Would you date a girl that doesnt give blowjobs? She would be a virgin if you are and not a virgin if you aren't. She doesn't want to give them because she considers the act humiliating and degrading and borderline sadistic since it is deemed so low that it is used as an insult "suck my dick, cocksucker, etc"

>>82113555 (OP)
Digits checked, and who cares. I just wanna spend time together, maybe hug and cuddle once in a while.

buttjob and rimjob are better anyway

>>82113555 (OP)
i dont really want blowjobs so im fine with that but i dont want to eat her out either

No, if she has some abstract reason for her interactions with me it means she is not attracted to me and doesnt like me. If she liked me she would give me blowjobs or push a girls head down to give me blowjobs i guess to show commitment, but no. That's called emotional baggage.

>>82113555 (OP)
I'm not interested in oral anything really.
>degrading, sadistic
If she uses words like this to describe the act, it bothers me though. So I'm conflicted.

>>82113555 (OP)
Have you ever tried shutting the fuck up? Jesus ficking Christ

>>82113555 (OP)
>she considers the act humiliating and degrading and borderline sadistic
i dont want bjs but i want my sex to be sadistic and degrading i want her ot claw my back and leave me full of bites

>>82113555 (OP)
Does she expect me to go down on her? If not, fine.

>>82113585
she would still be attracted to you, just she finds the idea of being forced choke on a dick then needing to swallow cum disgusting and saddening, some people just dont like the idea of that at all with anyone, especially since its seen as incredibly degrading by society
>>82113604
facefucking and making your partner choke and gag on a large object is inherently sadistic and evil

yeah i agree w/ her

>>82113555 (OP)
yeah i am completely fine with that desu. i prefer kissing instead.

>>82113555 (OP)
Would there still be other sexual acts involved? If so, I wouldn't mind not getting a blowjob. I don't even know what one feels like, so I wouldn't be missing out on much.

>>82113672
>i prefer kissing instead.
based iwant to make out with a girl all day

>>82113646
Its not justifiable. If she loved me she would let me degrade her (in her mind, not mine). Women who love men do whatever the man wants.

>>82113709
I guess you can choose the believe that but this is not true

>>82113555 (OP)
I'm waiting for the downside...
If I'm unzipping my dick why aren't we just having regular people sex instead of the part of the video I always fast forward through?

>>82113555 (OP)
I dont want blowjobs, but she better be fine with vaginal almost every day and lots of tit sucking

>>82113728
Unfortunately it is true. Having neurosis about sexual acts does not have an objective standard. Its just something shes not willing to do with HIM. If she wanted to make him happy she wouldnt be conflicted.

>>82113760
>t. Doctor Chud MD

>>82113760
you could also say that if she isnt willing to jump off a cliff if he asked her then she doesnt love him enough because she wont follow his every command with that same argument

>>82113769
Be real. If she wanted to keep him shed suck his cock.

>>82113786
Why? Because you say so? Do you have a >source for that?

>>82113555 (OP)
Yes this is a green flag if anything. I'd respect and love her so much if she told me any of that. but my incel lifestyle would have me immediately question all of that and probably wouldn't want to go forward because I'd be too anxious about the idea of her having done it before.

>>82113784
Yeah I mean I could say some stupid bullshit but I didnt. If he wants a blowjob and she doesnt give him one its because she prioritizes that she thinks its degrading more than his pleasure. And a bitch that wants to keep a guy considers his satisfaction. If she isnt obedient and permissive she doesnt love him.

>>82113786
the girl in this theoretical values not having to suck cock over being with anyone, if that was a requirement for relationships she would just be alone forever

>>82113804
>Yeah I mean I could say some stupid bullshit but I didnt
Are you sure about that?

>>82113646
>making your partner choke and gag
That would be deepthroating to be fair. I think that could be described as sadistic.

>>82113806
If she was in a relationship with someone she loved she wouldnt let her disgust feelings stop her.

>>82113819
if you were in a relationship with a woman you truly loved would you let her peg you or facefuck you with a strapon? probably not, because you likely find those acts disgusting, unless you do, in which case I guess the argument holds up in your case and I would hope you can find your woman who you take turns doing gross things to each other with

>>82113819
And if you loved her wouldn't you not want her to do something she didn't want to do?
>No I'm the MAN I'm a BIG BOY I have to DOMINATE and she must be SUBMISSIVE haha yes these are words
You sound like such a faggot.

>>82113848
What the FUCK are you talking about? People should not be doing things that they will not do BUT women are not capable of having sexual restrictions with someone they love. So no, if she doesnt like salmon he shouldnt MAKE her eat salmon and he shouldnt MAKE her choke on his cock, but she, being a woman who loves him, would be WILLING to do it, even if she never does. If a woman is not abiding of her partners sexuality, she isnt in love. That has nothing to do with the guy at all.

>>82113923
>BUT women are not capable of having sexual restrictions with someone they love
Again, says who?

>>82113555 (OP)
>suck my dick, cocksucker
Pretty sure these were reserved for men. It's a nice way to call someone a faggot. And then women got penis envy and felt the need to cuss like sailors all of a sudden.

Tasting your beloved's genitals is not humiliating or degrading. It's a completely antithetical mindset to mine, so I will not be dating such a girl.

>>82113555 (OP)
no that just means she doesnt actually love me