i don't make porny moans during sex. i can't fake anything. i got too used to keeping quiet while masturbating in my room for decades so i am dead silent until when i am about to coom. then my breathing gets heavy. but i make no noises. is this a dealbreaker for moids? do i need to fake it? were we brainwashed by porn into thinking being noisy is the norm and sex is actually quieter?

>>82087365 (OP)
I am extremely attracted to voices, so i think i am qualified to answer.
I would be turned off with exaggerated or acted moans.
But relaxed moaning, including soft/heavy breathing, jiggles my balls.

>>82087365 (OP)
Your actual partner should be understanding. You've conditioned yourself to be inhibited. Sex is supposed to be loose and fun. Know what I mean? In turn you will allow yourself to enjoy sex and be less dead if they're doing it the way you like

>>82087365 (OP)
How would I know? I've never had sex or a gf. And if I ever did I would never believe you're into it anyways so you're either dead silent or faking it.

when you're masturbating, you know what feels bad, and avoid doing it more than once; you know what feels good, and repeat that movement. When you're having sex, or getting finger-blasted, or eaten out; the other person needs some sort of indicator of what feels good for you. A guy who cares about you getting off might lick your pussy in a few different places, at different speeds, and adjust according to the noises that you make.

The alternative is to be extremely direct:
>anon, i like indirect clitoral stimulation, near, but not directly on my clitoris. Keep your tongue as flat as possible. Lick slowly at first, and then build up speed. When I'm about to cum, lick as fast as you can. Do not ever suck on my clit, some women like it near climax, but i fucking hate that.
Most women don't know enough about themselves to give such direct instructions; and even if they knew, they aren't socially brave enough to say so. Moaning to indicate pleasure is the best they can do.

The irony is that most women don't want to get off like that. They want to be used by a man that is so overcome with lust, that he can only focus on his own sexual pleasure. But just like women have been conditioned by porn/society to think certain things, men have been conditioned to think that their sexual value is tied to how many orgasms they can give a woman.

>>82087365 (OP)
you just haven't met the right guy.

>>82087365 (OP)
how do you know you'd keep your voice dead quiet until cumming with a real dick?

oh it's because you've taken real dick already, you fucking whore

fuck you

>>82087397
oh i can do that
>>82087465
i don't think they care as much as you're suggesting desu porn is full of faking. personally i would prefer direct communication
>>82087471
>>82087513
i have never had sex

>>82087365 (OP)
>then my breathing gets heavy.
hot
now if i find it hot, chances are there's at least one other guy who also finds it hot
good luck

>>82087365 (OP)
I'll cum much faster if you're making noises but also you should try making noises when they do something good to encourage them to keep doing that. Or even talking a little. Like ohh I like that. ohh baby show down. ohhhh almost speed up. etc

>>82087465
>anon, i like indirect clitoral stimulation, near, but not directly on my clitoris. Keep your tongue as flat as possible. Lick slowly at first, and then build up speed. When I'm about to cum, lick as fast as you can. Do not ever suck on my clit, some women like it near climax, but i fucking hate that.
Why the fuck did I imagine Tuvok saying that?

>>82087650
You don't need to moan like you're in porn. Sex is for pleasure and maybe procreation. You can have sex without making exaggerated moans.

>>82087365 (OP)
most people are quiet IRL

>>82087365 (OP)
My gf pegged me yesterday and I was moaning like a girl, it just happens on its own if the dicking is good enough

>>82087365 (OP)
sex should be intimate and non-performative.
An act between the closest of people.
Both parties should REALLY desire each other and want to do sex if sex is to happen.

>>82087365 (OP)
Nope all good. I'm quiet too. I don't make any noise and just let it go.

>>82089569
Also I had sex with a troon for a bit and I just think too much during it about what to do, how to do it, how to make it better, and other porn things ony brain.

>>82087365 (OP)
thats cool but i will most definitely act tough in the beginning then moan and squeal like a bitch when i coom hope this isnt a dealbreaker for foids

>>82087365 (OP)
all you fat niggas moan like cows in heat be so fr dont act all sweet and quiet you fucking niggers

>>82087650
>i have never had sex
masturbation is a type of sex, desu

>>82087365 (OP)
I'm also really quiet when masturbating but when having sex the pitch of my voice goes up. Not like I'm squealing but definitely higher. I wonder if guys think it's weird.

>>82090026
Aaaaaah thats so fucking cute

>>82087365 (OP)
No, its really fugging cringe. Just be normal.

>>82087365 (OP)
soft and heavy exhales are top tier. with kissing in the mix it makes it all the better. fake moans are for gay millennials. giggling is highest tier
some women are unironically loud as in they lose all volume control, arch back and let it out. and that's also good

Just say
>cum inside me
>knock me up
>make me a mommy
(loop)
Guaranteed to make him coom