Thread 83054102

What would you actually do here?
>be an adult khhv
>may have had opportunities for sex/dating before but didn't care for it, or some other reason
>basically not a complete uggo, but still mentally ill
>finally get into your first relationship, proper LTR
>finally feel normal and like your life isn't always just getting worse for once
>tfw a few years into the relationship
>get the most intense crush/oneitis you've ever gotten on your partner's friend, and it doesn't seem to go away
Just kys I assume .

>>83054102 (OP)
>Just kys I assume
Correct!
Otherwise, just trick yourself into believing her friend is a turboslut that has fucked animals. he reason you got a crush is because you're dreaming of the 'what-if' with a person you don't know well enough, so you can mold them into your fantasy. Just stop respecting her, just stop seeing her as someone worthwhile. Trick yourself into being disgusted by her. No evidence is evidence. This is the only way.

>>83054155
I have tried this approach before but I can't do it with just fantasies, and so far everything I learned is essentially a green flag. I don't know a lot about this "oneitis" and maybe that's the reason for it. But I have managed to keep being almost a stranger and not getting close or too friendly at all, which I was proud of at least back when I still thought I had the crush under control.

Yes, just kys