Thread 83060967

You guys can't have it both ways. You bully women for being "lonely" yet you guys are going through a LITERAL loneliness epidemic.

>>83060967 (OP)
maybe.... they aren't the same men.... dumbass

>>83060976
I stalk a lot of profiles. They're almost always the same men.

>>83060988
>trust me bro
i don't believe you

>>83060967 (OP)
Maybe its hard to have sympathy for the gender that in an overwelming majority do not approach and think playing with hair is some sort of approach and also is very critical of when men do it?

>>83060967 (OP)
"Male loneliness" is a psyop. Just befriend each other, oh you can't because you need a woman and hate other men? Then you deserve to be lonely, troon out, and rope, like the rest of your pathetic kind.

Male = the victim complex gender.

>>83060990
>t. you have no argument so you call me a liar

>>83061002
>Not having sympathy is the same as insulting, demeaning and attacking them
I don't have sympathy for a lot of things but I'm not like that

>>83061007
>troon out
I have a feeling you're a self hating tranny

>>83061023
>immediately getting defensive
This board is full of incels on the incel-to-tranny path, and you all deserve the rope kek

>>83061021
If you feel attacked because a bunch of lonely men point out hypergamy and the emotional blackmail women use to get money from them, its a you problem and i don't even think apologizing.

Women literally just have to say yes to any of the dozens of men who will throw themselves at them, on a weekly basis.
I've spoken to so-called femcels, and they will literally admit their standards are too high, and they refuse to settle for anything less than the fantasy they have in their heads.

>>83061023
>calling me defensive while being defensive
The irony is lost on you, dude.

>>83060967 (OP)
"male loneliness epidemic" is a foid invention. i'm a victim of the "lack of female slaves" epidemic

>>83061035
Meant for this --> >>83061053

>>83061007
or you filthy whores could just fulfil your gender roles and be our fuckslaves

>the hon with the axe wound is seething so much it can't even tell who it's talking to anymore
Kek'd

if a woman is lonely it is by choice

she can literally just go to a public place and someone will chat her up within 10 minutes

>>83061078
Only happens in America.
Also, some male ""incels"" (so volcels) have standards like not wanting to pay a prostitute. Thus, women incels have standards too, such as not wanting to use dating apps.
>inb4 feminine male whining at the truth

>>83061078
Name one city where you see men "chatting" to random strange women in public everywhere you go. Something like that would end male loneliness forever. The whole reason we have incels is that they are looking online in male spaces and not in real life.

>>83060967 (OP)
Body count of the cat lady in question?

>>83060967 (OP)
Nope. Foids can get cock any time they want. But they only want Chad's.
Many of them prefer to be 'cat-herders', and wait for the Chad who they will never get, while turning down all their looks-matches as 'subhumans'.
Meanwhile, non-Chads rot as incels or have roped.

>>83061122
I wish that was so true. I see literal fat guys and chubby guys who have girlfriends and sex lives. It is fucking unbelievable that there are women who would still date a guy who doesn't have a BBC. Women are insane.

>>83060967 (OP)
being lonely for women is a choice born of stupidity
being lonely as a man is a choice born from women's stupidity.

>>83061108
There's nowhere to go in real life and "just talk to women".
If women are so lonely, why can't they talk to me, anyway? I appreciate the attention. I'm on social media. not one of these women wants to approach me and try to start a conversation.

>male loneliness isn't an issue become some people are mean sometimes

Uh... what?

Also, I literally just started talking to trannies recently, because at the very least they will talk back, and make you feel seen on some level.
Women did that to me, not the other way around.

>>83061078
Just because random sex pest men are willing to have sex with anything that moves doesn't mean women aren't lonely. Desire without care, respect, or emotional connection isn't companionship, it's objectification.

>>83061175
>There's nowhere to go
Well there are hundreds of places you could go, I'm just saying nobody does this with strangers in public. You sound like a creepy predator so I wouldn't be surprised if you don't go to any social events or community activities, you only want some vulnerable whore with no witnesses.

>>83061196
See, that's you immediately pigeonholing all available men as "sex pests", so you don't have to admit you're being picky.
Also, everyone seeking a relationship is on some level a sex pest. That's the point. It's a social arrangement that facilitates sex.

>>83061186
I have never seen a trans in my life. Do you spend a lot of time on the computer/phone or something?

