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I think it all comes down to mindset. It's not a dude's fault that the G-Spot is in the butt and is the only way to have full body multi orgasm. It doesn't help that the toy used to stimulate it is typically shaped like a cock and when a girl uses it she is simulating a act of fucking as the man and you are getting fucked in the same positions as a girl. One of the main things that people bring up is mess/smell issue but I think that is a demoralization campaign. Fucking a girls ass is exactly the same and prep, whatever makes that completely fine. If anything it makes more sense for a guy because it's pleasure , not sadism on his physical pleasure derived.
I've never been pegged or done anything like that but I think if I was with someone I really loved and trusted and she told me that she wanted to get me full body multi orgasms I would love that. Then she told me the only way to do that would be a pegging I think I would say no because of the above reasons.
What would it take for me to say yes? Comes down to psychology. She'd just have to assure me it's not gay and that it's just something special between us. That I'm not getting fucked with a cock, that's just how the toy (like a tool to get the job done) is shaped and neither her or I chose that, it just is and there's no reason to make a big deal over it because between us, it's not gay. Also to not concentrate so much on how she's fucking me but just allow myself to physically let go of control and let her take over for a bit, to stop worries, doubts, fears, to most stop thinking and allow myself to be taken by pure pleasure.
After care, reassurance. All important. Doesn't make you less of a man to be trusting and vulnerable with your girl. If anything it makes you closer and more trusting with her.
Believe it, there are girls who are the ones who instigate pegging and want to do it. I know my ex is the one who brought it up a couple times and I reacted and shut it down.
