Thread 82460521

Am I an incel?
It's been almost 4 years since I've had a girlfriend and nothing I do seems to work. But I don't hate women. I don't blame them for it. I don't think women owe me a relationship. I don't think women only chase the top 5% of "chads." I've just accepted that I'm unlovable.
So I'm involuntarily celibate but that's pretty much the only trait I have in common with incels.

>>82460521 (OP)
Am I an incel? I've had sex a couple times with one women since covid

>>82460572
If you've ever had sex, you are by definition not celibate.

>>82460521 (OP)
I don't think there's anything wrong with you and I think that you deserve love.
There's probably a couple of girls out there who think you are cute and a great guy too.
Question is, why don't they approach you? Are we not equals?

Bad market and you have bad coping mechanisms

>>82460521 (OP)
Am I an incel? Liquor is the only thing that makes me feel better about my miserable life.

>>82460665
That doesn't make you an incel, that just makes you an alcoholic

>>82460717
But i don't have sex either and drinking helps the pain of loneliness

>>82460727
Being an involuntary celibate doesn't necessarily make you an incel.

>>82461167
okay i hate women

>>82461179
Okay now you're getting into incel ideology