>>83061210
>dude, just go and hassle women at the local leisure center!
You'd get thrown out or arrested.

And yes, the fact that you would call me a creepy predator, is why I'm not going to do it.

>>83061210
>you sound like a creepy predator because you don't give me pussy tingles and every sub-8 male obviously isn't human
Uh huh, you keep saying this all the time.

>>83061108
any club
any coffee shop
any bookstore
any hobby shop
anywhere that has some social aspect/approach

just literally stand there alone and a moid will eventually talk to you

>>83061214
>anon claims that the cure to loneliness is meeting some stranger on the street and having sex
>"b-b-b-but a seeking uhhh"
you are a clinical retard. if your loneliness can be cured with some random chit chat, then fuck off and go to a poor/dense neighborhood, you don't really know what we are talking about anyway.

>>83061224
What? You literally just go outside and have conversations with strangers?

>>83061232
>every coffee shop has men and women mingling with each other
Based. You just ended the entire argument that incels exist.

>>83061233
Literally when in your life have you ever just met a stranger on the street, and had sex with them?
That's not socially normal behaviour.

>>83061239
Not where I am. They have people drinking coffee.
If I went to a place of commerce and just hung around expecting to make friends, I'd look autistic.

Admittedly, women can probably get away with it, because they get away with everything.

>>83061247
It's not socially normal to be "lonely"

>>83061234
No? I have a life so I meet people and get to know them?

>>83061239
>talking with a girl = automatic sex

lol no

obviously they'll only respond to chad and freeze out average guys

>>83061259
>I expect you to suffer and humiliate yourself in ways I never did, because I always just had friends and connections by default
Yes, we know.

>>83060967 (OP)
>>83060988
>I stalk a lot of profiles
Yet faggotron OP still pretends the women this was said about were all just innocent, not stuck up, not talking shit and non feminist/man hating. Good job retard.

>>83061267
>every coffee shop is filled with single Chads
so what are you complaining about? men can't be lonely.

>>83061265
What constitutes a "life"? Existing social networks? Yeah, I don't have those.

>>83060967 (OP)
>maybe if I warn women that they'll end up lonely if they stop being so picky then maybe they'll realise they dont need chad and we can go back to good enough being good enough

I want to believe. Women are the ones keeping men lonely. we want pussy just as much as chad, but we're deemed unworthy of letting us put your penis in you, through no fault of our own. tf do you expect us to do about it?

>>83060967 (OP)
There's an obvious distinction between being involuntarily lonely and being voluntarily lonely. If you feel like there's nothing more you can do, then that will obviously be far more harmful to your mental health.

>>83061007
>Just ignore the sexual part of loneliness even though its the only reason you're here
Psyop enjoyer talking about psyops

>>83061268
I don't expect you to do anything. It took me 7 years to make friends and then I moved for my job and started all over and it took another year or two. I did get married young though.

>>83061291
I hate you people so much it's unreal. This is "let them eat cake" shit.

>>83061277
No like having an actual life where you do things. If you have consistent interests and places you go, you will see the same people over and over, often everywhere you go because it's the same interests. That's what a social network is based on. Nobody just talks to strangers anymore.

It's always stunning to me that the average normgroid's 'advice' for crushingly lonely people is always something akin to 'just buy a house if you're homeless lol' 10 out of 10 times.

>>83061301
Find people you love. It sounds like you just choose to be alone for no reason.

>>83060967 (OP)
People who go out of their way to argue against incels or the "male loneliness epidemic" (whether it's directly or from a social media soapbox) are probably the dumbest, least serious people. Do anything else with your time.

>>83061306
The difference is that homeless people actually try to collect money so they can do drugs, while lonely people don't really try to do anything.

>>83060967 (OP)
women are the reason why men are alone, and women are also the reason why women are alone.

>>83061303
There's nowhere to go. I can sit in a room with people I don't know, or sit in another room with people I don't know, or I can just stay at home where at least people will talk to me on the internet.
Where are you living where you just go outside and social events are happening at all times? It's like you people all live in the sitcom universe, where there's always a wacky character at the bar to talk to.

>>83061318
That's a nice way of handwaving every desperate attempt that's made and shifting the blame.

Women and their enablers tell men sex isn't that important while mocking men for not fucking enough whores and letting women ruin or kill themselves and their children just for sum cock. Clown creatures with jello for brains.

