Thread 83025090

If a girl tells me she got raped should I tell her I was too and traumabond or is this an ick

>>83025090 (OP)
>tfw no raped fembot gf to gently care for and rehabilitate until she realizes she can do better and leaves me

>>83025090 (OP)
Ick. No woman will ever love or respect you if you were raped or molested.

traumabonding is iffy and rape is a sensitive subject you should only do what feels right

>>83025109
Should I tell i raped a girl before instead?

>>83025109
POV: you do not understand the concept of compassion and make the most insufferable Statement ever

>>83025090 (OP)
I don't think trauma bonding is good but theoretically you could both share your trauma without using it to form the basis of your relationship. That only works if you're both somewhat healed or in the process of healing thoubiet

>>83025125
Anon what lol what?

>>83025138
Which is better to tell a girl who just said she got raped. That I was raped before or that I have raped a girl before

>>83025126
Women can offer you compassion in the same way they offer it to a dog or dying rat, but they will never again love you as a male if you were raped or molested. Get over it.
>>83025125
It depends, too risky anyway.

>>83025151
I know what you said but I am trying to process what possessed you to ask that question :sob:
You should never tell anyone you have raped someone that is something you take to your grave

>>83025151
If you want her to stay attracted to you, then it's better to have raped and be repentant and sorrowful over it than to have been raped.

This thread has the most insufferable takes

>>83025284
I would only date a girl if she's been raped before

>>83025090 (OP)
>should I tell her I was too and traumabond
Tell her, and if she gets the ick, then you beat her. You're the man here, don't let a woman make fun of you for your trauma.
Hurt people hurt people, use that for your advantage, you'd only be defending yourself in this situation

>>83025363
>get raped
>suffer entire life
>meet girl
>fall in love
>she reveals she was raped
>bond intensely
>trust her
>tell her you were raped too
>"umm... ick. i feel bad, no don't worry, it's not your fault um, i just can't deal with this sry you're so sweet"
>feel rage
>slap her
>get raped in jail

>>83025090 (OP)
Would be an absolute massive ick, even if she pretends it wasn't. Women are hardwired to look for a protective figure, you telling her this will subconsciously give her the ick even if her conscious personality doesn't care. It's unfortunately the way things are. And I'm not even joking.

>>83025284
you've been mentioning takes for a while is this your new favorite word

>>83025284
If you have to adapt a certain "personality", a rather weird one in case of this thread, to hope for "success", rather weird again...
Yeah, I have to agree.
This is just fucked up people looking for other fucked up people.