Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:11:34 PM No.81972319
Is it possible to "get help" and what would that even look like? I'm just a fucking loser
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Thread 81972319 - /r9k/ [Archived: 123 hours ago]
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:14:02 PM No.81972341
>>81972319 (OP)
>stop jerking off and watching porn
>do cardio and lift
>eat healthy
>get hobbies idfk play guitar guitar get a fishing license do graffiti whatever just have fun
its not that hard
>stop jerking off and watching porn
>do cardio and lift
>eat healthy
>get hobbies idfk play guitar guitar get a fishing license do graffiti whatever just have fun
its not that hard
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:15:21 PM No.81972356
>>81972319 (OP)
>stop jerking off and watching porn
>do cardio and lift
>eat healthy
>get hobbies idfk play guitar get a fishing license do graffiti whatever just have fun
its not that hard
>stop jerking off and watching porn
>do cardio and lift
>eat healthy
>get hobbies idfk play guitar get a fishing license do graffiti whatever just have fun
its not that hard
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:18:30 PM No.81972388
>>81972356
then I would just be a fucking loser who can play guitar at a mediocre level and is slightly buff.
then I would just be a fucking loser who can play guitar at a mediocre level and is slightly buff.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:19:36 PM No.81972409
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:19:48 PM No.81972412
>>81972388
you have to change your mindset bro, youre only a loser if you think you are, stop telling yourself that
you have to change your mindset bro, youre only a loser if you think you are, stop telling yourself that
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:21:45 PM No.81972437
>>81972409
This is not my thread but sure. I'm a coward and am completely socially inept. I'm a NEET. I'm also ugly and unkempt in appearance.
This is not my thread but sure. I'm a coward and am completely socially inept. I'm a NEET. I'm also ugly and unkempt in appearance.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:21:53 PM No.81972440
>>81972388
you have to change your mindset bro, youre only a loser if you think you are, stop telling yourself that. im bald and ugly but i love myself
you have to change your mindset bro, youre only a loser if you think you are, stop telling yourself that. im bald and ugly but i love myself
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:23:34 PM No.81972458
>>81972437
I also have no skills or hobbies or anything I'm good at, really. Any attempts from my part have been half-assed and only lasted for a month or two.
I also have no skills or hobbies or anything I'm good at, really. Any attempts from my part have been half-assed and only lasted for a month or two.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:26:08 PM No.81972482
>>81972437
>I'm a coward
discipline can change that, work out do martial arts no porn eating healthy etcetc.
> I'm a NEET
get your shit together like mentioned above, once you feel comfortable with yourself get a job. this process can take months or years but it is possible if you want to work for it
>I'm a coward
discipline can change that, work out do martial arts no porn eating healthy etcetc.
> I'm a NEET
get your shit together like mentioned above, once you feel comfortable with yourself get a job. this process can take months or years but it is possible if you want to work for it
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:27:37 PM No.81972502
>>81972482
Oh shit, I haven't thought of that. I'll give it a shot!
Oh shit, I haven't thought of that. I'll give it a shot!
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 11:37:38 PM No.81972628
>>81972437
Hello, anon, thanks for taking the time to answer even if you're not OP. What I'm going to say will probably apply to both you and him.
>Socially inept
This can only change with exposure and practice, unfortunately, but there are ways to make that process less frightening. Something I did was study up on social psychology and have a lot of conversations online with people as practice. That gave me a safe environment to fail without having to face too much judgement in person, and by the time I got to face to face interaction, I found out I had actually become a lot more sensitive to other people's (real) intentions and mind states than most people. Even though I still didn't have natural charm, I could make up for it with knowledge of psychology and succeed at socializing. So I'd recommend learning a little bit, then testing it online, then repeating until you feel comfortable enough to start testing in person. Practicing in voice calls can be a transitional step.
>I'm a NEET
Why are you a NEET? Is it related to being socially inept? If so, fixing your social skills should help with this, if not solve it.
>I'm also ugly and unkempt in appearance
You'd be shocked what taking care of your appearance will do to your mental. Start with the basics and progress onto other stuff, but an important thing to note is that you're unlikely to be able to keep motivation up for this alone, so I recommend getting a support of some kind to bounce ideas off of. You can make this a part of improving your social skills as well, set it as a goal. The support could be a gym partner or just someone who sympathizes with your situation and wants to help, or just an online friend to talk to.
Hello, anon, thanks for taking the time to answer even if you're not OP. What I'm going to say will probably apply to both you and him.
>Socially inept
This can only change with exposure and practice, unfortunately, but there are ways to make that process less frightening. Something I did was study up on social psychology and have a lot of conversations online with people as practice. That gave me a safe environment to fail without having to face too much judgement in person, and by the time I got to face to face interaction, I found out I had actually become a lot more sensitive to other people's (real) intentions and mind states than most people. Even though I still didn't have natural charm, I could make up for it with knowledge of psychology and succeed at socializing. So I'd recommend learning a little bit, then testing it online, then repeating until you feel comfortable enough to start testing in person. Practicing in voice calls can be a transitional step.
>I'm a NEET
Why are you a NEET? Is it related to being socially inept? If so, fixing your social skills should help with this, if not solve it.
>I'm also ugly and unkempt in appearance
You'd be shocked what taking care of your appearance will do to your mental. Start with the basics and progress onto other stuff, but an important thing to note is that you're unlikely to be able to keep motivation up for this alone, so I recommend getting a support of some kind to bounce ideas off of. You can make this a part of improving your social skills as well, set it as a goal. The support could be a gym partner or just someone who sympathizes with your situation and wants to help, or just an online friend to talk to.