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Anonymous No.83011615 [Report] >>83011667 >>83011761 >>83011794 >>83011832 >>83011841 >>83011852 >>83012808 >>83013302 >>83014663
I don't know what to do anymore. I dress nice, i shower, i go to the gym, stay clean, socialize and im at a healthy weight, generally speaking im a normal human being.
I try my best to show respect to the people around me and im still a reject with no friends. I hit a point where i can't relax and try to enjoy my existence because of the anxiety over being a lonely freak for the rest of my life.
Anonymous No.83011663 [Report] >>83011682
People are boring assholes
Anonymous No.83011667 [Report] >>83011702
>>83011615 (OP)
well at least you're clean and healthy now.
Anonymous No.83011682 [Report] >>83011692
>>83011663
yet they create things that you enjoy, i agree but i don't think that humans are meant to be entirely isolated
Anonymous No.83011692 [Report] >>83011747
>>83011682
People more like me than anyone else are my favorite creators. Most artists really are introverts anyways.
Anonymous No.83011702 [Report]
>>83011667
Thank you, i don't regret improving myself since i do it for my own well being, i wouldnt have done it if it were only for social reasons, yet i always hoped it would help me... it did not.
Anonymous No.83011747 [Report]
>>83011692
I agree, but there is still a need to have friends to share passions and enjoy things with, and relationships too, or at least for me.
Anonymous No.83011761 [Report] >>83011801
>>83011615 (OP)
You just don't have what women want. And that's a huge black cock
Anonymous No.83011794 [Report] >>83011813
>>83011615 (OP)
are you from America? would you spend time with a boring person?
Anonymous No.83011801 [Report] >>83012990
>>83011761
Im talking about friends too, well, mainly friends since a girlfriend is a whole different subject. And i believe women also have a need to be with a quality man rather than just looking for hookups. That being said its fair to assume thats literally all they care about since our society promotes infidelity.
Anonymous No.83011813 [Report]
>>83011794
Im not from the US sorry. I would spend time with someone that is willing to be my friend, the boring part can be solved.
Anonymous No.83011832 [Report] >>83011850
>>83011615 (OP)
get a job retard
that other shit isn't 5% as important
Anonymous No.83011841 [Report] >>83011861
>>83011615 (OP)
You have nothing people want. Simple as that. And you are probably boring, ordinary uninteresting.
On top of that most people already have fixed friend circles, it's hard to become a part of that if you don't have something these people want from you or see in you.
Once you are out of the game you are out.
And it you are out there is a reason for that which makes getting in very hard. Because normalfags never get out, no matter what happens to them.
Anonymous No.83011850 [Report] >>83011961
>>83011832
Im in college and do some part time work.
Anonymous No.83011852 [Report] >>83011891
>>83011615 (OP)
same anon, i really don't think it's our fault but just society that is flawed. most people are so atomized nowdays that it's nearly impossible to make new connections as an adult. the only solution i can think of is that we need to find a place to come back to regularly that forces us to interact with people. could be a hobby place, a club. it used to be school when we were kids, but now we need to find something else. that's how you make connections. find community, and you'll find friends.
Anonymous No.83011856 [Report] >>83011904
neurotypicals are sociopathic and reject people who are earnest and good

they're subhumans. don't hate yourself when they're the abnormal ones
Anonymous No.83011861 [Report]
>>83011841
Maybe im boring but giving up on it won't solve anything, there has to be something that i can do or something that is wrong with me
Anonymous No.83011891 [Report]
>>83011852
I tried joining communities, still a reject in them, no one cares much about me.
Anonymous No.83011904 [Report]
>>83011856
They can't all me right?
Anonymous No.83011949 [Report] >>83012029
I can't have conversations with people because they will eventually figure out that all I do is get high and shitpost here and play video games all day
Anonymous No.83011961 [Report] >>83012005 >>83012642
>>83011850
>Im in college
either you're a child or a creep and assuming it's the former you need to relax more and care less because you sound uptight
do you seriously think anyone gives a fuck if you go to the gym? yet you mention it alongside shit like "i dress nice" rather than social things other people might care about
you're shallow and self obsessed
Anonymous No.83012005 [Report]
>>83011961
Its hard to care less when im lonely.
No they don't care about me going to the gym, i know for a fact, i was just stating that im doing something with myself thats all, "dressing nice" also goes into the appeal aspect of socializing no?
Anonymous No.83012029 [Report]
>>83011949
I game too but but i have hobbies and passions. I don't do much things irl though because of the social reject part but i always pushed for irl activities.
Anonymous No.83012526 [Report] >>83013806
what are some of your passions and hobbies? what are you studying btw? share as much or little as u feel comfortable with
Anonymous No.83012642 [Report] >>83014304
>>83011961
>if you don't dress nicely you're a fucking loser, it's no wonder no one likes you. put some fucking effort in your appearance faggot. Also if you don't go to the gym you deserve to be in that situation, you're not doing anything to improve yourself anyway
>uh... what? you dress nicely and are going to the gym? uh.. oh, you're just a faggot anyway, who the hell goes to the gym and dresses nicely anyway? do you think anybody gives a fuck about that? so insecure..

The duality of normies
Anonymous No.83012808 [Report]
>>83011615 (OP)
Did you try actually talking to people and asking them to hang? Not really even being sarcastic, you can be an ok person and still not have friends because you just don't try very hard to get any
Anonymous No.83012990 [Report]
>>83011801
autism
autism
autism
I dont have friends too. there is no escape from it.
Anonymous No.83013302 [Report]
>>83011615 (OP)
schizoidmaxx and live in complete solitude for most of your days, feel alienated and confused for your overall lack of purpose instead of caring about people...
Anonymous No.83013806 [Report]
>>83012526
Its mostly maker related stuff, like 3d printing, circuit design, all that stuff though ive taken interest in more creative things like drawing, also vidya.
Engineering.
Anonymous No.83014304 [Report]
>>83012642
He's right to some extent, ive been in enough social situations to observe that it isn't really a necessity to look good, just not disgusting, what you share and the similarities between people is more likely to form connections, BUT that doesn't mean that caring about your body and the way you present yourself isn't relevant.
Anonymous No.83014663 [Report]
>>83011615 (OP)
how old are you and when was the last time you weren't a reject with no friends?