Thread 82447272

How do you actually find a provider woman or sugar mommy? I know they exist and that men sometimes accidentally stumble upon them, but I want to know if there are any reliable ways to find such women.

From my research, you would essentially be her boyfriend in exchange for money (even if it's just financial security), but you would be very quiet about this fact. I figure most women wouldn't want to look at it like this, even though that would be what's going on. They'd still likely want you to be their alpha. Unless the woman is somehow clueless, there would likely be a gross disparity in looks. She would have a lot more money than you, so there would need to be a pretty substantial discrepancy in looks. You'd need to be a 6/10+ in his 20s, and this woman would likely be a 2 to 4/10 maximum in her 40s. I've been thinking about it, and from my experience, I bet women in their 30s with money would still be difficult for a man around a decade younger than them to get. The discrepancy in looks would need to be even larger; you'd need to be an 8/10+ hunky-looking man.

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>>82447272 (OP)
um no
funny story an indian once tried to scam me on a vrchat dating site

>>82447277
>um no
I'm 25 now. When I was 22, I literally had a very fat woman in her 40s quite literally offer me to stay at her big house in the country with lots of land. She was a single mother of a teenage daughter as well. I literally would've been closer to her daughter's age. She was talking about fun things we could do together over there.

I didn't pursue her offer for a couple reasons: One: I was moving to the country at that time myself with my dad. We only Had a few days left. And two: I didn't, and still don't, have a car.

I was probably a 3/10, but she was likely a 2 for her age. I did think of pursuing the relationship, but I figured I was still happy living with my dad, and I also figured she wouldn't be interested in taking long drives back and forth to pick me up and bring me to her place.

I am considered mentally-disabled by the government and receive NEETbux, but I'm fucked if anything happens to my boomer dad, so I'm much more interested in pursuing a provider woman now. Section 8 is actually very difficult to get and takes around 3 years each time you apply, and I dread the idea of living in such housing mostly due to the people. I would be perfectly happy being the lover of some severely obese 2/10 woman in her 40s as a fit 7/10 man in his mid to late 20s if it meant I got to live in a semi-decent place and had financial security. I would dedicate my life to her if it meant I got those two things. Fuck everything else. I don't want to be homeless or end up in prison. I could do housework and cooking (whenever I'm up) to keep her happy in addition to being her lover. There is a bit of shame in this, but I know I would be pretty happy if I actually found a woman like this. I'm pretty vulnerable due to not being able to get any sort of job due to mental illness. (It's a long story, but the core problematic issue is insomnia.)

>>82447272 (OP)
>How do you actually find a provider woman or sugar mommy?
I thought they hung around bars? Isn't that the whole "cougar" thing? There's no online community/app for this specific arrangement AFAIK.

>>82447339
She'd have you over and let her husband harvest your organs for the black market you doofus

>>82447400
>I thought they hung around bars?
Maybe I should start going to bars, but I know this is an expensive hobby. I'm 25, and although I was an alcoholic for around 2.5 years during covid, I've never been to a bar. Also, I receive NEETbux, so I don't have much money to waste. I only get a bit less than $1000 directly deposited into my bank account each month.

>>82447400
>There's no online community/app for this specific arrangement AFAIK.
I know, but that doesn't mean that there aren't places that I could go (irl and online) and things I could do that would increase my chances of finding such a woman. H. P. Lovecraft was essentially married to a wealthy woman 7 years older than him who made quite a bit of money while he was unable to make enough to take care of himself. It seems like these women exist, but you just stumble upon them by coincidence. I hope this isn't necessarily the case. When it comes to truffle hunting, there are places you can go and signs that indicate that truffles are likely present, even though it's still largely a game of luck. I hope finding a provider woman is likely similar.

>>82447578
Also, I want to know if there is a name for what I'm looking for. I'm not really looking for a sugar momma who would spoil me. I just want a woman who would provide me with a house to live in. I just want a provider woman.

>>82447701
cirno bump

I want a comfy older woman provider to take care of me and let me life a nice life. I would give her hot sex and take care of her and the house and cook for her (My dad is an actual chef.) when I'm available, and I would be super sweet to her.