>>82909572 (OP)
You're probably homosexual. The last thing I want is positive attention from gays.
You do realize they are only being nice because they want to slam their cocks in your anus, right? That's why straight guys don't act like that towards you.
Gays also tend to be grabby. I've had lots of fags grab at me just by being courteous with them, which is part of what's led me to be more stand-offish. I can only imagine how much they're grabbing at your ass and cock and trying to kiss you if you're letting them buy you drinks.
Diagnosis: OP is a FAGGOT