>>83052530 (OP)
I was the quintessential nice guy in high school. Not meme nice guy, I was literally well liked by literally every single group in school, be it jocks, goths, nerds, weirdos so on and I was decently popular too. I was invisible to women still. Guess who was super popular tho? One guy who was considered to be one of the most good looking guys of the school and he was a complete piece of shit that was exposed as beating up his girlfriend so bad her parents stepped in and put a restraining order on him. Did that whole scandal destroy his popularity and reputation? No. The girls were just happy he was single.
Moral of the story: never fall for foid's attempts at gaslighting you that the blackpill isn't real and that personality and "being nice" matters in any way.