Thread 82069083 - /r9k/ [Archived: 186 hours ago]

Anonymous
8/4/2025, 2:26:19 AM No.82069083
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Anyone here who went from ugly to attractive? Or even knows someone who did?

Seriously, what's it like?
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Anonymous
8/4/2025, 2:27:17 AM No.82069096
>>82069083 (OP)
I went from ugly to old and ugly
Anonymous
8/4/2025, 2:32:22 AM No.82069153
>>82069083 (OP)
I was a hobgoblin until my late teens, and going from the anti-social outcast to one of the most popular kids in high school was extremely blackpilling. Girls who gave me the ick look before, were suddenly fighting over me. It made me extremely bitter, knowing they never liked me for who I was, just what I represented.
Anonymous
8/4/2025, 2:35:58 AM No.82069181
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>>82069083 (OP)
Nice Anon. I hook up once a week with a guy to eat his hot chip/za, and get fucked in the ass and watch anime. People treat me with respect and open doors for me now. I feel complete packing some money in the bank and having enough for the tech toys I want. Work still sucks though, hoping I get a boss that likes it sucked soon.

>Tranny life is good
Anonymous
8/4/2025, 2:45:14 AM No.82069239
>>82069083 (OP)
plucked my unibrow
went goth
started going to the gym
that's pretty much it
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Anonymous
8/4/2025, 2:45:53 AM No.82069246
>>82069083 (OP)
You never lose the tendencies you had when you were unattractive. For me the hardest is trusting people's intentions. When people would treat the idea of flirting with you or making feel wanted in any way as a joke it's hard to believe that people could actually be serious about being attracted to you in any form.
Other people are also dismissive the things that make you feel insecure or uncomfortable. There are things about my appearance that I have been insecure for as long as I've been aware of them. When I tell people that they just laugh it off and refuse to think I'm being serious.
Anonymous
8/4/2025, 2:52:29 AM No.82069290
>>82069083 (OP)
I went from being bullied for my looks (ages 6-17) to being a signed model. My mental health is getting better but I'm not sure I'll ever truly escape being an ugly kid. I still worry that the people who are nice to me are just tricking me for a joke, I still worry that my girlfriend is just settling for me because I'm nice and safe, I still can't shake the feeling that the people who look at me in public are gawking at me because I'm a freak.
Life is better but you don't feel better if that makes sense. I'd still rather not be who I was before but I'd give anything to have the confidence and assurance of someone who grew up normal.
Anonymous
8/4/2025, 2:54:26 AM No.82069304
>>82069239
What goth bands do you like anon? It sounds like we're in a kind of similar boat
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Anonymous
8/4/2025, 3:06:02 AM No.82069393
>>82069304
nothing too obscure, basic manson/nin mtv entry level stuff that everyone else was into at the time, I was also into punk and metal which had goth aesthetics.
Anonymous
8/4/2025, 3:09:27 AM No.82069418
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>>82069083 (OP)
>Anyone here who went from ugly to attractive?
Yes via losing weight (went from 320 to 165). I have high face symmetry but that didn't matter when I was 40 bmi and acted like no-confident bum.
>Seriously, what's it like?
It is a big difference:
>I have a very good chance of getting hired on the first interview (if I have the credentials)
>I went back to college, and stacies in class go out of their way to sit next to me (if I moved they'll usually move to sit next to me lol).
>extroverted women will touch me (even randos/wagies).
>extroverted women who know me (work/etc) will often hug me.
>if I talk friendly to older women often they'll pay for my coffee or restaurant bill.
>if I do common-sense conservative talking points most women agree with me (I'm talking about total woke feminist types), as long as it's NOT trump worship or blatant bigotry, and even if they don't agree they'll still be friendly with me.
>I get girls saying stuff like "my friend thinks your cute".
>I occasionally get stalkers