Thread 81972150

why have you all been making fun of the women on the tea app for being ugly? i thought you were above this

>>81972150 (OP)
Because if they settled for their looksmatch none of that would've happened.

>>81972150 (OP)
Why would you show decency to anyone who wouldn't show you any in response?
Also, I know you're talking about the top 5% when you say "men". Stop being deceitful.

>>81972163
Define a looksmatch

>>81972150 (OP)
>men don't care about looks
no one says that
what people do say those is that men are willing to date unattractive women while women do NOT date unattractive men
Now pipe down

>>81972150 (OP)
Nobody said men are not shallow. They are literally the shallow gender and why women have to compete over who looks the best to men.

>>81972181
Your male equal. The reason why so many of those women are in situationships is because they aim too high.

>>81972150 (OP)
because they spent a year maximum doing the same to us

>>81972195
Women seem to have a very different definition of what a looksmatch is

>>81972186
There are an equal number of men and women in the world. This is the most retarded argument possible.
The only reason you need to compete with women is because you're all interested in the same men.

>>81972244
>the only reason men would compete with other men on anything is because men are all interested in the same women
Your logic makes no sense and has nothing to do with what I said.

>>81972150 (OP)
When men say they don't care about looks, they're referring to kind women with self-respect. These are bitter women, ugly inside and out, so they're fair game.

>>81972150 (OP)
any robot who claims moids are not shallow is a fat fucking liar why would you believe them everybody knows its moids who are the looks obsessed gender women care about more than looks you just know they would be simping

>>81972240
They do. They think that they deserve Chad.

>>81972259
Are you having to stand out among other women to appease a balding office drone? You have a specific idea of a man you're interested.
Anyone who isn't in that range just doesn't exist in your mind.

>>81972272
What do you gain out of writing this? Don't you think it'd be more fun and fulfilling to have an actual discussion? Or maybe we could talk about or do something else.

>>81972272
Harpy feathers typed this.

>>81972150 (OP)
This whole Tea app thing is a microcosm of the same thing everyone already knows.

Men mainly care about looks and easy access to sex. A lot of the girls on there were just slampigs and whores that were pumped and dumped, and most of them are being judged on just how they look.

The women mainly care about a mans social status, and they use gossip to try to learn about and even influence a mans social status. Yeah they like a good looking man, but they will have sex with a billion ugly celebrities long before they ever talk to a homeless Chad

>>81972290
i dont have anything to discuss with a liar

>>81972284
Are you mentally retarded or something?
There are entire countries on planet earth right now where women are shrouded from the public because men care about how a woman looks so much.

>>81972311
>i dont have anything to discuss with a liar
Prove I'm lying

1) Everyone cares about looks to some degree. It's the degree that differs.
2) Men have collectively taken Tea as an attack on men everywhere, and as such it's open season for anyone who used Tea. You have men who otherwise would be content to just be left alone getting on in on the action because sometimes examples need to be made.
Is it stupid, depends.
Is it an overreaction, sure.
Will it cause backlash, maybe.
Is it all the fault of women for this in the first place? Yes. (and the jew who made the app ofc)

>>81972324
>blaming all men for the actions of brown men
sad. africans rub sand in vaginas because they think the texture is better for sex (and increases the spread of STDs), that's not something we do in white countries.

>>81972324
Classic, "why are you concerned with this thing, when this unrelated thing is also happening".
In my own life, I'm the one who's been ostracized for my appearance. Women who live under sharia law have better lives than I do anyway.

>>81972342
yeah yeah white men are all innocent angels who would never hurt a fly ever do you want a medal for not being a boko haram member timmy

shut the fuck up toilet

>>81972150 (OP)
If someone is ugly and a good person there's no reason to insult them even if you aren't going to date them, that being said, those women aren't good people for trying to smear random men
Also, nobody says that men aren't shallow either. The difference is that ugly men would date ugly women but women wouldn't unless he's rich or famous

>>81972357
Can you share what is happening to you that is worse than living in Afghanistan

>>81972367
we won't even keep you as slaves next time, nigger

>>81972342
Why on earth would most men even feel attacked? I certainly didn't give a shit. Still don't.

