WHY sooooooooooooo many of you whine how you cant get into a relationship and women are bad and all that stupid shit, I myself got a girlfriend like a year ago and you know what? I am fucking skinny zero muscles, broke and i was fucking ugly then but i respect women i respect minorities i respect the lgbt and that overall i try to be a nice person, why so many of you are hatefull towards the people you are trying to date.
And no its never over for you, you dont have to be attractive to look decent, you just have maybe loose a few kilos, do some sort of a skin routine so it look ok at least , shave you beard AND BE FUCKING RESPECTFULL AND KIND, not in a "am a niceguy" type of way but just a decent human being and i can guarantee you that in some time you may find yourself close to someone ITS NOT HARD EVERONE HERE IS JUST A RETARD.
So finally getting to my question, how do you think all the beheavior i so commonly seen here would lead to someone ending in a happy relationship

>>81972571 (OP)
>I am fucking skinny zero muscles, broke and i was fucking ugly then but i respect women i respect minorities i respect the lgbt
Stopped reading right here, I am literally the exact opposite of you and I don't care what you have to say. Bye.

>>81972583
yeah exactly what i mean, fcuking idiot

>>81972571 (OP)
Shut up faggot no one cares you suck cock

>>81972571 (OP)
You're not autistic, that's why. Thats literally the only reason.

>>81972698
time for my trapcard, who told you im not

>>81972571 (OP)
Are you happy with your girlfriend in terms looks, personality, and hobbies?

>>81972785
of course, im really happy she likes to do diy and crafts i dont really haave patience to do any of that but i support her
she is really pretty like objectively and i really love her
being in a relationship just to be in a relationship is sthe worst thing you can do to yourself

ayo i aint readin allat unc

>>81972571 (OP)
they don't see how hating women (because stacy rejected you in highschool wahhh) might make it hard for you as a man to find a human female girlfriend kek. these trannies never learn.

>but i respect women i respect minorities i respect the lgbt

this is not a price I'm willing to pay

>>81972571 (OP)
kek chud got chads leftovers and he thinks hes better than incels.fucking betabuxx.enjoy getting raped

>>81972698
because you are asking for it

>>81972866
you guys will say anything just to make it seems like being a good person and getting into a loving relationship is some sort of a mindgame and nobody is happy

>>81972866
I mean i would be fine with leftovers as fwb only. After all fwb is what they were with chads, nothing more though.

>>81972767
Youre not, unless you're diagnosed. Women can sniff out autistic men like dogs, and avoid them at all costs.

>>81972839
That does sound nice. What do you have in common with her? How much do you have in common with her overall? I think my standards might have been too limiting, narrowing my search too much. I have never been in a relationship and I'm in good shape, and I would like to think I am actually known for being nice even though I'm socially awkward.

>>81972866
also this was both mine and her first dating expierience so yeah you are a retard

>>81972900
Id like to agree with you, but the main victim of bad people are good people, so figure that math yourself, intentions are good but i personally cant take it being second choice to chad simply because he didnt pick her she has to settle with me. road to Hell was paved with good intentions.

>>81972929
They dont count situationships as dating, just wondering was she inexperienced sexually when you both first done it?

>>81972948
no, we both were virgins (but freaks)

>>81972973
I see, Well you got lucky, most of us dont really such a option and we find it degrading to ourself to commit to such women, i truly wish you the best. Cherish what you have. I hope your not lying to just make it seem like your right for your own good.

>>81972990
lying would be pointless but what do you mean by "we find it degrading to ourself to commit to such women"

>>81972679
Where TF did the rock come from? Ppl carry this shit in their pocket?

>>81972910
im literally diagnosed by a preffesional, nobody can tell me i dont have it
the problem i see is that this whole community treats women like a hivemind, no there is no such thing as "they" can do something everybody is unique

>>81973024
By woman who people here refer to chads leftovers, They are only willing to come to "date" beta buxers after chad throws them away for younger chicks, and the fact these woman think they have doing us a favor by settling on us, with possibly kids and a huge bodycount, beta bux are generally stable virgin men. I cant see how a person cant find it degrading to be chosen as a settle material, even more so since these girls dont even love you, and lead to dead bedrooms, theres a reason majority of porn is used by married men.

>>81973064
ooooh i see, i understand now, it just doesnt really work in my situation bcs we are too young to have kids or be thrown away because of age

>>81972571 (OP)
Idk anon, the only time I got a relationship was when I was an unironic white supremacist. Never got any attention from women being nice. You're probably just not nearly as ugly as you think and women don't even like muscles that much generally. Especially younger girls.

>>81972679
We found the guy without sin

>>81973087
Im only 23, not even that old and this is my reality already. You dont understand how lucky you are. Doing it here is almost like provoking people who want to drink in a desert with a bottle of water.

>>81973089
Most likely. I don't blame OP for ignoring my post but I have been a nice person for much of my life. I'm far from dysfunctional but I just seem to be from a different planet and nobody wants that,

>>81972929
Bro do not let her go, this is literally your one chance. You'll be completely fucked once you get older.

>>81972918
eeeee desu never thouth about that but
i think we are both kinda outcasts of our friends gropus yk the person that is rarely invited to events and such
now maybe this wont be a similarity nit def a connection, she is a yapper and i am a listener so it works
we both engage in queer spaces a lot
and yeah just overall shared likness to many many diffrent communities
also we are both really accepting of things regarded as cringe and can share everything bcs of that
i believe in you anon i hope you luck in getting into a happy relationship

>>81973165
>both engage in queer spaces a lot
Is she a tranny? Be honest, anon.