>>83061311
The only people I can find who will even talk to me are trannies. Everyone else just flat out ignores me when I send a message.

>>83061325
People fixated on "blame" have no clue what they are even talking about. When I was lonely I just did things to not be lonely, because I wanted to not be lonely.

>>83061322
Do you spend more than 2 hours a day at your computer or on your phone? I'm just curious. I've lived in many places.

>>83061321
based

/threado

>>83061336
Speaking of people who have no clue what they're even talking about, it's funny that you assume your lived experience is a universal constant that applies to everyone. You really think that lonely people just sit in their hovels and angrily stare outside 24/7? Obviously they're also making continuous (albeit futile) attempts at connecting to SOMEONE at least, and when even that doesn't work you can probably guess how crushing and demoralizing that is.

>>83061352
>You really think that lonely people just sit in their hovels and angrily stare outside 24/7?
Yes.

>>83060967 (OP)
Hey foid
Guess how much I care about being right or wrong.

>>83060967 (OP)
So I take it that these people are just going to misunderstand why that was said about these wretched women in the first place? Idiots

>>83061357
Oh okay, then just say you aren't interested in having an honest conversation and just want your gay lil biases confirmed.

>>83061343
What else am I supposed to do all day?

>>83061368
There is nothing honest about some goofy ahh talking about lived experiences while comparing loneliness to homelessness and trying to switch the conversation from the problem to the people who give advice on the problem. You will become a normgroid who gives 'advice' the very nanosecond that you realize how simple this specific shit is.

>>83061378
I am not really asking if there is anything else, I was just curious if you actually spend time alone in front of a screen.

>>83061390
Yes, all day. I go outside for walks, there is nothing out there.
What do you want from me?

>>83061318
For solving loneliness retards will spend money, work like a slave and do tricks to try to get and keep a woman but what you things somehow miss is women saying and behaving as if you're entitled to nothing from them no matter what you do or what they feel entitled to from (You). Hard work or trying to show love isn't going to make someone stay loving you or treat you as needed, especially for a group like women who aren't held to the most basic responsibility anymore. When it's already proven the reason you're lonely is because the ones meant to solve it are untrustworthy and beyond mentally unstable/irrational, whether it's from choice propaganda food meds hormones etc, you're not hard working your way out of it. The only way you're fully responsible for your loneliness is if there's not outside interference making things worse, if you fully control other people or if other people are basically perfect and dindu nuffin.

>>83060967 (OP)
I think both are very sad and results of a Jewish psyop.
>Promote single life, sleeping around and gay cuckery in goywood
>women watch these films and emulate the behaviour they see
>End up destroying their souls and ability to pair bond leading to sad lonely women in despair
>Men watch corn made by Jews
>Ruins their sexual and brain function stop improoooooviiing and degenerate into a unlovable lonely stinky gooner
Both cases are very sad and the only person that wins is Satan and the rabbinic Jews

>>83061385
I get that this specific shit is very simple to you since your only solution is just 'have a social network lol', just like any other braindead normgroid would say as if they're actually saying something meaningful. Also rather amusing that you are either too stupid or butthurt to understand analogies, only further cementing the fact that you only want to hear yourself talk and have nothing of value to offer. Now begone, retard.

>>83061400
Why would I want anything from you? You are an NPC. I would not be surprised if there was nothing out there for you.

>>83060967 (OP)
Nobody has ever said that until now and I'm testing ir

>>83061408
>>83061385
Can you people stop fucking self-censoring on 4chan?
Say ASS and PORN. It is allowed.

you will live alone with your cats and dogs and after you die they will start eating your corpse

>>83061426
You only have places to go because you have friends to go with, and you've probably had friends your entire life, because you weren't abused or kept in isolation when you were a child.

>>83061405
Your word salad is fake and gay, but yes I agree that if you are the one feeling the loneliness, it should be you to do things that make you feel less lonely. Responsibility and locus of control are completely irrelevant. I can blame communism for destroying my chances at meeting women, but I'll still go out and do things to meet women. That's life.

>>83061439
I was abused and isolated when I was a child. I'm saying you are an NPC, thoughever. Traumamaxxing is peak normie behavior, if you are seriously pretending that this gimmick makes you special in any way.

>>83061455
There's nowhere to fucking go. I don't know what you expect from me.
>dude, just go to the cool coffee shop like the characters in Friends!
There isn't one. Fuck off.

