Thread 82121652 - /r9k/ [Archived: 109 hours ago]

Anonymous
8/8/2025, 11:54:05 PM No.82121652
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>go to uni
>go to class
>dont talk to anyone
>go straight home afterwards
>dont join any clubs
>repeat for four years

Honestly I dont know what I expected.
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Anonymous
8/9/2025, 12:33:05 AM No.82121977
>>82121652 (OP)
Samesies but I dropped out after a semester. Too depressing tbdesu. I feel 10x better being a NEET.
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Anonymous
8/9/2025, 12:50:14 AM No.82122132
>>82121977
Same, i tried twice, wanted to kill myself after 3 months both times, rotting ever since
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8/9/2025, 12:54:50 AM No.82122169
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>>82121652 (OP)
>He speedruns uni and gets away with it
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 1:33:25 AM No.82122432
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>>82121652 (OP)

I don't think it was worth it to talk to anyone anyways. It seems to be the case that if you don't entrench yourself into a friend group during orientation, freshman dorm move-ins, or within the first two weeks of your first semester, you are basically guaranteed to be alone because all the other first-years have already formed their cliques. The rest of your college experience is now relegated to getting stonewalled by these established cliques who don't need any more friends or your other option is to be gatekept by clubs that already have pre-established group dynamics where you will absolutely start at the bottom of normie hell if you can even manage to integrate. To elaborate a bit more, if you do establish yourself in these friend groups late, then you will be forced to be a 2nd, 3rd, or worse order friend, not the best friend that they've known since the beginning of college. This probably sucks the most since there is a huge quality of life difference between an acquaintance, friend, and best friend amongst social circles. God forbid you get relegated to the stooge (a type of acquaintance, not a real friend) that everyone puts down and uses to make themselves look better.
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 1:36:36 AM No.82122460
>>82121652 (OP)
I talked to people for a few months in uni, remembered I hated it, and then ghosted all of them and did what you did until graduation.
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 3:15:12 AM No.82123151
>>82121652 (OP)
I had friends in college, but they were people I met in my dorm hallway freshman year. None of us had the same major. So when it came time to graduate, I was sitting alone in a crowded room full of other people graduating in my major and they were all socializing with one another and I had no idea who anyone was (and they didn't know me). It was a weird feeling

also I tried joining the anime club but it was filled with the exact stereotype of hyperactive neckbeard weebs and they were already a clique so I didn't bother to go to more than the first meeting
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 3:17:33 AM No.82123167
>>82121652 (OP)
>go to uni
>go to class
>try to talk to people, they are friendly but don't want any actual relationship
>Join clubs, make acquittances but no real friends.
>end up spending most of my time either studying or shitposting online