Thread 83038261

is anyone else completely invisible not only in real life but on social media aswell
outside of imageboards i barely talk to people online aswell whether itd be twitter discord or whatever. i lurk a lot aswell so its not like i dont want to do it, i just stalk peoples messages without involving myself one bit. why am i like this

>>83038261 (OP)
I am like super visible both in real life and on 4chan to the point that people are seriously recognizing me on an anonymous image board and all my friends always say in real life that everyone is looking at me, the latter apparently in a positive way though, the former not so much.

>>83038304
what the fuck your friends are recognizing your 4chan posts?
>>83038261 (OP)
i do the same but never thought of that as a problem
i guess the only annoying part of this is that making friends online is almost impossible but i dont think many people are making online friendships anymore

>>83038261 (OP)
Yes, it's better this way. I have nothing to add.

>>83038325
ive stalked enough people to know that online friendships are real and are still being formed a lot

its like my inhibitions get rly high whenever im not anonymous anymore and my iq drops by a solid 20 points and i cant express myself right and i have nothing to add to conversations

>>83038261 (OP)
why is every post on this board either "im a le heckin lonely faggot who has no friends and is miserable all the time validate me on my loserness plz XD" or "I LOVE PORN AND FUCKING AND SEX AND JERKING OFF I LOVE PORN HAVE SEX GUYS"

>>83038382
feel free to take a look on what board u are on u condescending subhuman

>>83038382
I want to have tons of sex and have lots of friends I love hanging out with
simple as. this is how i achieve true happiness

>>83038261 (OP)
Same, I've been a lurker for almost all my time on the internet. I played online games and never talked to anyone and just lurked chats and forums.

I've tried talking with people on twitter and discord but convos always die out.

>>83038372
>and i have nothing to add to conversations
i struggle with this when im in groups as well thats why i prefer one on one friendships tbdesu
>>83038354
well fuck im missing out then

>>83038382
The former are real human beans. The latter are jewish shills. Know the difference, it could save your life.

>>83038413
>I've tried talking with people on twitter and discord but convos always die out.
the same happens to me UNTIL i find someone i just click bizarrely well with.
this shit is so fucking weird because its not a matter of similar interests and or lack of social skills. even when both parties are engaged the convo can be dry and boring as fuck but with some people i can talk to them for literal hours without it feeling like a chore idk what this is

>>83038435
yea same but i can count the number of people ive found like that on one hand. over a period of like 5 years aswell

>>83038390
>condescending subhuman
am i condescending or do you just not like hearing how your actions are percieved by anybody else? i want quality posts on here, not whiny faggots venting about their lives for free validation and porn addicts jerking off

if you wanna get better and want friends, go do some insight into yourself instead of posting online to 4chan of all places

>>83038483
like im not even saying this to be mean but a good chunk of people here dont have friends purely because they're miserable to be around and depress the others around them, theres no nice way of saying that, especially in a normies eyes

>>83038461
it do be like that. why are they so hard to find?

>>83038503
>they're miserable to be around and depress the others around them
ive known some people labeled like this but frankly they were amazing friends i think normies just hate autistic folk

>>83038483
>quality posts
>r9k
hahah

>to 4chan of all places
is this ur first time on the site or what lmao. nigga this site and this board especially is a cesspool for autistic retards. if you want your le quality posts you might want to head over to reddit

>>83038528
can you guys stop using autism as an excuse for your shortcomings? theres plenty of autistic people who have lots of friends, i see it all the time infact, its not a case of your autism and people not being able to put up with it , its because your MISERABLE to be around.
im autistic and have been diagnosed since i was young, and ive struggled to make friends irl not because of my autism but because of how self deprecating/down i was all the time + how undersocialised i was in general, ive got some friends now irl once I learnt this fact and figured out ways to steer around it, i might be a loser but so what? theres no use on sitting in it forever and im tired of seeing people choose to sit in it, this mindset only creates more bumps down the road

>>83038584
you became self deprecating/down because you had no friends dumbass not the other way around

>>83038546
you sound black im not even gonna respond to your niggerbabble

>>83038593
no? i hate myself regardless of whether i have friends or not, i just dont project it out loud nor do i try to internalise my whole identity around it, when i did thats when i had no friends and hated myself the most, its not other peoples fault for not being able to put up with my constant misery nor is it their job

>>83038483
You type like a fucking faggot nigger I hope you slip in the shower and break your neck.

>>83038584
>and figured out ways to steer around it
like what

>>83038604
no need to project itt, just because you used to jestermaxx to get attention from your fellow peers and then realized that ur a retard for doing that doesnt mean everyone thats a failed normie does it your way. stop giving people advice when youre likely not succeeding socially anyways, its like a homeless nigga giving you advice on how to make money

>>83038261 (OP)
Im ugly and my opinions are irrelevant and nobody likes me

>>83038325
My friends aren't on 4chan. Other people on r9k often recognize me across threads.
Something about the fact that I keep saying that I'm wishing paingful death and much suffering upon all virginkind.

>>83038642
>jestermax
what does that even mean ? genuinely please explain that to me, stop speaking niggerbabble and speak english

>>83038607
its easier to attack me than to take it in anon, its okay i get it, i was that way too but you can stay this way forever, you will end up alone and theres no way of avoiding that
>>83038609
social skills for example, exposing myself to people, i would literally talk to strangers on the bus, in shops, on the street ect just to get some form of socialisation in, unironically fake it until you make it because most of human's social nature is fake anyway, both autistics and normies have weird social hierarchies anyway so why does it matter? I cant blame my enviroment for all the wrong in my life

>>83038914
>its easier to attack me than to take it in
Nigger you weren't even talking to me when I responded to what you posted. You're not some wise individual either, you don't know what's best for other people and I'm not alone to begin with so you sound fucking stupid rn.

>>83038261 (OP)
not invisible but definetely hated. honestly sometimes wish I was not noticed so easily by others. Strangers hurl insults at me, and mock me all the time.

>>83038914
I do this too and then our reason for interaction concludes and....I'm still me. Now what?