>got a gf after being a lifelong incel
>suddenly spending $100+ a week on restaurants
>$60 to go to some festival with overpriced food stalls
>$50 for a scented air diffuser
>$25 for a blanket because it's "cute"
>$15 for a tote bag that she hasn't even bothered unboxing since it shipped
>$20 for a waterproof phone holder because she "needs" to watch youtube in the shower

Financially speaking, is this normal? How much does your gf/wife spend on average?

>>82091416 (OP)
can i become your gf anon

Yep that's normal. Women are very easily swayed by advertising so most advertisers focus on women. Since you just started she's also seeing how deep your pockets are and she might look to shit test you about it.

>>82091416 (OP)
>Financially speaking, is this normal?
yes
>How much does your gf/wife spend on average?
$2k/month

Her phone isn't waterproof? Where did you pick her up, the poverty store?

>>82091416 (OP)
>is this normal?
goobers are begging to follow up on that post

>>82091416 (OP)
I'm about to spend about 7k on a vacation I don't really wanna go on for mine. Also spent about 5k on her for one birthday. Bought her about 2k worth of tattoos. Welcome to the club brother, it only gets worse. Women are the most materialistic people on the planet. I saw some statistics the other day on the rate women consume compared to men, it's fucking shocking. Got so much autismo shit I wanna buy but can't because I'm scraping together every cent for this bitch.

>>82091416 (OP)
Yes it sounds like you are getting away cheap. Add in vacations and day/weekend trips

>>82091474
>Bought her about 2k worth of tattoos.
hahahahahaha

>>82091482
To be fair she paid 1k for one of mine but still.

>>82091416 (OP)
I spend maybe 200 dollars a month on my girlfriend normally. I'm 20 and in college. Honestly she's probably spent more money on me than I have her.

>>82091416 (OP)
Mine is a fat single mom. I spend less than $100 at christmas and her birthday and that's it. If she was better looking and had no kids I'd probably increase that amount slightly.

>>82091416 (OP)
That honestly sounds pretty light to be honest.

>>82091561
Lmao you make it sound like upkeep on a used car.

>>82091416 (OP)

That's just her being a woman, anon. Women like to be taken care of.

I'm not giving her jack shit. She doesn't deserve it

>>82091474
>>82091489
enjoy your retard stamps

>>82091416 (OP)
I'm the broke uni gf and I don't even spend this much. Only $20 max per week. And that's dates only, including his food too. Never more than $15 gifts for me. Those are my rules for his spending on me. The most hes ever spent on me was $200 for my endometriosis surgery (it affected both of us, if you know what I mean.) both my insurance and family refused to pay, and even after that I did everything in my power to return the favour. I very often bake for him too, every week or so. I usually make very intricate things that take 1-2 days to make.

You need to grow a spine and put your foot down. No matter how antimisogyny you have to be, some women need to (nicely) be put in their place. You will begin to resent her if you don't. My dad often scolds me out for my boyfriend paying for me and tells me if he spends too much too often, he will grow to resent me.

>>82091489
Scribbleskin faggot, you should both kill yourselves

>$100 a week on gf
You're getting off easy, anon. I've spent that in an afternoon.

>>82091737
Your dad clearly has his own issues. Most men enjoy spoiling their loved ones if they have the means, it's only when it becomes an expectation that resentment will grow.
I'm going to be surprising my gf at her work with flowers today.

No? Unless she's some bitch from Saudia Arabia or some shit there's literally no reason to spend so much in a matter of weeks

Girl is using you at this point if it was completely unprompted on your end

>>82091762
I absolutely love flowers but I feel terrible whenever I ask for them. I do get him flowers too but it feels so terrible to ask for more of what I already have.

>>82091775
You shouldn't have to ask for them! If he can't afford them wait for spring and organize a flower picking date. That's what I did when I was extra broke, I'd make bouquets from the flowers they grow along nice streets in my city.

>>82091800
He's extremely wealthy and can fully afford them. Just the compared debt of how much I've spent on him vs how much he's spent on me makes me feel guilty for even thinking about it. I'm a foster kid on scholarship and i lived in poverty most of my life, wheras his parents are extremely rich. I feel very much like a pooron parasite feeding off the rich when it comes to the financial aspects of the relationship.

>>82091800
Also I've asked a few times before but he seems to forget unless i remind him very often. He is very forgetful since he's ND so I don't really hold it against him.

>>82091416 (OP)
shes just using u for money then will dump u when shes bored. u should rape and kill her before she gets away with it

>>82091416 (OP)
>>82091439
>>82091474
>>82091492
>>82091561

Hahahaha normgroid sexhavers = betabuxxing cucks confirmed

Better gigatruecel than cuck.

Never ever spend a single penny for foids if you are not a chad in the first place

>>82091416 (OP)
Single women spend MORE money than the average family and women in general hold %80 of consumer debt

Now you understand why destroying the family the sexual revolution and turning women into whores is pushed so heavily

>>82091416 (OP)
drop her. now.
(cross posted)

>>82091416 (OP)
why doesnt she use her own money nigga

>gf enriches his life
>he prefers his money
retard

one time grill bought dinner so idk

>>82092959
>>gf enriches his life
actually shes making him poorer, not enriching him

>>82092959
>enrich

>>82091474
>Bought her about 2k worth of tattoos.
Damn, it feels good to be a wizard.

