Handsome VIRGIN - /r9k/ (#82215493) [Archived: 232 hours ago]

Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:37:54 PM No.82215493
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I'm a 35yo guy, former model, and I'm a virgin

Nobody has ever believed me. People have this idea that looks will result in automatic pussy but it's not that simple especially where I live
So yea I just wanna put it out there that I'm a model-tier "Khad" and I will most likely die without experiencing sex, love, or relationships
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:40:25 PM No.82215515
Even though I do not believe you I agree that attractive men cannot rely on their looks and often it's regular guys with money + halo effect who have success
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:41:02 PM No.82215523
>>82215493 (OP)
i belvie you
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:42:44 PM No.82215537
>>82215493 (OP)
I believe it
Women have disdain towards masculinity, and especially white men because they are more patriarchal.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:43:14 PM No.82215542
YOU NEED THAT RIZZ NIGGA
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:43:18 PM No.82215543
>>82215515

I'm OP and Iet me try to formulate my theory.
Yeah, it's usually the regular guy. I mean, most people are regular. Almost every person, man or woman, on this planet is more or less just a regular person. It's not like they die alone. It's the opposite. If your IQ is 100, you make 20k a year, and you browse Tiktok regularly, congrats! You will most likely succeed in life.
Speaking of Tiktok, I think social media crap is how most normies find one another. Or in alcohol-related events. I don't do either because I value my health and sanity.
That could be a contributing factor. I use an old Nokia phone and I only go to sports and arts events. No women there. Women these days are autistic as fuck, they just sit at home on TIktok until they find a Tiktokker guy to go out with.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:44:43 PM No.82215556
>>82215537
>Women have disdain towards masculinity, and especially white men because they are more patriarchal.

This is also true.
If you're a hispanic bi-sexual guy, women will be a million times more interested in you because you're not another one of those "stuck-up white misogynists".
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:03:07 PM No.82215715
i've learned not to believe anyone online, but i know this could realistically happen because men have to do goddamn everything - so all it takes to stay virgin is to do nothing
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:18:37 PM No.82215885
>>82215493 (OP)
I'm 31 and look much younger. People guess 18 to 21. Recently was scouted for modelling and landed a gig for 9k eur for 1 day of fitting and 2 days of photoshoots within a month. I am a virgin and all the faggots im getting to know are gaslighting me as for why I do not have a gf, as if it was that easy. The model scout asked me at one point if I thought of myself as handsome, when I told him no he got mad and was like wtf?!, nigga why did I rack up over 100 rejections then.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:20:53 PM No.82215919
>>82215715
>men have to do goddamn everything - so all it takes to stay virgin is to do nothing

This. Modern women are so leftist I dont really wanna exit my comfort zone day after day just to get one
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:28:30 PM No.82216013
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>>82215543

I am 30 yo virgin, who gets called "pretty" and "beutiful" by randos when I work (teen girls, their moms, even middle aged straight dudes). I have no game and no girlfriend and people unironically think I'm a closeted homosexual. I was approached as a teenager quite a few times and thought that if I kept my hair and remained lean things would only get better for me with age. I felt no need to rush or get a gf. I unironically felt that once I will be in my mid 20s I could easily have situationships with milfs - didn't happen, after college social circles shrunk and I have no idea where to meet women.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:31:13 PM No.82216051
>>82216013
>after college social circles shrunk and I have no idea where to meet women.

Are you me? I started typing this same sentence and freaking out at around 30
I cant even self improve any further, my only issue is that I cant fucking meet single women anywhere RREEEE
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:38:44 PM No.82216140
>>82215493 (OP)
I believe you. Most women will not approach unless you're extremely good-looking. I'm 6'2'', slim/fit, not balding and I've had several women show interest in me. But because I don't know how to flirt and am too scared to approach, nothing happened and likely never will. In most societies, the burden is on the man to make the first move. If you're risk-averse and don't know how to talk to women, you're going to get nothing, even if you look good.
But at least my looks seem to help in other areas of my life. I have no issues passing job interviews and everyone respects me by default. And yea, I've never been desperate. I'm introverted and kinda like my solitude. That's probably also a factor in why I'm a wizard. I never felt the need to fight my social anxiety around women and I have no regrets.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:40:19 PM No.82216150
>26
>6'2
>decent face
>still a virgin because I'm a neurotic schizoid autist
I need lots of booze + weed to even appear slightly normal and function day to day.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:43:59 PM No.82216193
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>>82216051
>I cant even self improve any further,

the self improvement was for me a spiral into insanity. In the end I just kept making up shit as to what is holding me back from getting a girlfriend. I used expensive skincare products, brushed my teeth 3x a day, flossed religiously, got my hair trimmed every 3 weeks, worked out, measured my waist - every I was grooming as if I'm going on a date. But always when I went out to some bars (but never developed a game or guts to approach) I see there men who are shorter, greasy, balding, fucked up teeth, yellow stained fingers and mustaches from smoking ... with decent looking women underneath their arm. I'm a pretty boy type and will probably hit the wall, and it drives me insane that I'm so paralyzed in what are essentially my prime years.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:44:00 PM No.82216194
>>82215556
I'm a hispanic bi-sexual guy. I am also 28yo khhv
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:53:11 PM No.82216297
>>82215885

How do you look? Do you have a Chad look or a more of androgynous look, chiesled feautres, pretty boy? And why do you think you had trouble attracting women ?
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:32:48 PM No.82216761
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>>82216297
My scout says I have a classic look, that works for comercial stuff but not for high fashion, those usually look weird af. He says I look like Henry Cavill (I really dont see it). Some friends said I look like Mike Ruffalo in the Hulk movie. I think that one is much closer.
As for why I cant get laid, mostly 'tism, I always thought if I looked good enough girls would look past my tism but I guess not.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:39:43 PM No.82216834
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>>82215493 (OP)
I'm east asian, so I'm automatically operating in a YES/EW NO binary. But I remember when I was 14-16 and I would "doll up" before going outside with my mom on vacation and a group of girls would gather and gawk and scream when I walked past. Till this day I remember the smile on my mom's face who at the time thought I was going to be a heart breaker (I still ended up a wizard).
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:47:21 PM No.82216917
>>82215885
>nigga why did I rack up over 100 rejections then.

Can someone tell me how many rejections is the average man supposed to rank up before getting a date or relationship? I have no idea how this works, because on one had I always had female orbiters (who were either not my type, and if they were they were too young for me), but despite this "attention" if I went out and approached a woman I ended up getting friendzoned. The blackpill theories are completely useless here, because they assume that women share a taste and if 5 of them find you attractive the majority will.
Anonymous
8/18/2025, 12:25:40 AM No.82218026
>>82216140
most of approaches (Not counting them just being nice and talkative) happened in high school. I even asked women about this and they said that as teens they had the guts to just approach cute guys - as adults less and less. In my case the attention i got in hs dropped immensely after I came to college.
Anonymous
8/18/2025, 12:31:42 AM No.82218097
>>82215715
This is how most Zoomers are virgins I think inactivity and why my generation of loser Millennials were not virgins. When I was 15 every fag I knew except a couple were trying everything they can to get pussy and their were loser hyper mentally ill girls around that could be got at that time because social media and smartphones were not a thing yet. Even my very short, fat and ugly friends found some dork to plap before she wised up in her 20s. Also ya being attractive is like having money it helps your odds with women but it doesn't do the work for you and if you're socially retarded or no friends you're going to struggle.
>>82215493 (OP)
On the bright side you don't have HPV like us most of Millennials do. I wish I was still a virgin and had my healthy skin back.