Thread 82793095

if BPD is largely diagnosed based on one's behavior in relationships, how can you tell if you have it if you don't have a relationship and never will?

>>82793095 (OP)
Well, you could figure it out by interacting with strangers online, it's not the same dynamic as an actual relationship but the BPD signs would show themselves eventually.

>>82793095 (OP)
Don't know. Now that I think about it, my ex def had it. She was batshit crazy.

>>82793095 (OP)
Do you split on your family members/friends?

>>82793095 (OP)
See how your relationship with family and friends is. That helped me in accepting my diagnosis

>>82793528
Do you abuse your family?

>>82793095 (OP)
Bpds would have a relationship, even if male.

>>82793558
Meh I would call my reactions and behavior abuse. What do you see as abuse?

>>82793575
>screaming
>breaking stuff
>physically hitting

>>82793095 (OP)
STOP STEALING MY FUCKING PICTURES REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>82793589
Yes except hitting but I dont start doing it out of nowhere. It has triggers. But maybe it works differently with men so idk how your symptoms are?

>>82793567
not if hideous

>>82793627
How ugly are you dude? Pete Davidson still scores 10/10 chicks and he's ugly as fuck.

>>82793095 (OP)
>paranoia about my friends secretly hating me
>swing between treating people I care about with deep concern and goodwill or malice and hostility depending on what my current reality of them are
>suddenly hating friends/people I associated with because they only know the "previous me"
>complete shift in believes and morals
>alcohol, lots of it
>general disregard for my own safety
>suicidal ideation
That's just off top of my head, I'm sure there are other things that can tell you if you have it or not
>t. BPD male previously misdiagnosed with ASPD

>>82793815
*off the top of my head
ffs

>>82793830
Minor spelling mistake, this is why everyone hates you
Jokes aside, I'm sorry anon, I hope things improve for you in the future. I can only imagine the struggles you face as a BPD man