Thread 82958775

I cant get a woman, and this is the short version of why:

Outdoors
>been going to every hobby group, event, library, art gallery etc. for 5 years
>only meet elderly and other men
>it's because women dont go out, they sit at home looking at phones
>literally havent even SEEN a single 20-30yo woman

Online
>start messaging women on interpals
>they get so many messages most of them dont even reply. when they do, it's one word or smiley
>they ghost you eventually

2 years later the same women who ghosted me are still terminally online on these apps, single, searching for company. They apparently "cant find a good bf". This says it all.

The only problem these days is trying to make a young and dumb woman understand that she should in fact settle for you, so she could avoid years if not decades of pointless drama.

>>82958775 (OP)
sometimes i go to dating events to meet women, but i haven't had a single date yet. approaching on the street doesn't work here. i'm tempted to believe that 20-30 year old women don't exist and it's a government psyop to get men to work and pay taxes.

>>82958812
>i'm tempted to believe that 20-30 year old women don't exist and it's a government psyop to get men to work and pay taxes.

I'm starting to believe this.
If I was to go out right NOW, I could only find kids, teenagers, old people, and other men.
I rarely see 20yo women, unless accompanied by their bf, it's insane
I guess young women just go straight home after work and spend the rest of the day online

Finding a partner shouldnt take years or decades.
But in modern society it apparently does, especially for males.

It's a ruse. They're purposely making it so that we'd spend years paying for Tinder subscription

There are ad campaigns running on Finnish television:

>Misogyny or woman hate is a huge issue. Fathers, talk to your sons about misogyny.

I got ghosted by 5 different women last night alone.
This is why women are hated. Usually if someone is hated, there's a reason for it.

Women are pretty much impossible to talk to ever since graduation. They have never been more inaccessible and unreachable at any other point in history if you weren't already in their inner circle.

Get this:
Women pick their bf from the inner circle. They dont need to go out of their way to look for guys. When they use Interpals or something like that, it's entertainment or a game to them, nothing serious.

>>82958880
Those ads are because violence against women is getting worse globally there is a huge rise in misogyny even in little children. Like whole classes of little boys that create revenge porn and won't listen to female teachers at like 9 years old. Go on teacher and parenting forums and you will read about it. You just don't know because you are not around kids

>>82958930
Why would something like that suddenly happen? What caused it?
Funny how women are cosntantly being the victim of something yet they are happier, get jobs, and get married

>>82958812
>They make the text green so it's not supposed be viewed as something negative and for you to be """triggered""""
A woman made this right?

>>82958775 (OP)
get a pizza instead

>>82958934
Parents just don't supervise their kids and let them watch manosphere streamers and youtubers for hours and hours a day. Even the simpsons did a parody episode about it

>>82958947
>manosphere streamers and youtubers
Fuck I wanna watch that too. Where can I do that?
The algo is pushing me feminism / Pride crap all day long and I'm going nuts
I wanna be a toxic Chad

Internalize pic related. This is the state of """"monogamy""" post-2016. There is an elephant the size of saturn in the room concerning which gender is intelligent enough to value monogamy.

You now realize that the majority of modern dating & romance is a humiliation ritual for men that perpetuates an unconscious social hierarchy which pedestalizes women.

You already know the antiromantic nature of "dating apps". Realize those gender dynamics are slowly bleeding into "commonly accepted beliefs."

It can be prevented though. Fantasymaxxing and solipsism are a worthwhile solution. Meme yourself into a asocial schizoid. Everything is arbitrary.

Women are mostly coddled and so they "naturally" expect you to fall in line while also being "dominant" and "powerful" at the same time. It is a sickening paradox that subjugates men into being soulfarm cattle for the "women" thoughtform they idealize in their heads.

deliberately atomise society and remove any avenue that lets men coddle women (parasites). destroy ALL gender roles. (It's already happening). the only solution is to rape and destroy the zeitgeist. dissociate, dissociate, dissociate.

