Thread 82179537 - /r9k/ [Archived: 86 hours ago]

Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:23:15 AM No.82179537
mikuphone
mikuphone
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i miss my discord friend
Replies: >>82179555 >>82179561 >>82179596 >>82179724 >>82179753
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:25:08 AM No.82179555
>>82179537 (OP)
what happened to your discord friend? why don't you make another one
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:25:44 AM No.82179561
>>82179537 (OP)
Discord friends aren't real, you can't miss them
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:28:10 AM No.82179581
>>82179555
i haven't messaged him in weeks and he hasn't messaged me either so i don't think he wants to talk to me
>why don't you make another one
but i like this one
>>82179561
i still cry about discord friends i lost forever
you are wrong
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:31:34 AM No.82179590
>>82179581
>but i like this one
why do you like a person that doesn't want to talk to you
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:32:21 AM No.82179596
>>82179537 (OP)
Not OP but i lost my friend group like around a year ago and whatever socialization i had went down hill
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:34:25 AM No.82179610
>>82179581
Just message him
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:36:38 AM No.82179625
>>82179590
i don't know that's hard to explain
i just think he's an interesting and cool person
>>82179596
i'm sorry anon
i lost a good e-friend group like ~5 years ago and i miss it all the damn time
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:38:02 AM No.82179632
>>82179581
You don't miss your discord friend, you miss the validation that receiving a message gives you. Your lack of messaging them and desire for them to message you first is communicating that you have low self-esteem and are taking people's initiative to contact you as some form of perceived value on your end, you want to feel worth sending a message to.

It doesn't sound like you're friends.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:39:06 AM No.82179640
>>82179625
>he's an interesting and cool person
there are a lot of interesting and cool people out there. try to befriend one that actually cares about you
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:41:54 AM No.82179659
>>82179632
if i only wanted messages i'd just message anyone
i like this person in particular
>Your lack of messaging them
i'm an anxious and avoidant person, i don't want to message someone if i'm bothering them
>>82179640
no it's very difficult for me to click with people and hardly anybody here shares the same circumstances i do
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:45:40 AM No.82179682
>>82179581
Unless you vc'ed and video called the person you were never friends

You can't be friends with text
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:47:26 AM No.82179693
wah
wah
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>>82179682
>Unless you vc'ed and video called the person you were never friends
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:51:50 AM No.82179724
>>82179537 (OP)
Same but mine blocked me.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:55:01 AM No.82179753
>>82179537 (OP)
Me too :( I wish I could still talk to them...
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:58:56 AM No.82179773
>>82179659
>hardly anybody here shares the same circumstances i do
what are your circumstances?
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 8:05:58 AM No.82179815
>>82179773
older completely isolated shut-in neet who missed all life milestones and has totally given up on life and isn't looking to improov
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 8:07:02 AM No.82179822
>>82179581
Make friends irl
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 8:08:12 AM No.82179827
>>82179659
you sound exhausting and you're probably a troon
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 8:08:28 AM No.82179829
>>82179822
How is this original?????

>>82179815
Stfu and do pushups, if youre pre-retirement age, society still expects something of you.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 8:10:16 AM No.82179839
>>82179659
>i'm an anxious and avoidant person, i don't want to message someone if i'm bothering them
Society is reliant on people bothering one another, cut it with this laziness disguised as politeness
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 8:10:45 AM No.82179845
>>82179822
i don't go outside and you can't make friends past college age anyway
>>82179827
i'm a biological female but i don't think he actually cares about that since i offered to vc and he didn't want to
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 8:29:39 AM No.82179946
>>82179815
well anon, i dont want to sound mean but the cool and interesting people want to hang out with other people that are cool and interesting, and you sound like you couldnt care less about anything
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 8:33:25 AM No.82179973
>>82179946
yea so i'd like to talk to the person who is similar to me instead and said so himself, not other people who are too cool for me