>>81972342
in white countries you have a massively disproportionate cosmetics industry that pushes and also favors women to look better because that is the primary way for them to increase their chances of getting married. it's not so for men, the primary way that men increase their chances is through higher income or economic stability. it has nothing to do with 'the same men' you imbecile, even trailer park girls who will only ever date or have sex with complete bumfuck mutant freaks still wear makeup and try to wear appealing clothing styles and get self conscious about being too fat, and those mutant freaks will verbally obliterate many if not most fat/ugly girls in public. it's an extreme example and it could be taken as hyperbole, but men are far more interested in how a woman looks than what she says or does.

>>81972369
why did you feel the need to put random celebrities as the moids

>>81972150 (OP)
>why have you all been making fun of the women on the tea app for being ugly?
I haven't. I'd hate if someone made fun of me for being ugly so I don't do the same to women. Shrimple

>>81972357
>ostracized
Autism word. you could have tried stopping there without making some bullshit claim that nobody will believe.

>>81972367
You provided an example of brown men doing something in an attempt to degrade white men who do not do the thing.
I don't want or need a medal I just want you to realize your idiocy.

And, for bonus points, I would bet that you support bringing in those same brown men (and their women) who wish to implement those same policies here and see nothing wrong with holding those two viewpoints together.

>>81972396
Reading context dumbdumb.

>>81972390
There's nothing stand-out that has happened to me to make me feel this way. It's a lack of positive experiences and remorse from others.
There isn't anyone who even cares enough to send me to prison for showing my ankles in public. The only reason I'm getting any attention right now is because of negativity bias from you.

>>81972415
>you could have tried stopping there without making some bullshit claim that nobody will believe.
You're the liar because I believe him.

>>81972453
Do you watch porn? Just curious in this case.

>>81972456
If he's telling the truth he can easily find someone who would take his rights away and keep him for sexual purposes.

>>81972272
>women care about more than looks
Looks are the biggest thing that women care about and they have very little variation in standards. Who are you kidding?

>>81972463
Why do woman bring up porn so much? You know the biggest consumers of porn are married men right? NTA btww.

>>81972477
>women only want black men trust me bro who are we kidding here huh?
Literally mcauley culkin somehow met multiple womens standards. How does that work?

>>81972415
I think it's an appropriate way to describe how I'm treated.
>>81972463
I watch it, period. But I make a conscious effort to stay away from it and not get overexposed.

>>81972433
i didnt post that but her point was the entire world cares greatly about womens looks and you respond as if whites are exempt from this lol

>>81972493
Wait so you are married? That's interesting actually. It seems like you wanted to bring up marriage so lets hear about that.

>>81972410
Apparently those guys were also in the leaks. Meaning that they indeed were involved with the women in the app in some way

>>81972477
Is that why every single thread on /r9k/ is either about making fun of Tea hags or simping for Stacies?

>>81972508
Consciously having to deal with overexposure to pornography is wild. Good luck autistic anon!

>>81972390
NTA but, technically speaking, being ostracized is a lack of inclusion, not an act of exclusion.
As such it's a negative that's difficult to prove.
For example, being left out being invited to a birthday could be just being forgotten to be invited, not specifically excluded. Whereas being beaten or bullied or harassed is an action that you can specifically point to.

>>81972493
I think it's fair in a sense to bring up porn, but only in certain contexts (I have no idea where she's going with it so idk if this would be one of them).
Onlyfans and porn in general is definitely a problem, yet it's only so profitable in the first place due to men purchasing it. Yes there's female purchases of porn too but you know what I mean.
Then again men only have the chance to buy porn because women are out there willingly making it. So it becomes difficult to really point the figure out who to blame (besides the jews who own the porn studios, who own onlyfans, who owned the adultery dating app ashleywhatever, etc.)