>>82958982
Pic rel is actually a real phenomenon. It's fucking crazy but women really think they're entitled to treating men like objects.
Yeah. Objectifying. The thing women always complain about

>>82958982
Giiirls just wanna have fun

Giiiirls just wanna have fuuu-uuuuuun

>>82958775 (OP)
Where do you live ? I have the exact same experience as you.
I attend a lot of those as well as salsa/language classes and its only old people and young men.
I only see some women in the street and in the train and approaching in my country is street harassment so an easy way to lose your job

>>82959021
I'm OP, I live in Finland.
It's like that here as well. If you talk to a woman on the street you're a creep

>>82959027
Finland is cool af. Where about?
I live in a border town in belgium and its the same.
Funnily enough my sisters so logically my female looksmatch found 2 super rich attractive and caring guys on various penpal/dating websites after being flooded with replies and being approached in the street on a regular basis. One lives on hk to other one is some huge mansion in montreal. Both are engaged at 20 and 22 respectively.

>>82959043
>Finland is cool af. Where about?
Close to the capital which we call homo city. Finland sucks. We have the highest unemployment rates in Europe, barely any welfare system, high prices, horrible weather, antisocial people, the women are cold-hearted bitches, Russia is knocking on our door..
Fuck, there's a reason why we all drink alcohol here.

>my female looksmatch found 2 super rich attractive and caring guys
Yea I often think about this. With my level of genetics, if I was a woman, I wouldn't suffer like this. My loneliness is due to my gender.

>>82959159
At least you have nature, forests, the sea and not too many people everywhere.
I live in some ugly iron mining town, houses are 350 to 500k on average, the weather sucks and everyone is a depressed wagie

>>82958930
Are you telling me gen alpha is based and knows the truth about women? Holy shit finally. We tried so hard to get rid of cuckoldry.
Female voting rights will be reversed, like they should. God bless this.

>>82958824
I go to out every end of the week. The women are either with their boyfriends, old ladies or teen girls. There is nothing in between.

>>82959201
>The women are either with their boyfriends, old ladies or teen girls. There is nothing in between.

This. I'm glad someone else has noticed this.

It's taken me such a long time to find women that I got old in the process.
Now I'm over 30 and too old to get them anyway lol

>>82958775 (OP)
if you have never seen a woman under 30, then you're not missing out on anything. they just don't exist in your country. i see them all the time, i met like 8 girls last night at a bar and it was just a random wednesday.

>>82959766
I dont go to bars. I'm not young or an alcohol-addicted normie

>>82959844
I bet you don't hang out with many young women.

>>82959884
i gues that was the pointe

>>82960087
Which is insane to me because when I was single, that was pretty much the only thing I was doing with my free time. Do you feel any attraction to women?

>>82960109
Did you even read the opening post or are you just trolling?
>I cant find women
>"hahaha why dont u hang out wit womans are u gay just go out and choose to hang out wit wimman"

>>82960109
Straight guys dont fraternize with women. Their stories are horrible, they never say anything worthwhile
You fuck them and then hang out with guys
Uirnoicicaly how straight men live
Gay men hoard women aroudn them because they relate to femininity

>>82960156
Yes, you would be considered gay if you just avoid women.

>>82960167
>straight guys don't marry or live with women, they get married and have romantic relationships with men
bet.

>>82960178
>>82960187

Worthless posts, not even worth engaging in whatever point you're trying to make

Get a life

>>82958835
Finding a POTENTIAL partner takes years in this current hellscape.

>>82960235
There was no point, I was talking to some degenerate that feels no attraction to women.

>>82959766
Nta but
Not everyone lives in a megacity. Bars where i live are either men, old people, or just empty. Women dotn attend those or any public place/activity in general which is why you never see them at church, in sports group etc

>>82960178
Were not avoiding them. Theyre just not to be seen anywhere aside from the street and public transport.
>>82960109
>bro just quit your job and start hanging out in empty bars maybe one day a woman will magically come in and want to talk to you
Delusional

>>82960292
I lived in a microvillage and we still had sports. You can easily just ride horses with young women where you live and be fine.

>>82960321
You are avoiding them if you don't hang out with them at social events/activities.

>>82960327
Its the provincial capital.
Has like 30k people
>horse riding
Like 10 to 15km away and only has kids and boomers doing it
>>82960339
>social event
Not a thing where i live
>social activities
I attend those
All groups and activties are all old people and young men.

