Anonymous
7/26/2025, 4:43:52 PM No.81968346
So, a dude I went to school with for ~10 years with lovebombed me hard and then ghosted me for like 6 months after trying to fuck me. (Epic amazing sex btw) At the end of June, we ran into each other at the store and he practically chased me down, nicely requesting that I unblock him. My metaphorical tail was wagging, I missed him so so so much. After I unblocked him, I told him what he did was painful but like I'm not gonna hold it against him- I'm just happy that he returned. His response boiled down to, "I mistook the longtime familiarity for romantic attraction. I would like to be friends again if we can't extricate ourselves from this and reestablish boundaries and borders, then I believe it would be for the best not to maintain regular contact" which then why bother going out of your way to talk to me again???? I shouldn't have said anything, I probably put too much pressure on him. It's been 20 days and I haven't heard from him since. I want to reach out again, but I don't want to be overbearing so I'm just gonna wait til his birthday in December. This is so cliche, but he was genuinely the first person I felt connected to, like I don't even want to get over it really. I miss him so much
>I guess when you go black, you actually CAN go back
>I guess when you go black, you actually CAN go back
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