How long would you date someone before considering marriage? I've been with my gf for 3 months and she's already met the parents at our family home, but it still feels way too early.

>>82169629 (OP)
1 year of living together. You won't really get to know her until you live and face life together

Good luck anon. Wish you the best.

>>82169692
i can't fathom living with a woman in the same apartment for years. best i can do is have my own place and occasionally visit her for sex. i need time to unwind from woman bullshit.

>>82169629 (OP)
with megumin? probably like a week

>>82169783
looks like a child to me, desu

id need to know someone for at least 2 years to consider even dating

>>82169783
The gf is 5'0 and Asian so she's as close to an irl Megumin as you can get. Dirty masochist too so I spank and rough her up like a toy. I have pathetic skinny man weak arms, but she can wrap her whole body around me like a spider monkey so I can still fuck her standing up. It's insane.

>>82169629 (OP)
Getting married is the worst decision you can make. Get a clue knucklehead

>>82169814
>>82169814
>Getting married is the worst decision you can make
I know this to be true in my heart, especially after watching my parent's nasty divorce, but most women are not yet liberal enough to live with you forever unmarried in a common law marriage-esque situation. They have certain expectations.

>>82169743
Agreed, but you have to live with women to actually reach this conclusion. Unless you meet an unicorn

>>82169827
de-facto common law unions are legally just as bad as marriage in a lot of places. Here if you live with a bitch for like 4 years she gets to take half your shit when she leaves, and there is no chance for a prenup

>>82169889
I think like him but I am khhv. I have just interacted with women enough to figure this out. Just get a normie job and listen to groups of women talking to themselves during breaks. Try to imagine hearing that bullshit every day at home for years. And facing tough financial/emotional penalties if you want out. If I don't stumble upon a woman who doesn't want marriage and kids, I'd much rather die a virgin. I simply cannot let go of my financial security and freedom like that.

>>82169629 (OP)
You should date for a year or two and see if she cheats on you.

>>82169960
Reasonable take, though we're preaching to the choir.

It still has positives, though, and I wouldn't dissuade anyone from trying it, but overall, I think men are happier alone, UNLESS they find a really empathic and warm woman, and these seem to be very scarce these days due to cultural shifts

>>82169973
Unironically this. Not that you should think about it too much, but, don't always present yourself at your strongest and see how she reacts. Does she try to uplift you? Proceed. Does she flake and takes distance? Dump.

>>82169629 (OP)
Talk to her and go in to detail about your thoughts on women in general before you marry her.

No, vaguely hinting about your thoughts doesn't count.
No, I don't want to hear your thoughts on women.

>>82169802
What in the cringe larp
Either you're trolling or you're a normalfag who fucks womencattle. Either way, why are you here?

>>82169783
with a girl like megumin it would take me about 0.1 seconds, sometimes you just know

>>82169827
That is correct. The misconception is that marrying her will somehow maintain the cohabitation you want indefinitely. It actually creates the incentive for her to leave you sooner because she leaves with half which is an amazing start up fund for her new life fucking chad. You have to view modern relationships like produce, enjoy it while it is there then move on. If you keep all of your money you have a better chance of getting a next girlfriend

>>82169629 (OP)
3 months is way too early; maybe 3 or 4 years would be better

>>82169629 (OP)
Wait until the first argument. If she withholds sex it's a huge red flag that she will keep doing it once married.