>>82960361
>30k people
That's too many people. You don't have any problem meeting women. You just choose to stay home.

>>82960371
>You don't have any problem meeting women.
I do, i just cant meet any no matter what activities or group i attend
>You just choose to stay home.
I dont. I go to bars, church, local events, its all old people and men

>>82960382
>I do
No you don't. You live in a town with 30k people.
>I go to bars, church, local events, its all old people and men
No. What do the old people and men tell you to do to meet local girls? Do they say that all the women are isolated hermit incels?

>>82960396
>live in a town with 30k people.
And i can barely see any young women there.
Its all boomers and young men fpr the most part, sometimes i see a few young women in the train but thats it
>What do the old people and men tell you to do to meet local girls?
They say in hiking clubs and stuff like this, they day hats whta worked back in their days but kowadays they have no idea, but no women attend those and they dont really understand/know where young women are
>Do they say that all the women are isolated hermit incels
The few people that have like granddaughters tell le theyre mostly on dating apps

>>82960416
>And i can barely
False
>They say in hiking clubs
Nobody has ever told you this. Hiking is not a social activity except in the minds of fedora redditors who have never gone outside.
>mostly on dating apps
yeah i'm sure you can find an endless supply of desperate magical girls on dating apps huh. and all of their profiles say "recluse hermit femcel" amazing. if these girls are all on dating apps and never go outside to any social activity, then by definition you would not be able to do anything with them. couples are everywhere where i live, because dating is a social experience, not an incel experience on an app

>>82960442
I like how you are just straight up gaslighting this poor man.

I got my gf through work, if you don't have single female coworkers in the modern age you are fucked

>>82960442
>False
Youre just denying reality at that point. Not everywhere is central manhattan
>nobody has told you this
Boomers did. Because thats what worked in their days same with church or salsa classes but these days noone except boomers attend those
>endless supply of desperate magical girls on dating apps huh.
No idea. Used to have dating apps for a little while. Didnt get a single true match/date so i unistalled them
>never go outside to any social activity,
Therebare barely if any social activities in my entire area. My guess is that they stick with their friend group from hs
>dating is a social experience
So theres no way to date after hs and/or college because after that i havent met any women my age anywhere

>>82960496
I have a few female coworkers, my age. Theyre married. Guess where they met their husbands? High school and /or dating apps.

>>82960497
>denying reality
You have 30k people in your town. Insane.
>Boomers did.
Boomers never hiked. Hiking was a millennial fad like ~10 years ago, and nobody did it socially.
>i unistalled them
Even in your silly larp you still admit that you avoid women.
>Therebare barely if any social activities in my entire area.
Name a social activity. I guarantee that part of your larp is to pretend like you don't know what social activities are. Do you think people never eat food?
>So theres no way to date after hs and/or college
So now you're saying you know that college girls exist? Interesting. Two seconds ago you were saying that college is just old people and men.

>>82959201
>>82959243
Or they go out in huge groups and it's just impossible to approach them like that. It's like they're insecure when going out and need 3-7 friends for support, but these friends also block you out, even worse if you're out with one friend or alone.
I mean the bar or the club.

>>82960496
He's been trolling for years. His town has plenty of bars and social events you can easily find on instagram, but he just does this thing about "no women" even though the photos show tons of young women. I think he's trying to meet a fembot that way.

>>82960524
Explain in simple terms why you aren't part of a large social group? Are you just dangerous to people?

>>82960547
I have a lot of friends but we usually play cs2 or go to dinner together. I have to fight to get 1 or 2 with me out.

>>82960590
why don't you ask the girls in your friend group to introduce you to their friends? just make a group chat.

