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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:43:55 PM No.82195813
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Why is it so hard for me to just attract a guy and get a bf ? I feel so left behind, every girl I know including the few friends I have all have or have had bfs. Even crazy and evil girls I know have had bfs who treated them so good and they never appreciated it, yet I've never even held hands, hugged, or kissed a guy other than platonically with my own father.
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:46:44 PM No.82195843
>>82195813 (OP)
Crazy and evil girls are hot. You're probably moralfagging too hard and scaring people away.
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:49:13 PM No.82195867
>>82195813 (OP)
Have you ever posted the inside of your panties tho?
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Kal el
8/15/2025, 11:50:54 PM No.82195887
>>82195813 (OP)
So what do you look like ?
You might just need to put yourself out there more.
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:52:13 PM No.82195897
>>82195867
Like my period stain ?
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:52:59 PM No.82195901
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>>82195813 (OP)
Well
Assuming you are a real girl
As long as you take care of yourself
I hope you will consider the option u gave you
And the options of others
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:53:08 PM No.82195903
>>82195897
>Like my period stain ?
Sure. Why not
Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:53:19 PM No.82195906
>>82195843
What the hell is moralfagging?
>>82195867
No thanks
>>82195887
>put yourself out more
Genuinely what more can I do?
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:55:01 PM No.82195920
>>82195901
What options did you give me?
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:57:48 PM No.82195952
>>82195920
I'm guessing himself. He looks pretty chad for a pajeet.
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:58:18 PM No.82195956
>>82195906
>What the hell is moralfagging?
Are you new here? You know what fags are right? Like gayfags are homosexual and footfags have foot fetishes? And someone that's a trainfag would be someone that likes trains a lot, but probably not in a sexual way. A moralfag is someone that likes morals a lot, like a really upright person. Moralfagging is a verb, so like you see someone doing something bad and you narc on them or tell them to stop doing bad things and that's moralfagging.
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:58:34 PM No.82195959
>>82195906
>No thanks
Fuck you and every one of your incel beta orbiters
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Anonymous
8/15/2025, 11:59:43 PM No.82195972
>>82195959
From one incel beta orbiters to another: She's not gonna fuck you bro
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Kal el
8/16/2025, 12:00:49 AM No.82195986
>>82195906
Well I'm in the same position. I'm 6'2, in good shape and attractive. So maybe it's not our fault. Have you tried just flat out asking a guy out ?
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:01:20 AM No.82195994
>>82195920
To date me
I am not the one in the image
That is Paulo Costa
But I hope you will consider my option
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:02:10 AM No.82196005
>>82195972
>She's
*She* never proved *she's* a *she*
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:02:27 AM No.82196008
>>82195952
I'm lost is this a reference to something?
>>82195956
I'm not new here I just haven't seen the word moralfagging much. Also no I don't do that
>>82195959
Okay
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:03:11 AM No.82196017
>>82195986
If you haven't gotten laid you aren't attractive
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:03:47 AM No.82196024
>>82196008
>I'm not new here I just haven't seen the word moralfagging much. Also no I don't do that
Maybe people don't say it anymore. Used to be a big thing. If you've been here less than a decade you're new in my book. Anyway if you want a boyfriend be more aggressive. Just ask guys out.
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retard
8/16/2025, 12:04:36 AM No.82196035
>>82195813 (OP)
I feel the same way. I'm 6'3, in great shape and very attractive. So maybe it's not our fault. Have you tried just flat out asking a guy like me out ?
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:05:54 AM No.82196054
>>82195986
That was the first thing I did and I got embarrassingly rejected. Not a fun time
>>82195994
I don't date people online or use dating apps
Kal el
8/16/2025, 12:05:56 AM No.82196055
>>82196017
I'm waiting till marriage so she won't find out that I have a small penis.
Kal el
8/16/2025, 12:07:26 AM No.82196068
>>82196017
I can get laid retard
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:09:27 AM No.82196087
>>82196068
i doubt it. a girl who cant get a bf these days is probably pretty fucking ugly.
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:10:11 AM No.82196092
>>82196068
>I can get laid retard
No you cant
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Kal el
8/16/2025, 12:12:04 AM No.82196107
>>82196092
I think your talking about yourself.
