Thread 83079816

I feel so demoralised when people judge the way others look. I've seen so many pretty girls be called ugly. I've seen groups of guys rate girls like they are a piece of meat. It makes me feel so scared that my future partner is going to think the same about me. Or maybe his friends are going to say shit about me. What if my man thinks that he can do better? Or that he is better of without me? What if his friends convince him to leave me? There are so many ways I can be betrayed. It makes me not want to open up to anybody.

Just human biology and natural selection talking. Our brains go "ooga booga, good genes", whether it be a female or male being rated, but attraction past just intercourse depends on personality and values, be aware of who your choosing to date, be aware of their values and impulsivity, you don't have to open up unconditionally, you have to be open to a risk of betrayal if you want love, but you can mitigate that risk by choosing who to love.

>>83079816 (OP)
How "ugly", nonny?

>>83079816 (OP)
>I've seen groups of guys rate girls like they are a piece of meat. It makes me feel so scared that my future partner is going to think the same about me.
Not all guys do that, and not all guys who do that are even serious about it. You can have the occasional "yeah, I'd bang that one" thought while still being mature enough to have a proper relationship.
>maybe his friends are going to say shit about me
>What if his friends convince him to leave me?
Don't date someone with shit friends.
>What if my man thinks that he can do better? Or that he is better of without me?
While he can definitely do better than someone who unironically posts wojaks, consider the fact that love exists, dummy. Make him fall in love and he'll stay. And, you know, find a guy who specifically likes YOUR traits so that you are the better choice in the first place. In addition, continue to live your own life independently of your relationship and grow as a person so that you'll also become a better partner over time.

>>83079859
I personally dislike the way I look. My jaw is uneaven, I look gangly and I just don't feel beautiful enough to keep a man entertained.

>>83079912
>uneven jaw
recessed chin?
>gangly
eat more, bbygirl

>>83079931
Its a little recessed, and asymetrical. My nose isn't straight either, it has a hump. I just feel so finished. Everywhere I go there are so many beautiful girls. I'm just not one of them.

>>83079961
everyone's beautiful in their own way
and these things, if you don't like it, change it
>inb4 it's not that simple!
it is
go to work, get money, fix your shit

>>83079961
>a little recessed
Can make a girl look cute and feminine if it's just a little.
>asymetrical
Can't help with that one.
>nose isn't straight either, it has a hump
This is absolutely fine. Most nose shapes are OK in women, it's really only big noses and overly broad nostrils that look bad.

You're just too hung up over minor shit. Like take a random guy you find reasonably attractive. Imagine he now has slightly a less masculine jawline and some mild acne. You'd probably still like him.

>>83079969
No way I'll get plastic surgery that's retarded. I have to cope with the fact that I have a mid face

>>83079983
Ait anonymous I'll take your word for it. But it still makes me scared. All the gio scotti threads are killing me.

>>83079984
idk how it is with foids but for us guys, we cope with either a larger than life personality or a fuckton of money
i chose the former + gym + healthy eating + skincare

>>83080012
This woman looks attractive and has an aquiline nose for example.

>>83080025
I dont even have a good personality man. I'm nor funny and I am terrible at social cues. I do skincare though. Been thinking about getting a lash serum so that the focus of my face is not in the lower half.

>>83080027
Many women look good with it, it's just that it feel like the world hates roman nose on women.

>>83080065
Get bangs, maybe sidetails, put on cool eyeliner, bam, face fixed.

>>83080065
hey man, whatever works
for whatever's worth, coming from an anon on the other side of the globe, you're beautiful just the way you are

>>83079906
>not all men are like that
lol

>>83080100
He's right, we're not all like that femanon, but believe what you wish

>>83080111
you're bluepilled still. men are all the same in reality.

>>83080100
>guys who don't get into groups who banter about women's looks don't exist
Riiight, and women who don't conform to female stereotypes also don't exist. All women are obsessed with shoes, rom-coms and manicure.

>>83080077
Okey so I'll just fake it. But what about when he notices that I'm clapped.

>>83080094
Thanks man

>>83080111
But why are so many like that. I was in /fit/ the other day and they said that this oretty woman was ugly. I was like lol wut. The demoralization is killing me anon. I'm deathly scared of guys because they can be so cruel.

>>83080134
How is this any different from men thinking all women are whores etc.

>>83080152
>But why are so many like that. I was in /fit/ the other day and they said that this oretty woman was ugly.
Because women are also like that, it's human nature. only outliers and outcasts don't do that

>>83080152
>I'm deathly scared of guys because they can be so cruel.
I feel the same about women, I know I'll never fit into what they deem as "attractive" so I try to avoid situations where I'm alone with them for my own mental health

>>83080152
>just fake it
A haircut and some basic makeup isn't "faking it". Do you want your boyfriend to shave bald and not take care of his skin?
>when he notices that I'm clapped
No one who's reasonable will expect you to look your best at all times, and in fact a good partner will appreciate the effort you put into looking good when you do.
>why are so many like that. I was in /fit/ the other day
Stop listening to 4chan retards and being easily influenced. Just dismiss it. Does the average chantard look like a happy and mentally healthy person whose opinion matters?
>I'm deathly scared of guys because they can be so cruel.
That's fine but it's not like chill guys don't exist.

>>83079912
>I just don't feel beautiful enough to keep a man entertained.
Feeling one thing can be different from reality. Do any men actually go for you? Do you get flirted with or asked out?
Then that's what actually determines your attractiveness.

>>83080154
Don't you like living in a world where women feel like their double standards are justified because they unironically believe that only their lived experience is real?