>gf keeps bitching I don't share my feelings with her
>one dy come home after work and talk about my frustrations
>she basically tells me to stfu, stop complaining, and deal with it
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH WTF IS WRONG WITH WOMEN!? I HATE THEM SO MUCH!

>>82053768 (OP)
if you hate her could you leak her nudes

>>82053768 (OP)
Humiliation ritual that every woman is biologically hardwired to make men experience.

>>82053768 (OP)
get a better girlfriend retard. if you were able to pull one youll be able to pull another

>>82053768 (OP)
that's your fault right because you blame women when they get abused so then this is your fault because you picked a girlfriend who doesn't care about your emotions and she just lied to you but it's your fault even though she lied right???
but actually I am sorry for you because that sucks but I'm frustrated because if you were a woman talking about how your bf did that to you then everyone here would be really mean and they would blame you for it but because your a man then everyone is blaming women and that asshole telling you to leak her nudes so it's really upsetting

>>82054299
This place is a truly awful psyopped cesspit what's new

>>82053768 (OP)
The real and final blackpill is that women are usually cool and fun to be with but you absolutely cannot be totally real and honest with them because they both don't care and don't understand. When you understand and accept this, you will be happier and more at peace. I speak as someone that has had several long-term relationships with women.
The only woman in your life that you should fully trust with this deep emotional stuff is your mother, if you are lucky enough to have a good mother. I do and she is an angel and my only true confidant. But aside from her, NEVER tell a woman your deepest feelings or insecurities or worries. Just don't do it. It won't lead to anything good.
Women are socially and biologically predisposed to want to avoid men that do this. That's just how life is. Even my dad, who has been married to my mother for 35 years but has been with many women, told me this, when I was going through a breakup. He keeps most of his problems to himself and he has maintained a marriage unlike 90% of other men he knows.
Women only respect strength and confidence, period.
That's it.
They are not your mother or your therapist. They are a companion to live with and have sex with and share financial liabilities with but don't expect much beyond that if you want a peaceful life. Anything extra is a really nice pleasant surprise but it isn't standard.

DO NOT EVER BELIEVE IN THE PSYOP THAT YOU SHOULD EMOTIONALLY UNLOAD WITH YOUR WOMAN, IT WILL NOT WORK AND YOU WILL BE ABANDONED AND SHE WILL LEAVE YOU, DO NOT EVER FUCKING DO IT NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS

Then date a dude

>>82054299
Women are inherently evil and unworthy of moral consideration or empathy, I'm sorry that you were born the evil sex, stay frustrated.

>>82054299
>anon: venting about a shitty experience with his girlfriend
>fembot: "how can I make this thread about me and my feelings and shitting on a board notorious for hating women that I voluntarily come to?"
And you wonder why we hate you. Fembots should be exterminated, they are not human. Please go back to Xitter

Men answer exactly same when their partner complains about stuff. Why do you expect women to act different?

>>82053768 (OP)
>he fell for it
i mean ive fallen for it too but HAHAHAHAHAH

>>82053768 (OP)
When a woman wants you to share your feelings with her, what she means is that she wants you to share woman-approved feelings in woman-approved ways in woman-approved circumstances.

>>82054325
it is
>>82054586
wow you almost sound like you have empathy and if you want to know the evil sex look at crime statistics
>>82054626
I gave him my opinion and told him I was sorry it happened to him what more do you want me to do it's not like I can make his gf be nicer to him

>>82054630
Nigger what? A woman's literal number one conversation topics are complaining and gossiping. If you told them to shut up there would be nothing to talk about. When women do that men usually just up and pretend to listen and nod and say "yes" every now and then. And they tell you what a great listener you are. This is why you're forever alone

>>82054662
no that's not true it's just men will not say anything and they just trauma dump and it's overwhelming and usually it's part of him abusing her but ya sometimes some women don't really mean it like I guess ops gf but thats rare

>>82054687
You don't know what trauma dumping is. Trauma dumping isn't sharing your vulnerable difficult feelings with a loved one who asked you to, it's going to the pub with your mates and out of nowhere talking about that one time you got raped by a priest when you were a kid. It's sharing traumatic things in inappropriate circumstances, not sharing traumatic things in general. And I got told that by my therapist, because women like you were mind-fucking me about it for my whole life.

>>82054682
This
I had a gf for a year and a half despite being, before that point, a typical 4chan incel NEET. And she was a fucking 10/10 latina. But one way I kept her for so long was taking an "interest" in the female gossip shit she told me, and encouraging her with it and reassuring her she was right. Women love that shit and it is EXTREMELY important to them, more than normal functioning men can understand. It is like fuckin' water and oxygen to women. Just go with it, and be happy to get some affection and pussy in exchange.
That's just how it be. What do you want, to spend 10 hours talking about arthouse films with them? Fuck off, fag. Understand women and you'll be happy. Don't do it, and you'll always be alone.