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:12:18 AM No.82196110
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>>82196024
>>82196035
>just ask men out
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:14:06 AM No.82196126
>>82196107
Pretty sure I'm not. I also don't hop on the Internet and tell ppl I'm attractive
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Kal el
8/16/2025, 12:15:38 AM No.82196136
>>82196126
Is your pussy hurting
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:16:41 AM No.82196146
>>82196110
Fitting. Just as the kitten is unable to lift the hammer, you too are unable to do anything whatsoever against anonymous.
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:21:18 AM No.82196185
>>82195813 (OP)
Ask your friends for help? Or are you their pet retard or something
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:22:58 AM No.82196206
>>82195813 (OP)
If you meet new people eventually you will bump into someone who makes a move. You have many ways of casually letting people know that you are single without seeming desperate or flirtatious. If someone who is also in a similar situation such as yourself and they have the courage, they will ask some leading questions and if you both have the right qualities, they will ask you out.
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:31:44 AM No.82196281
>>82196110
Would you like to go out with me?
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Kal el
8/16/2025, 12:34:11 AM No.82196305
You could always pay a man to be your boyfriend.
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:52:12 AM No.82196436
>>82195813 (OP)
>Why is it so hard for me to just attract a guy and get a bf
You can befriend men and if they are to your likeing, give them hints and nurture the relationship (like being flirty or give him a gift to show you think about him, laughing from his jokes or being cocerned about him like how his day went and so on) and wait for them to make the move (initiating touch or even going for a kiss. Depending on the situation and the guy's cofidance in himself and/or if it'll not end in a rejection) or even confess. Confessing esp is rare for a girl to do and is appritiated greatly, from experience (just don't do it in a text). Be your genuine self and lower the guy's defences and show him you're not playing games which will spare you shit-tests and show if you're really compatible. If he's attracted to you he'll show it somehow (maybe a gift to show he's thinking about you or feeling the water with a flirty text or comment, a compliment and so on. Depends on the guy and his confidance in himself and in the relationship). You want to show interest and be open to a relationship without seeming too slutty or desperate or a creep (though those can be a guy's type). It's a fine line to walk but is needed.
>the few friends I have all have or have had bfs
Life is not a race and you have time to feel your way around relationships and what you are looking for and want from being with a guy. I'm currently dating a girl with very little experience (I was her first) and we work out since we're communicating (a fancy word to talking about stuff) and guiding eachother to the goals each of us have in this relationship (like being treated a certain way and going places and such. For example, she doesn't like to be called a good girl, unlike an ex of mine, I like spooning after sex and so on) which can prevent awkward or unwanted situations and lead to chemistry.
Sorry for the blog post, hope this helps.
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 12:59:37 AM No.82196499
i am presently tabling arguments to develop legal precedent for easements concerning this 'legal access to another for romantic purposes'
..in the flesh
obviously my jihad is a double jihad but i believe there is precedence and i believe it will one day be realised in the west and i intent to effect these changes in my time
fear not OP for you will be supplied a compatible bf by the state if you side with me and if none are provided you may engage in islamic jihad without scrutiny or harassment
>>82195813 (OP)
just be warned that engaging in jihad essentially waivers your rights to 'safe harbour' regarding where otherwise you are the victim of another superior jihad and wish to proceed to achieve justice through the courts of the west
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 1:01:04 AM No.82196513
>>82195813 (OP)
It's not hard, you're just lazy and entitled af. Now get the fuck out.
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 1:07:08 AM No.82196578
>>82196185
I'm not their pet but I am retarded I won't lie to you. I only keep a few people in my circle, my friends are nice to me and all but I just feel out of place. This is how it's been with every friendship I've had, I just don't completely fit in with them
>>82196146
The kitten actually has secret hidden power and HAS lifted the hammer
>>82196206
Bro barely anybody talks to me no matter how approachable I try to make myself seem.
>>82196281
I don't date people online
>>82196305
I'm considering
>>82196436
I'm flattered that anons think making friends is easy for me. I'm an actual retard.