>>82960520
>30k people in your town
So what, am i supposed toforce myself into their homes?
>you avoid women
Which part of, i get no matches do you not understand
>hiking is a meme
So are other hobbies since none of them had any women in them
>Name a social activity. I guarantee that part of your larp is to pretend like you don't know what social activities are.
Going to bars, going to church, doing sports together, having some kind of class together like a language class or some shit, outdoor groups can also be social
I have tried all of these. It was all men and boomers
Youre the one larping and gaslighting people
>that college girls exist
I am not in a college town. Theres no colege activity here
>were saying that college is just old people and men.
Where? Show me.
>>82960539
>town has plenty of bars and social events you can easily find on instagram
Which ones and why are you unable to name a single one
>the photos show tons of young women
Where on pic can you see tons of young women?
I posted my town on a saturday evening and even you admitted they were no young women and asked me why i didnt magically move to london.
Youre entire post are just gaslighting and asking peopel why young women dont just magically appear before them

>>82960505
That's why I specified they need to be single. Also helped that mine was a femcel (aka only been pump and dumped by 8 different guys)

>>82960683
>So what, am i supposed toforce myself into their homes?
Nobody was talking about homes.
>i get no matches
You uninstalled and don't interact with women.
>none of them
You mentioned hiking because you know you have never had a hobby. Hiking is the meme stand-in for reddit for a reason you already know.
>I have tried
No you have not. Going to a dive bar full of boomers is not a social activity. You have not described even one (1) social activity yet, which I predicted correctly.
>I am not in a college town
Nobody was talking about college towns. Did people in your town ever go to school?
>Where? Show me.
Its earlier in the thread where you said you can't find any women under 30. Then you agreed that you can easily find thousands of women in their 20s

>>82958775 (OP)
>Online
You need to filter the women you accept and want to date. Women do this all the time, Desperate Men don't.

>>82960683
>Which ones and why are you unable to name a single one
I named them many times before and you just stopped replying to me afterwards. You avoid mentioning what your town is and then just leave the thread once we pull up instagram.

>>82960734
And alternative is?
>Give up
>Go on r9k
>Complain about it
How's that been going for you? How's it solved your problems? Exactly.

>>82960758
I still laugh at the irony of someone who posts the same threads and arguments for 16 hours a day calling someone else an NPC. I think I saw this incel NPC here like 5 years ago claiming that luxembourg doesn't have any women lol.

>>82960714
>You uninstalled and don't interact with women.
I didnt interact with women even with those installed.
>because you know you have never had a hobby. Hiking is the meme stand-in for reddit for a reason you already know.
No, i mention the things i like and that i have tried.
Now youre just flipping your shit because you went from
>akshully you just stay inside
To
>akshully those hobbies are loser incel hobbies anyway
>Going to a dive bar full of boomers is not a social activity.
Idk what a dive bar is and there isnt a single bar in my town with young women in it which is why you havent been able to find any yourself
>You have not described even one (1) social activity yet
>going to bars, group activities, church groups, sports/hobby groups isnt social
>nothing outside of clubbing and going to raves (neither of which exist where i live) are social
Kek hypocrite
>Did people in your town ever go to school?
Yeah, eslsewhere
>you said you can't find any women under 30.
Thats right
>Then you agreed that you can easily find thousands of women in their 20s
Where? Are you telling me to quit my job, waste all of my svaings to leave the region and move hundreds of kms away and renroll in college at 26 just for a shot at getting a gf?

>>82960726
>I named them many times before and you just stopped replying to me afterwards.
Where? Show me
Imagine you being so delusional and asshurt youvstart making shit up in your mind
> You avoid mentioning what your town
Arlon
>is and then just leave the thread once we pull up instagram.
Where? Again youre making shit up
>we
Oh youre youre just a schizo then

>>82960767
>he is the faggot that was pushing incels to hit on high schoolers

>>82960780
Just answer this question: do you hang out with young women, or not? You're just trolling at this point. I bet you are single.

>>82960607
Girls in my friend group?

>>82960834
>do you hang out with women
Answer this question? Where do you find women where even activity, any event, any hobby club or group, any bar is just men and old people.
I bet youre just trolling or some faggot who thinks everywhere is central manhattan

>>82960852
I bet you're some retard who thinks it's hard to find women in Arlon or Luxembourg. You're 30 minutes away from a "central manhattan" area and you are still posting gay retard slop.

>>82960852
>bro all these people are old boomers
>bro i have never had a hobby or seen people in public before

>>82960844
Yeah like half of your group is women.

