Serious answers only pls - /r9k/ (#81974379) [Archived: 10 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/27/2025, 1:59:55 AM No.81974379
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If men hate whores so much why do they pay for and support them and their lifestyles?

I always see men, especially on here, yelling and screaming how much they hate whores, OF girls, prostitutes/escorts, saying "This is someone's daughter btw", but these men will also jerk off to, pay, and entertain these types of women.

I also remember watching this video online, which I think it was a lady talking about being an escort, or having an escort friend, and her experience with men, specifically married men who would come see her. They'd wine and dine her, give her gifts and special treatment, whilst their wives were at home and never got any of those things. Why?

Women aren't escorts, prostitutes, OF girls, or led e-girls for no reason. There is a market for it, and that market is made up of mostly men. Especially married men and men in relationships.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:01:01 AM No.81974389
>>81974379 (OP)
>If men hate whores so much why do they pay for and support them and their lifestyles?
why is it so hard for people to understand that genders are not monoliths? like do you have any kind of learning impediment
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:03:15 AM No.81974419
>>81974389
>but these men will also
I guess you missed that too.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:03:33 AM No.81974421
>>81974379 (OP)
>I always see men
YWNBAW
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:05:38 AM No.81974451
>>81974421
This anon up here has lost their mind
Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:08:51 AM No.81974498
>>81974379 (OP)
Perhaps those are two different kinds of men? Maybe?
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:10:51 AM No.81974522
>>81974379 (OP)
You seem to already mention the married men and relationship one, I can tell you why they do it. Dead bedrooms, Unmarried ones need an outlet so i dont know whats confusing about it.
Im a virgin and i use hentai all the time, not like i have any other option.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:11:11 AM No.81974525
>>81974419
>>81974498
Anons please read
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:13:15 AM No.81974544
>>81974522
>dead bedrooms
Divorce is always an option
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:14:39 AM No.81974561
>>81974525
I read your post. You're assuming that the men that are paying for prostitutes and OF whores are the same ones that hate them. Which isn't true. Those are different guys.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:15:57 AM No.81974577
>>81974544
Easy to say when you are on the side that will win all the money and the courts are biased to, and to why men hate them, I only hate them if they try to be born again virgins. Act like their job isnt weird. Or deny sex early on dates (act prudent). Hope my answers are sufficient.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:16:28 AM No.81974585
>>81974561
>but these men will also
And if you think all men that hate whores are just completely abstaining from porn or sex or any of that, you're wrong anon.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:17:03 AM No.81974590
>>81974379 (OP)
I have only ever given money and supported the lifestyles of my girlfriends. I don't consume porn, OF content or go to prostitutes. That being said, it all comes down to the Madonna-Whore complex. The idea that some men label women into two categorizes, whores and wives. Those married men are happy with their wife, but they still desire the whore, because in his mind his wife is not able to be both.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:18:23 AM No.81974606
>>81974585
>but these men will also
Yeah that's some shit you made up. I think that men who say they hate whores, probably aren't giving money to women to be whores. Just saying.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:18:46 AM No.81974615
>>81974379 (OP)
simps are not men
also women dont seems to understand that we jerk off for ourselves not for them
someone jerking off to you is not an endorsement of your life choices, it is not an upvote, perceiving it as such is straight up mental illness
>married man cheats
because hes in a loveless marriage and divorce is basically suicide
its not hard to figure out
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:21:02 AM No.81974642
>>81974379 (OP)
Have you considered that those are perhaps two different groups of men? Do you not see all the hatred directed at simps? Hell, it's even a common phenomenon to blame the simps entirely and give the whores a pass. Sort of a "blaming the addicts and not the dealers" situation.
Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:21:18 AM No.81974645
>>81974577
>Easy to say when you are on the side that will win all the money and the courts are biased to
You can sign a prenup or do other legal actions. Also, you can talk to your partner about why your bedroom is dead, and if that doesn't work then you can divorce.