>>82054682
>>82054723
Adding on to what these anons said, don't ever get emotionally invested in what she's complaining and gossiping about. They never fucking mean it. One day she'll say she hates some girl and this girl does all kinds of mean shit to her, then the next day they are going out to lunch together.

>>82054719
not it's not read the definition
Trauma dumping refers to the unsolicited and excessive sharing of traumatic experiences or personal struggles with someone, often without regard for the recipient's emotional capacity or the context of the situation. It's characterized by oversharing, a lack of reciprocity, and can leave the recipient feeling overwhelmed and distressed. Essentially, it's when venting about personal trauma becomes a one-sided burden on the listener.
so when he just starts complaining about all his frustrations that's going to be more than her emotional capacity for it and also it's literally your therapists job to be able to handle that so that's why it wasn't trauma dumping when you talked to him about it

>>82054687
Please shut the fuck up, dumb foid

>>82054687
>they just trauma dump and it's overwhelming
To this retarded bitch and all women, any negative emotion or problem that men present is "trauma dumping and overwhelming". Don't listen to this whores trickery. The only emotion men are allowed to present are positives ones of strength and power. Even anger turns them on, that's why whores stay with abusive men but dump the weak ones that "love them"

>>82054754
Yup, I could never make a final moral judgement on a person in her life becaue she'd change her entire fucking mind and heart the next day and expect me to agree with her again
Women are just like that, and latina women are even worse, they're like all women stereotypes dialed up to a fuckin' hundred.
NEVER treat a romantic/sexual partner as if they are a friend or mother or therapist. They are none of those things and you will lose them if you expect them to act like them. Maintaining a romantic/sexual relationship requires very carefully and deliberately cultivating certain types of behaviours and responses and maintaining that.
No, women are not rational or reasonable. That's the entire fucking point. You think boomer men were lying when they joked about that?

>>82054765
>unsolicited
Women in charge of knowing what words mean
>It's characterized by oversharing, a lack of reciprocity, and can leave the recipient feeling overwhelmed and distressed. Essentially, it's when venting about personal trauma becomes a one-sided burden on the listener.
So basically what women do to their boyfriends every single day, got it

fuck all of you your all assholes and this is why your all incels it's because your all assholes and even when someones being nice you all gang up on her and you make everything a fucking argument even though I'm just trying to help and I got the definition but you just hate me so you don't even care well fuck you assholes

>>82054765
Your definition is compatible with what I said. It's just that you're stretching the "without regard for the recipient's emotional capacity" to basically justify calling any sharing of feelings that make you feel uncomfortable trauma dumping. When a guy tells you something traumatic, it will make you feel uncomfortable. So by your interpretation, there's no way for a guy to share things like that with a loved one. Which is simply wrong, you should be able to talk about such things. But women like you aren't capable of the basic minimum of being a decent person. Instead of taking accountability for it, you try to turn it around and make it seem as if the guy was doing something immoral. Which is a morally heinous and repugnant response to someone who you supposedly love being vulnerable with you.

>>82054814
Fuck off already, you came in here starting an argument, you're not nice, we're not incels, we just know what women are. You are not welcome here. We don't like you. You are not the magical incel-whisperer, you are not some rare exception of a good or nice woman. You're the same as every other piece of shit foid. This place is not for you; go back to normie-land.

>>82054814
Right we're the assholes here. In all your posts the only nice thing you said was
>I am sorry for you because that sucks
But then you immediately changed the subject to yourself. YOU ARE THE ASSHOLE

You fell for the shit test

Classic lol

>>82053768 (OP)
From what I understand about women, when they say they want you to share your feelings, what they mean is that they want you to be romantic and make them feel good. They don't want to hear about your problems.

>>82053768 (OP)
I don't see the point in dating women, if you aren't a "shallow-affect" type of man. It just looks so incredibly emotionally unfulfilling. It's like you constantly have to wear a mask around your partner. And she feels convinced that she wants you to take it off, but the moment you do, it makes her feel uncomfortable. And because she felt uncomfortable, it must mean that you did something immoral and are a terrible manipulative person. Why should a guy want to put up with that?

>>82055105
>Why should a guy want to put up with that?
Pussy and cuddling. Someone to do stuff with, like go on vacations, to the movies, to dinner, etc. They can also give you momentary feelings of love and happiness (surely by accident on their part). They can help you dress better. And some of them will even occasionally cook a meal or help out around the house.
But yeah, you're not wrong, don't fool yourself. Admittedly it's not for everyone. You will never have a partner, you will never be loved or understood. Every man will have to die alone whether he has a girl or not. But occasionally it has its nice points.

Well this thread is incredibly depressing.

>>82055105
>Why should a guy want to put up with that?
Sex

>>82055195
>Pussy and cuddling. Someone to do stuff with, like go on vacations, to the movies, to dinner, etc. They can also give you momentary feelings of love and happiness (surely by accident on their part).
so in other words, all things that I can find in southeast Asia for $30/day?