ecology course. Women are quite literally evolved to do the selecting, not be selected. You are the pretty male bird showing off his feathers. They are the drab female bird deciding whether your feathers and song will result in strong offspring or not. Failure to understand this is not only a rejection of reality, but will inevitably cause emotional fatigue as well.

>>81967704 (OP)
>why are men shamed for approaching women?
The answer is it's about power.
Acting bitchy makes them feel powerful.
And yes, they can 100% like you and still act like this just cause at the moment they wanna feel powerful.
If social media roasted and called out bitchy women complaining about guys approaching them, did some social media trend of girls trying to pick up guys, etc. Women would jump on that trend cause they seek social acceptance as the only form of power they can wield since they are physically weaker and have less skill and work ethic.
>the upside is female isolation will give them low self esteem once the girl power trend dies.

>>81968422
Nobody said anything about approaching strangers. If you were interested in women you would talk to them, its that simple.

>>81968539
>interested in women you would talk to them
But that requires approaching people I don't know?

>>81968597
No, this whole "approaching" bullshit comes from PUA garbage. Are you actually fucking retarded? Having a basic human life means you are already interacting with people and introducing yourself to new people all the time. What is fundamentally wrong with you??

>>81968617
>What is fundamentally wrong with you??
I'm literally autistic. If you want to meet new people, you have to talk to strangers. Which you say don't want to be bothered.

>>81968617
>I'm on the loser board and you people don't have thriving social lives? wtf is wrong with you!?
See >>81968383

>>81968638
Plenty of autistic people join support groups and have relatable interests. Even the traintists have a whole community.

>>81968617
>Having a basic human life means you are already interacting with people and introducing yourself to new people all the time.
Not always. Asking a girl out is much easier under these conditions, but its only happend to me once. You don't realize how many people do not regularly interact with young women.