Thread 83051209

I was in a relationship for a year, and because Im a femcel, I didnt want to mess things up so i did everything i could I loved him I fucking loved him. I cared for him so much, even when he messed up. I did so much, ignoring how uncomfortable it was for me to do certain things, but I still tried for him. And now, on our anniversary, I found out hes basically been cheating on me behind my back for several weeks, even after I begged him not to. Even dating my looksmatch didnt work. What do I do? I feel so ashamed

>>83051209 (OP)
Break up with him and move on, not much else to do. probably stop with the femcel thing too

>>83051209 (OP)
>I was a retarded people pleaser and let my partner walk all over me how could he cross my nonexistent boundaries
grow a spine

>>83051209 (OP)
>ignoring how uncomfortable it was for me to do certain things, but I still tried for him.
It was anal, wasn't it?

>>83051223
i just wanted to be loved man

>>83051232
Shouldn't have picked the abuse chad then

>>83051237
stop hes literally a namefagger on int
stop stop stop stop stop stop

>>83051243
yeah that was your mistake, picking the int abusechad over the kind loving robot boyfriend

Move on and try to find a new man, don't blame yourself i'm sure you're a good woman.

>>83051209 (OP)
Did not read, I was lonely this year (as in any other years), so not really going to pity you. No women have shown any interest in me, basically, all your problems are your fault as a foid

>>83051209 (OP)
On the bright side, it's not your fault. In anonymous surveys, 20-30 % of people admit to having cheated at least once in a previous relationship. Now that you know >>83051223

>>83051243
abuse chad jokes aside op, just move on, it's life, but seriously, stop with the femcel thing, it's only gonna fuck you over

>>83051232
and bad actors can smell that and they'll milk you for all you're worth then throw you in the trash once they're done
love is not something that you earn by sucking up to someone, I understand that being lonely is scary and that the desire to be loved is extremely powerful, but you don't get it by letting others walk all over you, learn from this mistake, grow a spine, continue moving forward with your chin up and realize that he was a piece of shit and that it'll happen again if you keep acting like this.

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>>83051251
OP here, i forgot to mention but i am MTF transgender. hopefully you guys dont mind :)

>>83051261
op here thanks for the advice, think im gonna lay off those hrt hormones for now.

>>83051264
>>83051273
can you fucking stop with your agp fetish? literally every fucking thread you come with this shit, everyone knows its you dude

try dating a human being and not an internet freak

>>83051246
stop im not a faggot, i acted like one for him yeah but no >>83051264

>>83051209 (OP)
I think you did nothing wrong by being so devoted to him and loving him unconditionally. I would personally just accept what happened, share what I think and how I feel with him and if I want to break up, part ways without bad nasty feelings for him because those carry into the next moment, into life and the next relationship. I don't see any point in beating yourself up over it if you did everything right, life happens and it can throw a curveball in your face. I find it hard to stay positive and forgive the other person after they hurt me, but I know it can only get worse if I spiral into depression, anger, fear, etc.
t. virgin loser neet

>>83051209 (OP)
Exact same thing happened to me, but I'm a guy.
Don't feel bad, anon. Love's a crazy emotion. It's not so much ignoring things you wouldn't tolerate, but more so looking past them. Sorry that happened.

>>83051232
let me love you nona>///<

>>83051262
>>83051232
I also find it incredibly ironic you posted aiko since she basically did the same thing as you and she ended up hung from a tree, maybe you should've tool it as a precautionary tale rather than inspiration

>>83051209 (OP)
Firstly dump his ass he is a faggot and no one deserves to be cheated on. Secondly I know it sucks but at least now in a future relationship youll be better at spotting the red flags and realise your loyalty and yearning for love are great traits and learn to value yourself better so bad actors dont take advantage of you and know if its meant to work it will and as long as you keep working on yourself you will find the right person out there for you :)

>>83051209 (OP)
>>83051445
Also please learn to set boundaries its a great way to make sure you dont get abused and root out anyone who doesnt actually care for you