>deny sex early on dates (act prudent)
Why is this bad?
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:23:52 AM No.81974669
>>81974645
>a prenup
NTA, but those get thrown out all the time for the most frivolous reasons. Just say you were signing it under duress, and voila, it's invalid. The institution of marriage is completely fucked and should be abandoned. You don't need a stamp of approval from the state that you love someone.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:24:13 AM No.81974674
>>81974645
>You can sign a prenup
dont really work
>do other legal actions
like not getting married
>denys sex on dates
We are talking about sex workers yes? they sell sex for cheaper than the date. It is expected they at least suck me dry, I have to be with a girl that most guys seen naked anyways. Its the least she can do.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:24:19 AM No.81974675
There are a lot of useless, pathetic men that enable whores. I agree

That's not all men, however.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:30:39 AM No.81974756
>>81974590
>I don't consume porn, OF content or go to prostitutes.
You're genuinely a gold star

>Those married men are happy with their wife, but they still desire the whore, because in his mind his wife is not able to be both.
Can this be untaught or is it just how they are? It's insane to me how much married men or men in relationships watch porn or pay for sex work.
>>81974606
>Yeah that's some shit you made up
Anon, it really seems like you're not willing to hear our or understand me..
>>81974615
>also women dont seems to understand that we jerk off for ourselves not for them
Sounds a lot like when women say "We dress up for ourselves not men".
>someone jerking off to you is not an endorsement of your life choices, it is not an upvote, perceiving it as such is straight up mental illness
But in a way you are still supporting these women. Like I said, if there is a demand for it, it will be produced.

>married man cheats
>because hes in a loveless marriage and divorce is basically suicide its not hard to figure out
Divorce is suicide? If you're talking about the assets and money, prenups and postnups exist. And I understand divorce can be depressing or make it feel like your life is over, but life goes on and you have to keep moving either way. Not to mention how we live in a modern age where we have therapy, medication, all the opportunities to get help.
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:33:27 AM No.81974785
>>81974674
Sorry anon I thought you were talking about non-escort girls
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:34:30 AM No.81974800
>>81974669
>signing under duress
Wouldn't you have to prove this before they can throw it out?
Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:35:13 AM No.81974809
>>81974785
To be fair, Even some non escort girls with a history should be expected to be treated like this. May disagree but you can expect being treated like a maiden (virgin) if you aint one.
Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:35:39 AM No.81974813
>>81974675
I know it is not all men I am talking about a specific group of men
Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:54:06 AM No.81975018
>>81974756
>Sounds a lot like when women say "We dress up for ourselves not men".
no it doesnt
thats an obvious false equivalence because masturbation is not performative
im not doing it in public, im doing it because my hormones will literally brainwash me if i dont
nor does drawing that equivalence contradict my point that you are mentally ill if you think that im jerking it purely to feed some cunts ego
>But in a way you are still supporting these women. Like I said, if there is a demand for it, it will be produced.
the demand is baked in to our fucking genes retard, both literally and emphatically
you exist and continue to steal oxygen purely because of this primal need
im not going to castrate myself because me having normal and healthy sexual desire makes you feel ugly, face reality, the sexual markets that exist in response to this desire are exploitative specifically of men and these needs
onlyfans is probably worse than casinos in terms of brain rot and financial drain, youre basically demanding gambling addicts to boycott their vice, almost maliciously dismissing how predatory these practices and industries are
>le prenup
doesnt happen
even the wealthiest men in the world cant get away with that shit, look at bezos
whores are cheaper than alimony and child support and are basically the only easy option a lot of these unfulfilled men have
to deny that a woman can and will hold a man prisoner in a loveless marriage under threat of financial and social ruin is absolutely delusional, the deck is stacked against them
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Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:56:11 AM No.81975043
>>81974756
>You're genuinely a gold star
For doing the bare minimum? Can you ask women to stop consuming porn too? I can't find a single one that's not degenerate.
>Can this be untaught or is it just how they are?
It's a very complicated issue that existed way before porn and OF. I don't think it can be untaught. There are three types of men. The men that only like whores, the men that fuck whores and marry madonna's, and the men that ignore whores and marry madonna's. Only the latter won't have the complex, but those men are unconventional, in high demand and hard to notice in the sea of horny pajeets.
>It's insane to me how much married men or men in relationships watch porn or pay for sex work.
They have their needs, just like women. I know some men who completely stop watching porn when they are in a relationship because "they just ain't her". It's just rare.
Anonymous
7/27/2025, 2:56:16 AM No.81975045
>>81975018
Its makes you wonder why so many women are anti porn so bad, I think they just want better control of men. Or maybe its old roasties getting jealous when they see men watch younger chicks?