>>82200920Why do you want cuddles?
Oxytocin boost? Serotonin Boost? Feeling of security? Feeling of being wanted?
Sex has quite the overlap there.
I get it though. Right now if a beautiful girl popped into existence in front of me I would probably want cuddles and not sex. And maybe during the cuddles I would ask things like "who are you and how did you get here" and "are you planning to kill me", but sex wouldn't really be on my mind.
DEMO. Those feelings of "being wanted", "being accepted", "feeling safe in their arms", the general warmth of human connection, are in no way any more natural than wanting sex. The sex is equally valid a desire to have.
"Men use affection to get sex, women use sex to get affection."
Most women simply aren't worth interacting with without the sex. Other men are usually kinder, funnier, more able to understand each other's burdens, aspirations, goals, etc.
Removing sex, or the possibility of sex needs you to be quite a person.
>REE BUT CUDDLESGO HUG ONE OF YOUR FELLOW GIRLS THEN. Even if I'm 100% not in the mood and am guaranteed to not be in the mood, I wouldn't even want to cuddle someone I could never have sex with at this point, I've eschewed human connection almost entirely. Cuddling is intimacy. If you're not a suitable partner for intimacy I don't want intimacy from you.