Thread 82863618

Your personality is one of the least malleable things about you.

"Just be yourself" is unironically right.

>>82863618 (OP)
not really

my personality has changed quite a bit over the years

its just as malliable imo

>>82863635
Maturing (I hope) doesn't mean your core personality changes

People with shit personality need sex too

>>82863618 (OP)
evil and kindness are both genetic traits

personality isn't malleable? tell that to my psycho bitch wife. she's 20 different people if she talks to 20 different folks
*deafening boomer applause*

>>82863641
im sure you can both ways

i bet there's people out there who were mature and are now immature dummies

>>82863618 (OP)
Isn't the "just be yourself" on the right just another way of saying, "it's pointless, go do other shit instead of trying to get a gf"

>>82863618 (OP)
I 100% agree.

Though being yourself at work for example doesnt work for everyone. When it comes to relationships and dating, yes 100%, because even if you "fail" the dates at 99% rate because you are yourself, that just means the world is fucked.
If the world is inbalanced and women value such a narrow set of things or value only a combination of things that very few men have in total then that is the definition of inbalance atleast in that area of life.

Blackpill should always be about rejecting society and possibly civilization since it has taken a wrong turn for our biology and health.
Knowing facts about our nature is the final blackpill combined with just letting things happen the way they are and just doing whatever you want or feel like is most comfortable for you.

>>82863685
yeah I'm assuming its the genetic determinism angle

>>82863618 (OP)
It's right but no one wants to admit that lmao
A lot of folks think just be yourself means being the worst version of themselves, a neurotic fuck
But what they don't see is the version of themselves that's way up there, to be the best version of yourself

>>82863618 (OP)
Temperament, yeah
Personality, no.

women are a hive mind or you can't have sex at all actually

it's more malleable than my penis size, which is why women never return to me after attempting sex.

>the devil wouldn't make german grapes sour
i'm like 26give me a break

>>82863618 (OP)
As I get older I understand nothing is as pointless nor difficult as shoving your square self into a round hole it doesn't fucking belong. You can lie, LARP, take acting classes, etc it will always be a false front that will feel completely fake and is a huge relief to take off.

Tried for ten years to be a "go getter". Got a degree, learned biz-com, did what I thought was expected. Keeping up the illusion that I was that guy was 10x harder than any job I had to do. It made me want to pull my hair out. Leaving work was a relief, not because because work was over, but because I didn't have to do live improv to pretend I'm some asshole. It's just not worth it.