>I only see women in 20s with their boyfriends
so how did their boyfriends get a gf

>by being chad
sure, but I'd still like to know how, I guess they had an active social circle since high school, they know how to conform to pop culture and so on so presumably if they move town after college they make new friends easily and meet women in their 20s, but where do they do this, where do they do

after high school I was suddenly surrounded by boomers and everyone else my age stopped existing except online where I am ghosted

>>82960943
If you had no interest in relationships in high school, why do you think you would have an interest now?

>>82958996
Most shit women say is pure projection, they always objectify men by height, money, face, etc.

I believe not even chad is actually loved, but just another object to boost their status to other females. Women are INCAPABLE of love.

>>82960982
This is also why almost all prostitutes and whores are actually men. The entire modeling and prostitution industry is male, I haven't seen anyone looking for female models in decades.

>>82960873
>youre 30 minutes away from a place where you cannot spend the night or stay beyond midnight
>youre 30 minues away from a boring wagie hellscape with nothing going on whatsoever and peoole just wageslaving all day
>>82960931
>posts picture of litteral small childrens during a ONCE A YEAR event
>bro you have no excuses
You just proved my point. Theres no event or social thing going on and even in yearly event no young women show up
Show me the young women on your pic. Go ahead. Also just conveniebtly forget that this is a once a year event happening during office hours
>hobby
I have them, women dont show up to those though
>people in public
>bro just bother random women in the street

>>82961041
>you just proved my point by showing me i'm wrong
What. When was the last event you went to with lots of young women?

>>82960931
>binche
>not even arlon
>bri just go to a once a year event on the other side of the country
So you admit theres no young women around?
>>82961057
>lots of young women
Show them. Go ahead. Circle them. You showed a picture of kids during a once a year event (carnival) 200kms away, and thats the only thing you could post because you know theres no young women around

>>82960962
I did have an interest in relationships in high school, I was completely socially ostracized

do you come to /r9k. to gaslight, you must have seen those socially awkward boys and talked behind you back about excluding them, I once managed to make this girl giggle in class and I was thinking to myself "hey, I'm kind of funny, I'm not that bad", then all the other kids talked to her and got her to alienate me, this sort of thing has been basically my entire life and every attempt to socialize, every time I get the stupid idea in my head that I even just make friends and lead a normal life like everyone else

and now you sit here pretending this isn't real, on /r9k/ 4chan of all fucking places, what

every single thread is like this too, it is like other robots don't exist on /r9k/ anymore

>>82961091
>25 year old is still a kid
shut up boomer. go yell at your wife.

>>82961219
I was socially awkward, so I made an effort to learn social skills. You are asking "where does food exist?" and then ignoring or dismissing anyone who shows you that food exists.

>>82961091
When was the last major event you went to in Arlon? How many followers do you have?

>>82961500
>wife
I wish.
Also
>troll is an underage manhattan kid who thinks everywhere is like his high school
Like clockwork

>>82961526
>last event
May drink festival.
Otherwise i go to bars and go do bbqs and hikes with friends
>how many followers
Barely any. Mostly family members and friends

>>82961535
>25 year olds go to high school
Boomers literally don't know anything. I bet you don't even know where to party.

>>82961546
>May
LMFAO so you really are just avoiding women. At least you are honest about it.

>>82961516
>youre starving?
>broo food exists bro just go to a fancy restaurant hundreds of kilometers away broo

>>82961561
When I was starving I literally went to the place that had food. Many such cases.

>>82961559
>may
Show me a major event happening in arlon between may and september. This is litteraly the one and only festival in town
>>82961550
>25 years old
Show me where the 25 yrs old are on the pic. Go ahead. Circle them. But you wont because thats a picture of a kindengarten/primary school parade with 40 something teachers.
>party
Not happening in this town.

>>82961567
>bro just walk 400 kilometers or just waste your money to rent a hotel room every weekend broo
Youre getting more and more insane for every one of your post

>>82961591
I went out 3x a week. There was nothing else to do because I was lonely when I was single.

>>82961585
>25 year olds are in primary school
Why are boomers so fucking dumb? You are too old to be here.

