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Anonymous No.82187915 [Report] >>82187930 >>82187940 >>82187985 >>82187987 >>82187992 >>82187996 >>82188298 >>82188546
>get long distance gf
>she sometimes visits me
>she even gets rid of all her social media for me
>fast forward
>out of nowhere she reactivates her social media accounts
>a bunch of random guys on her friends list
>mention how she's reactivated her account
>she doesn't explain herself but make it clear im unhappy
>haven't heard from her in days
>refuse to reach out to her

I'm getting cucked aren't I?
Anonymous No.82187930 [Report]
>>82187915 (OP)
Yes. Break up with her and move on. Women would call this emotional abuse if it was happening to them. Go for someone who isn't far away.
Anonymous No.82187940 [Report]
>>82187915 (OP)
I'm so sosoryy man
Anonymous No.82187985 [Report]
>>82187915 (OP)
Tell her you need to talk and tell her exactly how you feel. If she doesn't respond or doesn't want to talk or says she's gone on dates or anything like that then block her on everything.
Anonymous No.82187987 [Report]
>>82187915 (OP)
Your first mistake was doing the long distance thing.
>out of nowhere she reactivates her social media accounts
>a bunch of random guys on her friends list
>mention how she's reactivated her account
>she doesn't explain herself but make it clear im unhappy
>haven't heard from her in days
Yeah its over.
Anonymous No.82187992 [Report]
>>82187915 (OP)
if you can attract a woman far away you can attract one that's nearby. relationships are built on intimacy, you can't be intimate and hug and kiss someone that's far away, and women cheat when the man is being distant to them aka an inevitability in long distance shit
my friend told me how he went long distance with his gf because they went to study abroad in different countries and he later found out she cheated on him and got pregnant from a guy there
Anonymous No.82187996 [Report] >>82188407
>>82187915 (OP)
>crying about someone half way around the world
I will never understand the obsession with virtual gfs
Anonymous No.82188298 [Report]
>>82187915 (OP)
Yea you're getting cucked but feel better OP. She was already talking to other guys before even "reactivating" her accounts
Anonymous No.82188357 [Report]
Youre not getting cucked OP. Youre no longer in a relationship. She doesnt see you as her partner so you are not in a relationship. You cannot appeal to her in any way. Cut contact and be glad you filtered her out. I'm sorry. What helps me with breakups is watching Louie and Swinger. Sorry. I'm here if you want to talk.
Anonymous No.82188407 [Report]
>>82187996
>I will never understand the obsession with virtual gfs
you get that self esteem boost from being wanted without having to deal with all the bullshit of actually having to deal with a woman irl
Anonymous No.82188546 [Report] >>82188622
>>82187915 (OP)
Let me guess. She also had a bf when you first started to talk to her?
Anonymous No.82188622 [Report] >>82188871
>>82188546
Yea how did you know? Apparently she wasn't very happy with him
Anonymous No.82188871 [Report] >>82188954
>>82188622
I have to be careful how I answer this


It depends on what you are looking for
Anonymous No.82188954 [Report] >>82189009 >>82189025
>>82188871
I'm not following fren
Anonymous No.82189009 [Report]
>>82188954
Do you live in different countries?
Anonymous No.82189025 [Report]
>>82188954
I think she might be doing the same to you as she did to her last bf. Cycling through them like a dishwasher