>>82114555 (OP)
By realizing that your obsession is not real
It's just a fabricated emotion you've chose to cling to in order to avoid your real feelings towards yourself.
It's an illusion.
A trick.
>>82114593
my feelings towards this person and my own feelings are so interconnected i can't separate them
i have adopted their identity as my own and i think about them constantly, i stay up at night thinking about them, i struggle to think about anything else