>>82091416 (OP)
same as usual
alphafucks
betabux

>>82091416 (OP)
Gals like money and to spend it, more than jews

Don't have a gf or anything but I presume 100-150 isn't so bad if you have a good job. The most I spend on myself is like 40 bucks because I just buy MRE's from my local surplus store and when they don't have any I just follow the Boris guide, or just eat canned food.

I live alone, but I do make a MRE bearable

>>82091474
>imagine spending money to make a woman less attractive
Insanity, tattoos can only devalue a woman.

>>82091416 (OP)
I was always so busy scarping the bottom of the barrel i forgot theses whores exist yeah she will break up with if you have no money or doesn't respect to enough to get a jobe and spend her own money

>>82091416 (OP)
And this is everything I fear about escaping inceldom. I am too NEET for that shit. Either we're just fucking, or nothing.
Well done being used like an ATM, OP. Just cut the bitch off and watch her leave you. You'll obviously be grateful when she does.

>>82094382
extremely true. Tattoos are ugly as shit.

>>82091416 (OP)
Nothing, just food, and we never eat out.
You are her walking atm retard.

>>82091416 (OP)
Any girl i was with, not even relationship wise, paid for me mostly cause im broke. If they make you pay in the first place they dont like you.

>>82091416 (OP)
Women are the ultimate consooomers. Big reason (((they))) push for women in the workplace and in promotions. A huge chunk of the economy only exists because of women spending frivolously, which they could not do nearly as much as housewives. Number would go down if men mostly controlled personal finances and consumer spending.

>>82091416 (OP)
>How much does your gf/wife spend on average?
Unsure but rarely any of my money
>suddenly spending $100+ a week on restaurants
>$60 to go to some festival with overpriced food stalls
I do this stuff because it's fun & I want to go to that stuff as well

Nobody is forcing you to buy any of this lol?

>>82091617
But the hole in your picture is rating Kevin, the 5'8" unemployed, as the best. Maybe he just has a GigaDick or something.

>>82094851
My ex was just like that

She would pay more than i made to pay her rent
She bought like 4 of those diffusers because she thought they made the apartment much more soothing

She still to this day hasnt unboxed any of those little things she

>>82091416 (OP)
Make her work and buy her own shit
It's acceptable to SPLIT costs with a woman but never to pay for everything yourself

>>82091416 (OP)
I forgot that women are like that in general because my mother is super stingy but it is true that always that a friend gets a gf he starts spending like crazy.
Women need to study house economy again

>>82091416 (OP)
that's normal gf expenses and even on the low side

>>82091762
my boyfriend practically FORCES me to let him buy me things, he gets extreme joy out of providing, men who hate doing this should just not date someone who desires things.

>>82091762
I feel viscerally repulsed by women who like flowers as a gift because it's the epitome of frivolous spending and romcom cliche ( I have nothing against women who enjoy gardening as a hobby though)

>>82091416 (OP)
yeah it's normal. I lost a fuckton of money just to go out with my ex

>>82097680
This. My bf and I were just discussing this yesterday, he was saying if you are broke you just can't afford a gf

>>82091416 (OP)
If you don't want her at her worst, then you don't deserve her best.

>>82097713
well, I wouldn't quite say that, it's just that men shouldn't force themselves to date someone who has spending habits like that, but I do also agree that you shouldn't date if you're suffering money-wise

>>82097738
If you suffer money wise and you find a partner who's economically minded, even if previously both of you were struggling your situation will get better because of shared expenses and coordination allowing both of you to work more hours if needed.
What you can't do is dating someone who has no selfcontrol, planing skills or basic economic knowledge

>>82093639
> Gals like money and to spend it, more than jews
Get your cliches right, Jews like to save money not spend it.

>>82097780
hm, true

>>82091416 (OP)
yea my bank account is on a downward trend for the first time in my life now that I have a gf lol (I don't make a lot of money) .

it's always just everything, going out for coffee, going out for smoothies, going out to eat and I pay more often than she does (but she does pay a good amount of the time).
I just feel like I'm not a gentleman if I'm not paying for the stuff.

>>82091416 (OP)
Yeah I don't want that garbage I want a psycho

>>82091416 (OP)
>>82091474
typical example of betabux provider.

>>82097738
>well I wouldn't say that
>just rephrases what I said exactly
Great talk hun

>>82091474
Betabux larper

So many faggots with gfs on this board what the fuck is this shit?

>>82098566
>what the fuck is this shit?
The end of the 4changelion

>>82097782
Jews get tons of money from friends. One of their greatest allies.

Just like how a hwoman gets money from their partner

>>82091416 (OP)
I've spent like 10k buying her stuff

>>82099358
Most I ever spent on myself at one time was 150. Surplus PASGT vest.

you're a dang ol fuggin walkin atm am I right man

>>82099358
Dude. The last time I had a gf I've spent -$60
If a woman really likes you she'll simp for you

whores do this yes, even talking to them online from soc they tried to ask for me to buy them shit
i bought them a game and they literally never played it years later its a test for how much of a cuck you are