>>83061408
Women cut off men in ltr from sex and made it so expecting to have a normal relationship was like wanting sex slavery. Men don't have a choice between starving, getting poisoned with groomed psyopped holes or gooning. You can bitch about fapping but there's nothing left as it should be. You removed the major motivation for improving through taking sex, relationships and family with women and you're finger wagging over cope attempts. Just useless retard shit. Zero solutions offered ever. But muh satan muh stinky. You know these women are at the point they think they don't have to wash their pussy and they're eating these filthy men's assholes.

>>83060967 (OP)
I know this is bait but I want to address how this screenshot is a perfect example of how Women are utterly self absorbed and cannot even fathom for one nanosecond what it's actually like to be anyone else other than themselves.

Men have the capacity to understand women, but I'm almost certain that women are absolutely unable to understand men

Men say that shit like "enjoy being alone with your cats"

BECAUSE OF THE FUCKING IMPOSSIBLY HIGH STANDARDS EVERY WOMAN HAS THESE DAYS

men just want an ounce of love and care and effort from women but it's too fucking much to do even that. Women expect men to constantly listen to women bitch about their feelings and their day and other miniscule shit, but the moment a man is having a bad day and we need support, women are nowhere, infact even disgusted by men showing HUMAN EMOTIONS

women are fucking demons

>>83061443
Let me dumb it down for you and tell me how you're arguing against this. Women owe you nothing and your efforts don't make women reciprocate because they have all kinds of brain damage. So why is your stupid ass responding at all? You can't read a simple paragraph much less offer a point against it.

>>83061466
I don't expect anything from an NPC. I bet you spend a lot of time on the internet.

>>83061543
We're literally on the internet now, genius.

>>83061494
I wasn't arguing anything. People choose whether they stay lonely or are part of a community or build any relationships, yes.

>>83061548
How is that working out for you? Do you appreciate your social life?

>>83061561
I've been outside plenty, and there's nothing there. The internet at least provides this level of social interaction with other human beings.

>>83061552
>I'm not arguing anything I'm arguing people choose whether they stay lonely or are part of a community or build any relationships
You can't choose whether you're lonely because you can't choose how people behave you useless idiot.

>>83061571
>>83061579
Don't bother. These 'people' were never planning on giving you honest answers, they just want to feel smug about being 'better' than anyone who struggles with finding meaningful connections in this life.

>>83061579
1. You literally do choose how people behave in general. You're acting like criminals never get punished for their crimes because you think it's completely random how people react to what other people do.

2. It's not "your" loneliness if you're just talking about what other people are doing.
>you can't choose whether you are hungry because you can't choose what food does

>>83061571
There's nothing on the internet. I bet you waste a lot of time here though regardless.

>>83061591
>just give honest answers bro
Cringe advice.

>>83061593
>You literally do choose how people behave in general
No people act different from how you want all the time. Even a child with downs could get this but you somehow can't.
>It's not "your" loneliness if you're just talking about what other people are doing
Loneliness is a lack of companions whether that's friends or a romantic partner. The specific type here is obviously romance. Imagine how stupid you have to be to pretend all these break ups and divorces happened because both people wanted it.

>>83061600
Internet - human beings who will talk to me
outside - human beings who will not talk to me

>>83061620
You'd rather people just bitch, whine and scream into the void incessantly instead? Seems lame.

>>83061635
There's nothing online.

I'm just really lonely and project my frustrations onto lonely women because they have the choice not to be lonely while I have no such choice, and it feels like a slap in the face when they imply we're the same(but they still won't date me of course).

>>83061629
>people act different
That's my point. "Lonely" people who don't go out to parties/social events are just choosing to be lonely. Even if I want them to behave correctly, they'll choose not to.

>how stupid
That's my point. Even stupid people understand that if they want a relationship, they need to build relationships.

>>83061672
There are trannies, who are very appreciative of attention, and will have a conversation with you, like women wont.
I said that already.

>>83061692
>it worked for me bro trust me
There is nothing on the internet

>>83061689
>dude just go to parties and social events, with your friends that you don't have
Okay, how do I make friends? Milling around outside and trying to talk to strangers is demented, as we have already established.

>>83061290
>muh tranny sexual loneliness
The only lonely people are those with no partner and no friends. The rest are normies. Good bait, normoid anon.

