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Anonymous No.83017752 [Report] >>83017833 >>83017860 >>83017868 >>83017896
Is anyone else struggling real hard to connect with people? Or am I just a freak that has bad luck?Why do I feel like shit? I have people to talk to and I still feel misunderstood and alone
Anonymous No.83017789 [Report] >>83017799
is it anhedonia? i have something that could be described as anhedonia. I feel like nothing brings me joy anymore. its like i see everyone talking about things they enjoy, even on this site, and connecting through those things, and and i dont have anything to enjoy or find happiness in and as such i cant speak to people about things i think are cool and awesome and i cant connect with people and oh god please i just want to find happiness.
Anonymous No.83017799 [Report] >>83017849
>>83017789
Are you me?
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Anonymous No.83017833 [Report]
>>83017752 (OP)
No, I don't even try
Anonymous No.83017849 [Report]
>>83017799
i think at this point the only thing that could do it for me is seeing someone else be happy and derive joy from something i do for them.
Anonymous No.83017860 [Report]
>>83017752 (OP)
yes i just made a thread like this and the day before i think lol
Anonymous No.83017868 [Report]
>>83017752 (OP)
>s anyone else struggling real hard to connect with people?
Who gives a shit if you feel whole inside.
Join me anon, feel good being in your own skin and the world and its people are your toys.
Anonymous No.83017896 [Report]
>>83017752 (OP)
Humankind is a piece of shit. If you're trying, you should be struggling because it should be hard to find good people. By the way, you only need one person. Someone of the opposite sex in which you have sex with each other all the time, you will never be happier than when you are in the first 6 months of a relationship with a girl. After that get rid of her and try to find another one, it only goes downhill from there. Some girls are so fucking crazy that they can't hold in their bullshit for more than a month, and the Veil falls, and you see the real piece of shit person that they are and you can go ahead and get rid of them right then and there.I am now 37 and I have not dated a girl for longer than about 7 months since I was 28. It's also worth noting that when girls get into their 30s, it doesn't matter how cute they are, their bodies are starting to go to shit and she might have a toned body, but it's going to have marks and creases and trust me on this, no girl looks excellent at or after 40. There's no way in hell I would ever consider dating somebody more than about 35 years old. And I'll do that throughout the rest of my 30s, my 40s, my 50s, and my '60s. I doubt all want to do any more of it in my 70s but that's about the time when you end up having these 20-year-old girlfriends for a week at a time and that's about it
Anonymous No.83018149 [Report] >>83018181
If you expect people to judge you then you will think they are judging you but it is all in your head. Remember that. And do not be afraid to be yourself. Take time and be patient. And smile at people. Talk about the things you want people to know about you. Check up on people regularly and give it time.
Anonymous No.83018181 [Report]
>>83018149
Has this worked for you? What you say makes sense and is logical but it gets overwritten by my shortcomings and self doubt