Thread 82254706

It may seem like an exaggeration but it really feels like every problem in my life can be traced back to my mother. This overemotional, overbearing neurotic nutcase.

>>82254706 (OP)
i don't know... somehow learn what the process for letting go of her in your life is...? idk, there has to be some written guide to reverse that, op

>>82254706 (OP)
Yeah, that is probably the actual truth too. There are a lot of very sick moms out there. I had to cut mine off after I realized she was an unrepentant abusive freak. These types cannot be fixed so you have to cut ties and let it fade away

>>82254706 (OP)
Did you let mom know that?

>>82254997
when does it fade? i moved out and it's been six years but i still feel nervous doing certain things (lke bumping into walls in my apartment, my mind for a moment thinks what would happen if i had bumped into her and the havoc that that would bring)
i'm not op

>>82255037
I do not think the side effects of abuse ever truly fade away, I was more so referring to letting the communication and ties fade away. After enough time has passed the abuser has no way to know what you are doing and it reduces the space they take up in your mind via lack of new info. I still feel panic when I hear a garage door open and when I wake up so I relate to you but it is just something we have to manage unfortunately. I just suggest assigning blame where it is due rather than blaming ourselves because having this much trauma from moms impacts a very low percentage of the population and is is truly their fault for acting so far outside of the normal human experience

>>82254706 (OP)
every robot is a mommycel