>>81972516
Im not married, i work in a job that lots of married couple generally let me have their phone to help them out, guess what most married guys have on their front search results on google? mind you these guys have kids.

Im personally quite anti marriage as it does not benefit me in any real way, but i dont care whether people do it or not.

>>81972185
Just coming off from a completely unbiased standpoint, i see more ugly men with beautiful women than I see the reverse. the only exception is fat, fat women, like obese women, usually get skinny males. this is just my personal observation of the dating climate here in bay area california.

>>81972522
>involved
They were making profiles about guys who were simply conservative or who ghosted the girl or never wanted to date her. The entire point of why this bullshit got out of hand is because they were lying about the men.

>>81972506
>women only want black men trust me bro who are we kidding here huh?
Uhh who said that other than you?

>>81972509
I said earlier both men and women care about looks. The halo effect is a known phenomena.
However her examples of "look how bad men are!" aren't universal. If she wants to come up with an easy-to-point-to example where women are oppressed or whatever because of looks here, she's more than welcome to.
Treating afganistan as the showcase to continue pushing narratives in the west is nonsense and will be called out.

>>81972567
The only time that someone says "women want the same guy" they follow it up with some picture of a black man.

>>81972540
Because it's accessible at all times and I'm the only one who needs to tell myself to stay away from it?

>>81972593
Now imagine if you also told yourself to socialize more. That would solve a lot of problems in society.

>>81972546
>porn in general is definitely a problem
Should i be worried? I use hentai quite a bit but its not like i can have sex with real girls.

>>81972584
>The only time that someone says "women want the same guy" they follow it up with some picture of a black man.
Where did that happen? Do you have a link?

>>81972150 (OP)
>i thought you were above this
You thought r9k was above something? What the fuck am I reading?

>>81972579
Interesting that disingenuous retards like you will say "not all men are like that" after defending a negative statement about all women.

Pre-modern hysteria and modern lookism, the commonly accepted stereotypes were:
men care about youth and beauty,
women care about status and money, and to a lesser extent beauty.

when promiscuity was shamed, and a woman's value was in part decided by her purity / chastity, she prioritized resources because survival (and having money is nice).
Once the sexual revolution happened and things started falling apart, they prioritize looks and "fun" when they're young and then attempt to still prioritize status and money when they're older, somehow not yet realizing that this dual strategy works against them (because in fairness many men don't care).

>>81972579
its not that deep not everything is a personal attack this is a conversation about looks

>>81972598
Be completely real with me, have you ever thanked or showed appreciation to a man for socializing?

>>81972605
black guys have the highest birth rates especially in like africa, that's why

>>81972645
Many guys have thanked me when they realized it was actually pretty easy to learn social skills.

>>81972150 (OP)
Everyone cares about looks. Regardless of gender.
OP's question is fucking retarded.

>>81972610
>disingenuous retards like you
This thread is focusing on men, so there are very little sweeping statements about women here. But beyond that, what you're doing is strawmanning. Rather than bringing up anything I actually said, you're saying "PEOPLE LIKE YOU SAY X, YOU DISINGENUOUS FUCK" in a poor attempt to reassert dominance because you can't attack anything I actually said.
None of my posts in this reply chain are saying "all men" OR "all women".
Try again.

>>81972150 (OP)
Do you not know how insulting someone works?
If it digs at your insecurities I will say it.

I don't really have any racial hangups but I will call a black person a nigger if they piss me off, just because I know they don't like it

>>81972506
>mcauley culkin
The fact you think he's too hideous for multiple women to be into him, tells me everything I need to know.

>>81972240
Yeah and its ridiculous, hence why in the old times you didnt have rights. To a woman her looksmatch is, chad. Sorry but if youre not stacey you arent getting chad.

>>81972613
>somehow not yet realizing that this dual strategy works against them

They know it works against them, they just dont care because they think the world revolves around them and water isn't wet.