Thread 82787262

>21yo
>loving parents
>had friends on elementary and high-school
>tall
>nice face
>fit

I had everything to be normal but no, i had to be a lazy introverted who doesn't have any aspirations. I finished high-school doing the bare minimum, only worked like 2 months before quitting and started NEETing till i got into college at the beginning of 2025 (doing the bare minimum).

I don't want anything, i don't want a career, i don't want a job, i can't even imagine myself in a relationship and i don't have any hobbies anymore. I just want to rot in my room and die but i can't, that would destroy my family, i pretend that i care, that i'm getting everything in order. Sometimes i don't even want to get out of my bed, i could spend days without eating, speaking or going outside, but that would worry them and i don't want that. I can't even study, even with all the stupid advice of "no distractions!" "study 25 mins, rest 5!" i can't get shit done like a fucking retard.

I could have been normal but i am not, i am useless.

>>82787262 (OP)
unironically talk to a therapist or life coach

>>82787283
ngl i have always seen therapists as frauds and not even mention life coaches

Better get some help while ur still young nigga. You'll be my age before you know it and in the exact same position and mindset. I'm feeling VERY confident about killing myself lately.
Is that the sort of end you want for yourself because that's what will happen if you dont start talking to someone now.
Apathy and nihilism are dead ends.

>>82787262 (OP)
>loving parents

I doubt that... Many people just assume their parents are "normal" just because of they have no frame of reference.
Not saying that you should just blame them and sit in a corner crying, mind you. You are still young, you can still salvage what you can.

>>82787293
while i agree that therapists suck, you aren't going to change if you do nothing about it. at least a therapist will force you to do...something. it's not like you'll be any worse if you start talking to one at least. it's a start

>>82787310
i know it, since 2020 years pass faster and faster, i doubt my capacity to change.

>>82787321
they were always supportive, my dad always tried to get me on some sport without being to pushy, my mom always cared for me but without being overprotective. I just can't blame them for anything and i hate myself for failing them as i am doing now

>>82787344
You can try and move forward very slowly while still doubting your capacity for change, thats fine. I just hope you'll try something. I dont want anyone following my example

>>82787362
>they were always supportive

Sounds like the trademarked version of supportive.
>You look so beautiful at 500 pounds! Yas kween!
Teaching their offspring how to fly, IS the responsibility of the parents. You cant fly, and you tell me they were "supportive".
I dont believe you.

>>82787262 (OP)
bro, we literally have the Space Force now. You have so much ahead of you; do you want to end up wasting away and languishing the best years of your life in a warehouse by your mid-30s?

>>82787454
ha, i'm not american, the army is pretty much a joke nowadays over here

>>82787419
i just can't think of something concrete to criticize them, like should my dad pressured me more into getting a job? idk, i think i got way better parents than average to be complaining

>>82787462
oh, shame that. Army's a joke over here as well. Perhaps Navy; at least they have boats.
>if you're in a landlocked country, just go next-door and get on their boats

>>82787489
eh, i never considered desu tho maybe i need that kind of discipline...

>>82787262 (OP)
You are only 21 bro you probably just have ADHD or if you spend a shit ton of time ruminating possibly OCD like me. I agree with the previous anons you just need a third party counselor or therapist to get you a diagnosis and help you regulate your emotions before you begin self medicating with weed or liquor.

>>82787530
I fucking hate the smell of weed and the only alcohol i drink is wine when i'm eating some pasta or meat, last time i got drunk was 3 years ago or something so i don't see myself taking that path. At least for now...

>>82787293
don't listen to this retard: >>82787327
therapy is literally just paying someone to tell you "you're having bad thoughts? you need to not do that."
save your money

>>82787563
Yeah I did not either at 21 and here we are just 6 years later and I smoke weed daily. Life comes at you fast hombre especially if you have mental health issues.

I disagree with this retard >>82787580

>>82787580
Having someone that has a masters degree in mental and behavioral health about your life/feelings that can give you practical advice and mental frameworks to improve your routines is definitely worthwhile if you have the money for it. Tons of normies who you guys would consider well adjusted still talk to therapists every week. It's definitely worthwhile if you feel stuck or negative about life

>>82787659
Some people just aren't compatible with therapy. I have several years of therapy with multiple therapists under my belt. I have nothing to show for it other than tons of money down the drain.

>21
>whining
On and on the wheel spins. If you wanna do something, just do it.
I'll bet you're more inclined to complain about it, though

>>82787262 (OP)
You need stimulants

Get out of your house. I'm 26 and a hs drop out. Your house is your comfort zone and I was kicked out so now I'm living a lie in a religious community. In saying this because I want to help you. Christ is King. I'm telling the truth. Nothing will happen to you if you stay in your house.

This is number 1, to leave your house

Yeah therapy is gay but maybe I'm willing to be a maggot if I'm a rich person just so somebody would listen to my problems. You could get a normal friend to open up to though.

>>82787262 (OP)
W5hat do you like doing?

>>82788899
Allah will set you free of your problems. Find your nearest Islamist commune and worship. Life is good.