I have controlling parents at 21 who im financially dependent on. Probably why im an incel. I have my location constantly tracked, all my finances are tracked and I have a curfew. She wont allow me to shop alone, cut my hair on my own and it was only 2 yrs ago did she let me drive myself to community college but she has me call her between classes on FaceTime.

>>82199537 (OP)
This has been constant thing since i was kid. When ever I did after school activities she would sit in with the group to watch me and after it ended she would head to coach in front of everyone to lecture him for why he didnt give me more attention. During field trips she would always chaperone and instead of being impartial she would just watch over me whole time. And in senior year when school had post graduation party for seniors she didnt allow me to go and in college orientation she got into an argument with the orientation for people for not allowing her to go with me. I know shes mentally ill but she is too controlling and im too dependent on her. I recently got an internship outside state and my mom made me give up on it

Just fuck her. You have unresolved sexual tension.

>>82199610
I was expecting some actual useful advice and she checks my phone every day. She goes through my text, pics and my contacts. She wishes to control my every thought and actions as if im a puppet. It has been going on for so long that Im literally unable to disobey her

>>82199580
>I know shes mentally ill but she is too controlling and im too dependent on her. I recently got an internship outside state and my mom made me give up on it
Um, you know you can always leave right? You don't have to do any of that, legally. And I don't know why you would want to keep a relationship alive with someone like that. MOST parents should be reasonable and sane enough not to be overly controlling without any good reason. Get a job after college and move away.

>>82199634
My phone, my car and my whole life is controlled by her. She has all my personal documents for identification and has control over my bank account. Am I suppose to just leave and be homeless in streets

>>82199634
Make a plan now. Apply to jobs, go to interviews, don't be completely honest with her about the details (out of state, salary, etc). There's also always the military, but that's the nuclear option (one I used to think about). Yeah, I'd rather put up with the military for a few years than deal with a controlling cunt and no job prospects. I'm fit. I played sports in school. I can follow a routine because I'm not retarded.

>>82199621
Your choices are
>fuck her
>kill her
>run away

>>82199652
See >>82199654 . She can't withhold your documents from you. Yes, you don't want to be immediately confrontational because she might make you homeless. Just solve the problems slowly. Phone? Get a cheap phone line ($10 dollars a month), pay with cash. Car? Yeah, save up for one. Bank account? Open your own. Why and how do you let her control your account? Is it joint? Your #1 priority should be to job and find some roommates.

>>82199675
I dont work she offers me a monthly salary and wants me to focus on school. I literally have zero financial freedom >>82199654
Plus jobs are hard to come by and not like I can work in secret.

>>82199693
>monthly salary and wants me to focus on school.
Ok, so do that since you won't/can't find a job. Graduate, then look into getting jobs post uni. You can't really do anything without having a job.