>>82196499
What?
>>82196513
Okay
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 1:09:11 AM No.82196601
>>82195813 (OP)
>Why is it so hard for me to just attract a guy and get a bf ? I feel so left behind, every girl I know including the few friends I have all have or have had bfs. Even crazy and evil girls I know have had bfs who treated them so good and they never appreciated it, yet I've never even held hands, hugged, or kissed a guy other than platonically with my own father.
Are you friends with lots of women more popular than yourself? I don't mean to blackpill you but the behavior you're seeing from your friends will get worse whan they start getting married. Newly married women use their marital status to dunk on their friends mercilessly:
>"My husband" this, "my husband" that (even when you know what his name is).
>Making sure the ring hand shows in every group pic
>Making their husband take loads of pics of her
>etc
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 1:09:57 AM No.82196608
My therapist has suggested to me that I tell me friends I am interested in dating and they would help set me up with someone because like they know what you are like and stuff. I just don't have any friends but you can try it. I am sure your friends know some single guys who would match with you
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 1:12:47 AM No.82196632
>>82195813 (OP)
What am I supposed to say? Sorry better luck next time? You have given no information about yourself
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 1:16:51 AM No.82196668
>>82196601
Don't most people get married when they're like 30? If I'm not married by then I think I'll just become a nun or something
>>82196608
I've asked my friends before what type of guy they could see me and with and like half of them said they didn't know, the other half said they couldn't see me with anyone
>>82196632
Clap
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Anonymous
8/16/2025, 1:23:07 AM No.82196722
>>82196668
>I've asked my friends before what type of guy they could see me and with and like half of them said they didn't know, the other half said they couldn't see me with anyone
be more forward with them and ask if they can recommed you anyone to date. You just asked some hypothetical question, not a real one where they can get you a date with a guy
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 1:48:10 AM No.82196924
>>82196578
>I'm flattered that anons think making friends is easy for me. I'm an actual retard.
Be it a friend of a friend that maybe hangs out with your friend group sometimes, or worst case senario you can turn to dating apps and amass a small number of guys (almost garanteed) to talk to and practice on. It'll also be easier since it's a dating app so you're expected to be flirty and take chances and talk about your optimal relationship goals with open-minded dudes. I found relationships through natrualy founded friendships, friend of friend (she heared of me a lot so I was familiar to her in a way, and we hit it off) and dating apps (after a lot of filtering and convos that led nowhere or a friendship, which I was open to; and found a few friend girls and girl pen-pals to pass time with. Some of them were trashy af though). You're a cool girl that browses 4chan, it can attract some people in dating apps (had my profile be a greentext for a while and found a local 4chan girl that I befriended and exchanged memes with) you need to write a profile that will filter fuckboys and attract the type of guy you are interested in. It works. Just takes time, patiance and emotional investment. Also you can go to places with guys (social gatherings like cons) and try your luck there. Join the activities like a boardgame or something. You'd be expected to be a bit awkward and nerdy, and may find a guy your type, or someone that will sweep you off your feet in a single convo. You never know if you never try. Practice, learn and dare. It's easier said then done but that is what is needed to get a bf. Being a shut-in and not open to new things or available will not achieve anything but lonliness and bitterness and FOMO.
Goodluck, femanon.
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 2:10:08 AM No.82197080
>>82196578
>I don't date people online
I wasn't asking to date you. I don't date men. I was showing you how easy it is to ask.
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 2:13:24 AM No.82197099
>>82195813 (OP)
you're either too fat, deformed, or simply wrong race
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 2:31:59 AM No.82197245
Are you a Brown Latina?
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 3:56:36 AM No.82197953
>>82195813 (OP)
ask a man out then
you're playing the game with cheats enabled
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 3:58:03 AM No.82197967
>>82195813 (OP)
You look unapproachable. That's it. If you don't smile, guys won't approach you.
Anonymous
8/16/2025, 3:59:47 AM No.82197981
>>82196578
Honestly you just sound like you're 14, get off this website and ask your dad for tips instead kiddo. Seeing your responses to these posts makes you look absolutely retarded, there is no way you're not a minor with this npc speak.