>>81973122
i just believe that it sometimes takes a LOT of time but everybody if they are not a total piece of shit will fifnd somebody

>>81973188
nah, im closer to that desu but idc about that desu

>>81973196
Whats the point of love when your already old and missed out the best years of it? Even if they came at my age i would be bitter, such women do not exist in my age anyways, you are far too young and naive still op.

>>81973089
maybe its just diffrence in communities bcs where i am that white supremacy thingi would get you absolutly nowhere

>>81972571 (OP)
I got into a 10 year debt Kaiji style so I and my suicidal brother could get out of my mother's house before he killed himself because of her abuse. How can I bring a girl home with no tv, sofa and only our bedrooms and kitchen poorly furnished?

>>81973224
if you find the right person you wont feel like you missed out on a lot, believe in yourself anon there iis always light if you are good inside

>>81973271
I dont believe i am a good person due to my choices and the way my morality is, I'm a very jealous and bitter person. Such person does not exist, and if they did they got aborted. You should really not say these things when you yourself got everything.

>>81973257
yk to meet and get to know someone you dont always need to bring them home, i got to know my love on walks in the park or in the mcdonald, when you think she is the right person you will be able to open up and explain the situation and who knows, she just might understand

>>81973247
I think you got very lucky, anon. Cherish her. Hopefully things will work out.

>>81973297
well you can always regret your choices, maybe the relief wont come to you quick and easy but time heals wounds, and if you know that your morales are not the best and you admit it then nobody said you cant work on them, i helped some people in my life and i know there is always hope

>>81973354
I don't want to improve myself. I think I'm perfectly molded the way i am. While not perfect in the sense of perfect. I accepted what i am long ago. There's no wounds on me or anything that needs healing. And there is not always hope. That is cope. I wont ever get a virgin gf at my age as they do not exist. Any girl around my age are at best fwb material. I dont like to invest in saved gamefiles that other threw away.

>>81973391
but why do you think that she "was thrown away" maybe thinks just didnt work out, maybe it was her partner fault, maybe it wass her fault, maybe something else
the point is that the expiernce changed her into someone a little or a lot diffrent, she was not thrown away she just lives a life and things happen

>>81972571 (OP)
>WHY sooooooooooooo many of you whine how you cant get into a relationship
I don't think that many do, the board seems to be returning to it's hikki/volcel misogynist roots as traffic goes down. Only brown people still chase women.

>>81973441
Okay, But it does not change the fact im a bitter person, and they had their fun and experience with someone else while i didn't. She will always aswell compare in the back of her mind with an ex, everything she has done with him, First times that would be mine would be meaningless to her, since she already done them and now she is jaded to them. I do not want to compete in my relationship. Im tired. And even if i were somehow by dear god get with someone like that, I would cheat on them to try to feel more equal to them. You dont have to worry about these things however, Its why you see anons telling you to hold it on your dear life.

>>81973494
for a loving partnet these first times with you WOULD have meaning, bcs they are with someone they love but i hope you have peace without having any relationships bcs that cheating part is really concerining and if you ever try to get in a relationship you would have to do something about it but no matter whar i wish you luck and happiness in your life

>>81973629
Why is the cheating part is concerning? They basically cheated on me on the past. It is only fair.
>for a loving partnet these first times with you WOULD have meaning
A rollercoster ride does not change how you feel about it because you changed a cart. It is the same ride. What you are saying here is simply with pink tinted glasses view on things.
> ever try to get in a relationship you would have to do something about it
Yeah, Ill cheat as much as i need to feel like im at her level. Otherwise i feel inferior and jealous. Its her fault for making those choices. She could be responsible and help me get over them if she truly loves me.
>wish you luck and happiness in your life
I wish you too.

>>81973699
of course your partner should help you with your problems but that doesnt mean you can cheat on them to make yourself feel better. that is just straigh up abusive behavior,
in that way you nobody would find love in a milion years, love is also about working on yourself

>>81973825
They have cheated on me in the past in my view, So you defend their past cheating but not my future ones?
>love
Fake, Does not exist. Nothing is love with women like these anymore at my age, all transactional.

>>81973865
wait wait i got confused
by her cheating you mean like actual cheating or just sex in a previous relationship

>>81973940
>sex in a previous relationship
This, For me its basically like past cheating. You may not agree but it is for me, its just covered up by a more socially acceptable coat of past relationship. It would be torture to me to know someone i love was fucked in that way, Mental abuse for me due to her past actions. I know many will disagree on this. But i cannot handle it unless i have the same sin, then i could make some peace with it.

>>81973982
desu, you can think that way but it makes yours chance to build a healthy relationship basically non existent, i would recommend therapy bcs this is some abnormal view, i specifically mean the part when you say that you would have to cheat to feel equal, its just normal

>>81974013
It is not normal to me because i never had it thus the jealousy part, You wouldnt understand. You think bullshit therapy would fix it, but the easiest way to fix it is just not have such a past. Most healthy relationships are dead bedroom relationships anyways, Id rather be in an unhealthy one instead of ending like my dad where he doesnt even sleep in the same room as his wife.