>>82857180
That's usually where stuff like restraints come in, but I get your point, in fact in many of the times where I have done sub stuff I sometimes end up just going lust crazy and pinning them down to have my way with them. Ideally you just have to let yourself go and let them take control, which can work with the right conditioning, but even then it's not something I like doing often. Like I'm also definitely more on the dom side, but I also have a slight subby streak yk? Even though I wouldn't call myself a switch or anything.