>>82198012 (OP)what precisely do *you* bring to the table on this one?
i work and keep myself stable, been out of the house for long enough to know i can keep doing this reliably. i am self sufficient. i cook, clean, work, and still have enough time to play my vidya on weekends (this is mostly due to my night shift schedule but whatever).
if you want me to take care of your ass too, it had best be worth my while somehow. i consider myself to be very reasonable, but "take care of me all the time and serve all my needs" is a really big ask, and i don't see how you could make it work with that outlook.
it's not about what others can do for you. it's about what you and someone else can collaborate on and make work. if more people had that outlook, maybe we wouldn't be in fucking gender war hell where women are marrying ai bots and men are simping/gooning for women online that they'll never meet.