Friendzoned by a girl who groped me - /r9k/ (#82052870) [Archived: 68 hours ago]

Anonymous
8/2/2025, 3:07:08 PM No.82052870
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>be me
>meet cute woman (mid 20s)
>we exchange numbers and chat
>she suggest we go grab some coffee
>idk if this is platonic so I playfully suggest alcoholic drinks
>she responds "but the two of us are already whiskey together"
>and "i think the alcohol is merely a decoration" she adds
>finally meet with her and go to a bar with a dance floor
>she gets tipsy and comes from behind squeezing me
>she playfully starts touching my pec and waist
>turn around and say "damn you're fast"
>slowly lean in for a kiss
>she gets annoyed and says I interpreted it wrong
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 3:10:55 PM No.82052891
>>82052870 (OP)
yes anon we all like romance anime very much dont worry he'll get with the girl at the end
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 3:16:57 PM No.82052928
>>82052870 (OP)
That's not groping you damn gooner. Groping is sexual in nature and what she did wasn't sexual at all. Some girls are more touchy than others, also even if she did grope you don't kiss a girl on the dance floor you barely know. That's for later dummy.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 3:18:31 PM No.82052936
>>82052870 (OP)
It happens and this experience will annoy you for a good while, but atleast it was done fast and you didn't waste months on her before getting zoned.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 3:22:30 PM No.82052960
>>82052870 (OP)
anon, girls like to flirt, touch you unnecessarily and give you those googly eye looks as they mentally undress you(if you look just about good enough)
Girls HATE when you flirt back or try to advance the touching to something else.
Why they do this? they are most likely bored don't think about it too much
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 3:26:25 PM No.82052986
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>>82052870 (OP)
>she playfully starts touching my pec and waist
That's just normal touching for male-female dancing. You blew it because you're a porn addict and jump to sexual conclusions. If women want to fuck they make it VERY obvious.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 3:28:35 PM No.82053003
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>>82052986
>Femanons
>I think she just wants to be friends
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
8/2/2025, 3:31:08 PM No.82053028
>>82053003
Super Coot punch!
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 3:32:38 PM No.82053046
>>82052870 (OP)
Fair interpretation to make desu, especially when alcoholized.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 4:13:08 PM No.82053353
>>82052928
try it on a girl and see what happens.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 5:50:56 PM No.82054129
>>82052960

why would they needlessly touch you if they think you're disgusting or ugly?
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:07:17 PM No.82054799
betas get left on read
betas get left on read
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>>82052870 (OP)

Similar things have happened to me. Women are stupid and fickle like that. She either changed her mind on a whim or was just baiting you for validation and attention.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:42:49 PM No.82055054
>>82054799
she said that while "i'm sexy" I'm a cretin who was after one thing all along.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:47:09 PM No.82055092
You did good

Escalate early so you know if the bitch is DTF. Her reaction is an obvious tell she's just playing games

Next her. She's dead to you.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 8:28:48 PM No.82055484
>>82052870 (OP)

femanon here,

she probably is attracted, but you took it as a green light for consent. Not the same.