Thread 81969441 - /r9k/ [Archived: 29 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:50:29 PM No.81969441
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how the fuck am I supposed to explain to women that I have no experience in dating at the ripe age of 20?
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:51:28 PM No.81969448
>>81969441 (OP)
You lie and fake it till you make it, son.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:51:43 PM No.81969450
I have no experience and I'm in my 30s. And I hope it repels all women in the present and future.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:55:04 PM No.81969483
>>81969448
there's no point in faking it if she'll eventually find out by the way I kiss or have sex
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:05:02 PM No.81969567
>>81969483
Confidence. Kiss and fuck her really hard, if she asks you what you're doing, say you got too excited. Women aren't that smart.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:10:33 PM No.81969612
>>81969441 (OP)
I think it's best to not mention it. It's a standard of typical malebro praxis to not mentioned how many women you slept with regardless of the number. If she asks you point blank, then be playfully vague about it. Try saying something comically large that she'll instantly know is not true by the way you say it. Like that you lost count after 100. Or even say that you're a virgin, but in a playful unserious manner, because that's almost equally unbelievable to women, since they have no understanding of the male experience. Maybe even say one and if she presses you about it, say the other. You get the point.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:17:17 PM No.81969679
>>81969441 (OP)
This is much more normal than you think. Most people have more important things to worry about.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:18:51 PM No.81969693
>>81969441 (OP)
>20
Nah you're still good. You got 2-4 years before you gotta start lying
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:25:03 PM No.81969763
>>81969441 (OP)
You should be honest with her.
If she's a good person, then she shouldn't be concerned with your
LACK of sexual partners. If you are doing a hook-up or
something then IDK, don't do a hook-up i guess.
Good luck :)
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:29:45 PM No.81969819
>>81969763
you dont see how she'll think thats an obvious 'red flag'? Normies think non-sex havers have something wrong with them
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:32:28 PM No.81969861
>>81969819
If you're pushing 30 sure, but not at 20.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:37:51 PM No.81969923
>>81969441 (OP)
How do you think I feel at 28. Don't even have the guts to lie about it because it's obvious I get none. I look like the kind of guy who doesn't get laid, glasses and babyface is a huge hindrance to a man's attraction.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:38:22 PM No.81969931
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>>81969861
And what to do if you're pushing 30?
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:39:43 PM No.81969946
>>81969931
We're just fucked
>>81969923
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:42:32 PM No.81969983
>>81969946
Even if we're fucked, there gotta be an optimal strategy to go about it, even if it still doesn't give you great odds, no?
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:46:09 PM No.81970014
>>81969983
Imo if you have to lie it's already over
Even if you somehow got a relationship it'd be based on bullshit
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:54:03 PM No.81970109
>>81970014
Or you could just not mention it. Yes, your inexperience will come out in other ways, but over time you can learn to act more confident in the talking stages, until you get a woman to have sex with you, at which point you'll be a virgin no more. Even if it's bad sex, and it will take you some time to build up your sexual confidence. Or you could just have sex with prostitutes with the expressed goal of getting over whatever emotional barriers you may have, and also with the goal of getting better at having sex. A prostitute won't care that you're a virgin, so you can tell her that. She'll think you're repulsive anyway and will only want your money, so it wouldn't hurt your chances, and her knowing that could take the edge off for you.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:06:53 PM No.81970240
>>81969931
Fake it til you make it cause at that point women actually do care
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:31:06 PM No.81970458
>>81970240
What's so putrid about men's sexual inexperience in women's eyes?
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:47:54 PM No.81970665
>>81969441 (OP)
You doing ok considering the current zeitgeist. Im 24, going to be 25 in two months and I've never had sex or kissed a woman. I've only had unprotected anal sex with 4 trannies out of desperation and done gay shit with 3 more. If I ever get a gf I'll never tell her this. Before I thought I could look down on women with a long sexual history or worse if they have ever been with black men. No longer. I can only hope God with have mercy on with with a plain Jane. I'll never ask her about her body count or sexual history because im no hypocrite.

If I turn 28 and still have no gf in going to Thailand to have sex with ladyboys and Japan to have sex with teen prostitutes in the red light district and older milfy Japanese on dating websites/matchmakers/happening bars