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Anonymous No.82135418 [Report] >>82135442 >>82135566 >>82135598 >>82135693
How do you talk to women in a way that is both authentic and attractive?
Anonymous No.82135429 [Report]
like you would anyone else
Anonymous No.82135440 [Report]
i dont leave the house
Anonymous No.82135441 [Report]
be attractive and dont be unattractive
women dont have values or standards per se just weighted considerations for what has status or use.
Anonymous No.82135442 [Report]
>>82135418 (OP)
You dont, its all non verbal. They see your jaw and your car and make a decision. They check if you have black skin, and thats a huge bonus. They weigh their own value and worth compared to their options. They all think they deserve a black boys butt to put their fingers in but only some girls get that
Anonymous No.82135449 [Report]
be reborn a dumb nigger who thinks women are worthy and capable of having interesting and worthwhile conversations with just as much as men
Anonymous No.82135560 [Report]
just figure out how to join the social larp that everyone else is apart of, talking to women is just larping
Anonymous No.82135566 [Report]
>>82135418 (OP)
ask them about Fallout: New Vegas, Warhammer 40k, etc.
Anonymous No.82135598 [Report]
>>82135418 (OP)
For a start talking to her like a normal person helps
Anonymous No.82135647 [Report] >>82136501 >>82136518
Its hard because I think once you talk to a girl to date her it becomes fake since you're just playing the game to pass her guard. I found talking to girls effortless when I wasn't trying to fuck them, but since I wasn't trying to fuck them I never made a move.
Anonymous No.82135693 [Report]
>>82135418 (OP)
Make sure to speak in low tones while stammering and stuttering a lot
Anonymous No.82136501 [Report] >>82136518
>>82135647
It's a really funny glitch how we're allowed to talk to girls we don't feel anything for. Stupid fucking developers.
Anonymous No.82136518 [Report] >>82136538
>>82135647
>>82136501
The problem is, you guys are too analytical - the spark, the chemistry, the love, it's all illogical
Maybe one moment you don't feel like it, but you spend more time together and you think "Holy shit, I love her"

And if you do get the balls to ask her out, maybe she'll reject it and you'll ruin your friendship
But what if she accepts?
Anonymous No.82136538 [Report]
>>82136518
Oh if there's one person on this planet who knows that's how it really works it's me. It's just only ever happened to me once.
Anonymous No.82136961 [Report] >>82137016
By being tall, with a strong jawline, broad shoulders, <15% body fat, and a full head of hair. Did you really think that what you say has anything to do with whether women think you're attractive? lol
Anonymous No.82137016 [Report]
>>82136961
I have most of those things, but I'm socially retarded and awkward around beautiful women. I get some attention (touching, eye contact, them sitting too close to me) until they figure out I'm neurodivergent or just uninterested and leave me alone. To be fair, I enjoy solitude and would not last long in a relationship with the average woman.
And seeing quite a few men who are shorter, fatter, bald and poorer than me have gfs and wives has made me conclude personality is what matters most. As the man, you're expected to basically be a jester, approach first and be willing to provide. Most men end up doing that stuff. I don't and am not willing to. The only men my age (30) and older who are perpetually single are:
>Old divorcees who've had it with women.
>Andrew Tate fags.
>Neurodivergents like me, who actually enjoy singledom.
Looks don't seem to be a factor in it. Maybe the GigaChads get to fuck random women through hook-ups but that's about it. As long as you're NT, you will end up having a gf and even marrying. The only thing your looks will limit are the looks of your partner, but if you're rich you can attract women who would otherwise be Chad-only.
But if you're non-NT, it's basically over before it ever began, in most cases. The vast majority of women are very normie, value normiedom and can figure out you're not normie within the first 5mins of being around you.