>>82067449>victim blaming.If you're gonna do that, then you also need to stand against feminists, identity politics, civil rights advocates, all poor people, and disabled people for doing the same shit. They're all likely narcissists, according to you, if you're being consistent.
I honestly hate people with internal locuses of control. They think they're better than everyone else by default and blame themselves for shit they didn't even do and take credit for work they had no part in. Worse, they blame others less fortunate than them because they expect everyone else to also have an internal locus of control.
I used to have an internal locus of control, blaming myself for everything wrong. All it did was make me a fucking fag. Then I had a glow up, exercised a lot, and realized that the way I act is almost entirely determined by my body. I don't assume it's a personal failing when I don't say the right thing or come off as awkward. It's usually because I didn't sleep or didn't eat right or because I got too excited or was just being stupid because I'm not perfect. I don't immediately blame myself because that's stupid and demotivating. I can literally just get exercise, take cold showers, eat food, sleep, and suddenly all my problems stop happening.
There's always a trick to things in life. If you blame yourself, then you fell for it.