>>83061689
Even behaving "correctly" or as told doesn't get you the company you want or need either retard. Whether that's going outside to meet people, entertaining them, listening to their bullshit, paying them etc. You really are wasted semen.

>>83060967 (OP)
women alone = choice
men alone = genetics

>>83061700
You're literally talking to me now. We are having a social interaction.
If I went outside now, I would not be having a social interaction.

>>83061703
You're not gonna get an answer that's anything different from "just go be social with friends you don't have". These retards have no solutions and just assume other people should be them.

>>83061703
By not being a stranger, you retard.

>>83061712
>trust me bro, just connect to the internet
There is nothing there. You're seething for no reason.

>>83061716
Make a list of ten steps

>>83061724
There's nothing satisfactory here, but there's even less outside.

>>83061730
>approach strangers
>be charismatic and fun
>entertain them until they want to hang out with you
Something along those lines probably. I know it's fucking retarded but that's literally what these vapid NPCs think.

>>83061730
Participate in your community or any subculture. Big ask for a porn addict I know, but that's the 10 step program.

>>83061735
You have never done this in your life.

>>83060976
Find me a single moid here who doesn't believe in the male loneliness epidemic and wants sympathy. Find me a moid here who doesn't hate women. They're the same men.

>>83061743
I know, because it's completely unrealistic. Did you even read the last sentence of my post?

>>83061734
And yet you still spend time on here.

>>83061742
I have literally tried to "participate in my community" and been rejected.
Most people out there don't want to know you. I don't know what world you're living in, but if you're a woman it's understandable I suppose.

>>83061745
>Find me a single moid here
You have a mirror you ugly retard go fetch it

>>83061748
Could have just read the first one. Nobody approaches strangers. Your PUA shit is useless and you're probably some virgin.

>>83061751
It's the difference between going insane from isolation, and getting whatever bare minimum I need to keep me going.

>>83061754
Rejected from participating in your own community? Ok then find a community of other p3d0philes and fuck off, you are literally this fucking stupid.

>>83061763
Nigger if you weren't being a butthurt retard right now you'd obviously realize that my post was a facetious imitation of normie 'advice'. My god.

>>83061745
The men who hate women are usually chads. Incels think women are unreachable goddeses so treat them like that

>>83061764
Yeah that's the point. My loneliness was driving me insane so I ended up socializing. If I did some online bullshit I would have never made progress.

>>83061785
But whenever I go outside, there's nothing there.
Do you literally just want me to start following people down the street?

>>83061771
Quick, call him an incel and ugly too so you feel even more justified in handwaving the plight of people who aren't you in true foid fashion.

>>83061771
Name ten things in my community I'm supposed to get involved in.

>>83061792
Nah, for me it was social sports leagues and music events.

>>83061804
I'm shit at sports, and don't like live music.

>>83061803
Does your country have any food or water in it?

>>83061809
Yeah same. I liked hanging out with people though. I couldn't imagine wasting another weekend alone.

>>83061815
>just get involved in food and water
What does that even mean?
I did try to get work in something farming adjacent, but they didn't want me

>>83060967 (OP)
Yeah, foids that end up lonely are doing that by their own accord and simultaneously causing a guy to be lonely. Apples to oranges comparison.

Wouldn't expect more from an r9k anti-blackpiller, the most retarded group of people I've met.

>>83060967 (OP)
Very easy to generalize and cherry pick to prove your point.
"uh, all women are terrible whores because they won't fuck me except for the women who do"
Very fucking genius of ya

>>83062036
>all women are terrible whores because they won't fuck me
Unironically yes. Denying somebody love and affection because of irrelevant immutable traits like not being at least 6 foot and handsome is evil. Why is it so hard for you beta boomer retards to understand this?
>except for the women who do
Once again unironically yes. A woman who is willing to accept me because of other things other than my average height and maybe below average face are good women for not being too superficial.

>>83062292
>beta boomer
I was using the logic in reverse, I wasn't saying women are all perfect angels. Black and white thinking is extreme and too simplistic. She is saying every man who complains about or experiences loneliness is the same who tells women they'll die alone with cats. She is overgeneralizing and so are you

>>83062983
Oh my bad
>and so are you
By saying that the vast majority of women being superficial is bad? It's a proven fact that most women are superficial.