>>82201025 (OP)I hate to say it but you're right, OP. I have old photos taken on cheap cameras with 35mm film decades ago. It's kind of sad how few photos I have because back then cameras were clunky things you didn't carry around with you all the time, film cost money and you had to take the rolls of film to a store and pay more money to get them developed, and some of them didn't even turn out. One time I lost a whole roll of film that were the only pictures I took when me and some friends went to a different city. Another time I threw away a bunch of cool photos of myself and friends because my ex-girlfriend was in all of them.
But the photos I do have show me and my friends hanging out and having fun together. Even if you were a bit of an introvert you just couldn't sit in your room all day by yourself, it was just too boring and lonely. You were basically forced to go out and socialize. You may think you're bored and lonely now, but even a site like this provides the illusion of human contact. Try and imagine how long you'd last if you tried to stay in your room with nothing but shitty TV shows, paperback novels, and a music collection that consisted of maybe a dozen albums. I couldn't do it, even though I actually tried to do it. So I'd go out to artfag cafes and dive bars, see punk bands at live shows and go to goth nightclubs, and eventually I made friends with the other misfits and outcasts who also went to these places.
>InB4 People still go out to bars you old retardIt seems like a lot less of them do. The bars in my town are always empty even on a Saturday night on the rare occasions I go, and if I'm ever in a cafe it seems like everyone is gaping at their phones. Do misfits and outcasts still go to bars, or do they all hang out online on a Saturday night? I've read that so-called "third spaces" are disappearing, and I read another article saying even gay bars were shutting down because even fags don't go out anymore, they just meet up on grindr.