>>82961645
>i went out 3x a week
I cannot because theres absolutely nothing to do in town. I go to a bar about once a week with 2 friends.
>>82961648
>25 years old
Show them to me. Theres no 25 years olf on your pic
Also
>not a single 20 something
>not even in town but 200kms away
>in a yearly event
And thats the best youve got...

>>82961585
https://visitarlon.be/decouvrir/folklore-evenements/

?

>>82961687
>8 events per year (which i all attended save for one)
>all of them being old people event (unless youre so delusional you think young women show up to flea markets and roman reenactments).
Thanks for proving my point

>>82961732
>i never attend events
>actually yes i did and all those people that were photographed at the events didn't actually go to the events
>everyone is a little child in those photos
>actually it's only old people
Oh.

>>82961785
>i never attended events
Which isnt what i said but youre either not reading my posts or being voluntarily dishonest
>actually yes i did and all those people that were photographed at the events didn't actually go to the events
Its all old people, kids and men/parents. Show me young women on those pics
>everyone is a little child
Again not what i said. You have their parents, boomers and young men. No young women though
>checkmate inkwell its not just boomers there are also 9 years old

>>82961819
You said you haven't been to a single event since May. Lol. You literally didn't even know about events between May-October until I just showed you, even the touristy websites have them.

>>82961819
How old are these people, and why are they all 70 years old to you?

>>82961829
I bet he won't go to any christmas or new years events either. incels are literally THAT pathetic.

>>82961829
>since may
True. Maitrank one of your list
>between may an october
Only the flea market which i have already gone before occurs in that period and again do you really think young women show up to flea markets?
>>82961868
>look at this 5 years old picture from a town in a different county 30km away taken in the middle of a working day
>it has 40 something years old
Proving my point once again

>>82962011
>christmas
With my family. Not staying in an empty town
>new year
Same.
Inb4
>broooo just go to nonexisting events for boomers and retirees

>>82962122
>True
So you actually haven't gone to any social events since May? Amazing. And you're still single?

>>82962134
Does your family know that you don't go out anywhere? The least they could do is let you go to a proper new years party. When I was younger that was one of the easiest times to meet girls.

>>82962147
>not a single social event
Ive gone to church, outdoor groups, bars, after works, language classes, cooking classes, running groups.
>>82962158
They know i am the organizer of several hobby clubs in my area
>proper new years party
Not a thing in arlon or my parents village
Agail not everyone is rich kid from central ny

>>82962259
how social is your church? how often do they do lunches and dinners with everyone?

>>82962303
>how social is your church
0, we have two dinners per year.
Not a single woman below 55 or above 10 attends.

i got my last two girlfriends off of tinder. i also see them everywhere, you're all fucking retarded. literally go to any fast food place and they're all there working you fucking retards what do you mean

>>82962322
so why do you keep saying church if you are doing nothing social? are you a retard?

>>82962380
Because i talk to people there retard

>>82962387
you're dumb as rocks

>>82962387
>social events i go to: church
>"oh okay so you do social activities and socialize at church?"
>no
I guarantee that you are some sexless loser. When was the last time you went on a simple date with a young woman?

>>82962423
>When was the last time you went on a simple date with a young woman?
isnt this his point?
>literally havent even SEEN a single 20-30yo woman

>>82962448
I've never seen a 18-50yo man. What does that have to do with anything?

>>82958775 (OP)
this is a real issue
the death of third spaces, etc.
that being said i bet i could probably help you out a bit if we were friends
but that's not to blame you or anything, it really is rough out there
coed sports is a good option though
also creating/sharing/collabing on art

>>82962521
>turd spaces
this only works in homogenous cultures. now you need to choose a subculture. Even if you only talk to other incels in the online incel community, that is literally your turd space. Nobody forces you to learn how to dance anymore, but that's still an option if you want to quickly socialize.

>>82958775 (OP)
I know that feel, anon. I match with foids sometimes, and they say fuck all, let alone be DTF. Or they just ghost anyway.
I go to the park each weekend for almost two years, and no foids there give a fuck either. Can't even score by just 'being a regular'.
In over 20 years, only a handful of foids have ever stared at me; but they always have a cockblocker there, and they never speak to me. FML.